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how long do you think a perfect sex should last,and please don't answer "as long as it should",i mean some girls say 30 min some say 20 min at lesat.and what is your ideal sex time?or what was the shortest sex period you had?
well personally i think it varies.. Ive talked to some girls where 15-20 mins was awesome... but for some its more like 1....or 1 1/2 thats normal. SO really it more or less depends on the people. I cantimagine anything less than half an hour but thats jsut me.
when someone is like tense and stuff or whatever, why do people say "he needs to get layed."?
people say that because the peson is tense and neds sex to help them chill out and calm down.
so if people agree and think that smoking is bad and alcoholism is bad why do people think that suicidal-minded rock bands and stuff like that push the limiting line of "individualism" is not bad and is just being individually unique? surely you cant say that child pornography is just uniqueness that someone has that you shouldn't try to take away someone from doing because you dont wanna interfere with their individualism? or alcohol addictions or smoking? so what makes the difference?
i just dont understand beccause ive had a number of friends whos fallen into the wrong paths (serious depression cutting themselves and suicidal attempts and one actually killed herself :() after being "emo" and the "misunderstood kid" who's always considered herself depressed. i dont mean to label but a general trend was they listened to songs about deaths 24/7 and stuff. theres no hard proof that emo bands and their intense promoting of "individualism" and "being yourself" beyond the line cause these things but then again, there's no scientific proof that child porn is bad, it just is... so why wouldnt anyone agree with me?
ok i get what you are tryin to say, but you have to realize what you are comparing. You are tryin to compare "emo" and rock music to child porn and alchoholism and smoking. those are very diffrent things. first off drinking nad smoking arent really ways to make some one an idividual. ACtually alot of the time people start trying those thingd to be like everyone else, they are peer pressured into having their first smoke or first shot so that they are accepted and feel like they belong, child porn is a bit more unique but is wrong, its wrong just because its wrong because those children are innnocent and things like that are taking inncoence away from those children and the people that put kids into that are disgusting. The kids dont know whats going on, they dont fully understand what is happening. And for the music, music is an art form, its a way of exspression, just like painting or poetry or acting. Its a way for the person writing/singing the song to vent out their emotions and give out a message and idea to who ever will listen. Sure some times the music is questionable but thats just from diffrent points of veiws. Just because a song has soem depressing points doesnt mean that its goin to make people go out and kill them selves especially rock/metal/"emo" music. Music is some thing people can relate to, and it isnt something anyone should try to censor or change, because self exspression shouldnt be limited.
i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance
well good for you for not wanting to loose your birginity at such a young age, its always best to wait untill your ready. I waited and am very glad. The first time does hurt alot and the next few times after are a lil painfull, but it gets ALOT better, so dont worry adn dont stress out about it. Its best to wait because when your relaxed and comfortable it does hurt less and everything is better. The best advice is to just wait untill you are ready and dont let any one make you do anything that your not comfortable with
okayy this guy i know wants to have sex with me. i don't care if we do or not ... but i'm just scared that i would get pregnant. like REALLY scared ... that's my biggest fear.
i'm a virgin & i don't care who i lose it to ... whether it's my husband or just some hot guy ... i'm not in a hurry to lose it but i would definately like to.
this guy is veryy experienced so i'm sure he knows what he's doing with the condom & everything but i don't know ... i think i'd feel safer with a guy i actually loved.
has anyone ever gotten pregnant from a condom breaking when you used it correctly?
ok pretty much evrything everyone before me said is pretty right. Wait untill you know your ready, its not something that you just do you hvae to be very comfortable with the person adn you should be close. Im not gunna say in love but definetly you should respect each other adn understand. and as for the person who told you to double up and use two condoms... i have no clue what they are thinking, its not better! in fact its worse. And yea the condom might break or coem off. but that happens if your thinkin of havin sex go on the pill. tell your mom you want to because of your periods. thats what I did and its fine, if your not even able to get your self on the pill you probaply shouldnt be havin sex.
well you can still get pregnant
umm yea you can get pregnant..... umm what is the question here, "well you can still get pregant" is more of a stament and is asking not paticular question at all.
i'm a guy, and is it wrong to just want sex? honestly now, its what everyone wants
pretty much just make it clear that all you want is sex. theres ALOT of girls who think the same. just try to make sure no gets lead on or hurt.
does birth control make you fat..? because they're is a possibility that my doctor may put my on it cause im having female problems.and i heard that it does
thanks for the help ill rate all 5's!!!
it affects everyone differntly. for smoe people it clears up acne, you do gain a bit of weight but alot of it is in teh boobs so thats fine. lo, ya might go up a cup but nothin too bad. talk to your docotr too choose the best kind tho
Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal?
im not sure whether that would be considered abnromal or not, but it is probaply just maternal. I understadn when you say you dont feel loved, im sure that there are people who do love you. but if you feel that you need love from some one or something maybe get a bf or go get a pet, not a fish or anythin but like a cat or dog or even a guinea pig. something that stills needs you and will lvoe you, but dont bring another human into the world for such a selfish reason
im kind of embaressed...but like, i masturbate and i think its gross and i know everyone says its not gross and its compltely natural and everyone does it and its not a big deal, but i cant help how i feel you know? but im trying to do it less like only once a week or something and (this sounds dumb) i told god that i would only once a week but it seems like i cant and i've done t like three times already and im worried im going to go to hell for lying to god...and i feel really stupid but i just wanted to ask someone...
Ok i cant give you advice on the goin to hell part, thats not what i believe so i wont say anything regarding religion, but as for masturbation, dont get too stressed out, it prefectly normal and nothing wrong with it. So just do what seems good.
well i had sex with use of condoms but after da first time he used soap n washed da dick but the second time before putting the condom he placed da dick in n ma periods r delaying ????????????/
sorry, would love to help but i dont speak idiot.
Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas?
some guys are just happy to be gettin any, but its a to eacht hier own situation, some do some dont. do what ever is most comfortable for you
I want to go on birth control but do not want to get my parents involoved, I am 16, if i go to my doctor will they keep it confidential if i ask them to or should i go to a clinic. I also want to get birth control properly, not just anything, something that fits me. Another thing is i heard that a pap test needs to be done after you have lost your virginity. Is this true? I would also like to get a pap test without involving my parents, is this possible since i will probably use my OHIP whihc my mother is ion control of. If i pay for it how much willl it be. Please help me i have been wondering about this for a while and cant put it off for any longer.??????
the docotor keeps verythign confidential, I had no problem with out gettin my parents involved, and after you have sex you are supposed to go in for a pap, to make sure everything is doin fine. as for the prices i dont know, im on allese and its 20$ a month for me. good luck! hope i helped!
I am 13 and I still don't have my period!I don't know what is going on, I weigh more than a lot of my friends and they all already have them!!!What do I do????
Love always(please help),
Gina
the age that you get your period varies, its nothin to worry about,theres people who can get it as young as 9 and those who arent untill later like 16/17 but seriously its not really something to look forward to , once ya get it ya wnat it gone, its just annoying!
hey ok i need help. if i am on birth control can i get pregnant?
uh....birth CONTROL, see that big word, control, ya its stop pregnancy, ....99.9% of the time.
I'm 16/f catholic; and I masturbate. Is masturbating a form of lust, thereby making it unacceptable against the commandments? I was just wondering, as I found that I'm virtually addicted, and although it is healthy, I want to know whether it is morally wrong for me.
Cheers. I rate high
it isnt wrong, religion is something you choose to follow, just because it says one thing doesnt mean that its right. follow your own personal beliefs and morals, there is nothing wrong with what your doin and you really shouldnt feel guilty
Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it?
if hey said it was normalhen it sounds like there fine with it, so do as you wish. chances are they looked at porn when they were your age too, and it is perfectly normal.
me and my boyfrend have been going out for 2 months and anytime we kiss i feel an urge to jump ontop of him is that normal
you horny dog;) have fun! lol
oh and to all those people with the ? when is the right time to have sex? its when you are ready.
no body can tell you when to have sex.
and ways my ? is..
how long into the relationship do you have sex.
i rate high for nice people
uh.. you answered your own question...have sex when your ready........
Hey Im really scared.
I am 14 and my mom's friends's son, who is 17,came over to stay with us for the night. My mom went to get groceries and the boy insisted and pulled off my clothes and started to have sex. Today, I took the test. results are, yes, Im pregnant. The guy I don't know his name and im scared to tell my mom. Please help
thats horrible. were you willing, or did he force you because if you were forced, thats rape and you hsould definetly do something about it. as for tellin your mom you wil have to its inevtiable. so be calm explian the situation and it should be as painless as possible
best of luck!