Hey, I'm a girl and I'm 14 years old. Okay I'm sure I love guys and everything, but I'm attracted to my best friend and my best friend is also a girl and 13 years old. I know I'm not attracted to any other girls, but her. It's weird because I feel if I could be with her it would be less complex then with a guy and since I know everything about her and she knows everything about me I feel we could be very happy together. I don't look at other girls or watch porno to see girls at all. I flirt with guys but just a lot less now because I'm focused on my best friend and I. I know for a fact if she doesn't want to be with me that way I'll go back to guys and I'll have no regret in my life becuase i went for her. We've experimented 3 times now and liked it time. One time she's wanted me so badly she's licked her lips at me and at the same time stared deep in my eyes craving to touch me. We do have a plan to try to go to college together and live together and get a big house together. We feel very relaxed and happy around each other. My life couldn't feel anymore complete without her. It's like guys are a last resort because I know if I can't have be with her then I'll go for guys. I'm very scared to tell her because if I do she'll be freaked out and wouldn't wanna be best freinds with me anymore or just be around me anymore. Please help a girl out!
hey hun... I think she is attracted to you too. I mean she obviously shows it.. I think you should go for it whats the worst thats gonna happen if she is really a true friend she won't leave you.. okay well hope i helped and good luck
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alright. for about two years i have been cutting myself. and at first it was very innocent (little scratches with saftey pins... butter knifes, things like that) then one day i ginaed access to a really sharp razor blade and cut extremely deep. and for a year and a half thats how i have been doing it, because it is so addictive. more than once a day, and so i can go to sleep at night. most of my friends found out, one way or another and eventually my best friend got me to tell the guidance counselor. my dad now knows, and so does my psychiatrist (whom i have been seeing since I was 8 and my mom died). but i know he doesnt want me doing it, and niether do my friends. so latelyt i havent. but things got worse. im always pissed off at everyone, and lash out. also, i have been thinking about suicide more and more. i always considered it before but never like this. but when i talk to my friends, all the do is beg and pleed with me to stop. I CANT. when i was on the bus, i started tasting blood in my mouth, and noticed I had been bitting a chunk of my lip off as a pain reliever involuntarily. last night, I cut again and felt SOOO much better. but im so afraid someone will find out and be angry. im on medicine, and everything, it just sux. snapping rubberbands, and all that doesnt help. I know this is long, but im so upset with myself, I just dont know.
I rate 5s.
Manda.
Hun I do the same thing and you just gotta stop, think about what your doing.. and try to redirect yourself in a different way.
Self-injury is not suicidal behavior. In fact, it may be a way to reduce the tension that, left unattended, could result in an actual suicide attempt. Self-injury is the best way the individual knows to self-sooth. It may represent the best attempt the person has at creating the least damage. However, self-injury is highly linked to poor sense of self-worth, and over time, that depressed feeling can evolve into suicidal attempts. And sometimes self-harm may accidentally go farther than intended, and a life-threatening injury may result. Maybe you should schedule out what you are going to do in your day so you won't have time to cut..... journal at the end of the day.. You could have a brain illness... such as Bi-Polar, Major depression, manic depression, and many more. I think maybe talk to someone you trust it'll help I promise... it isnt bad to get put in a hospital i have been there... they help you.. hang in there hun.
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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????
No hun not at all... It was a dare and that just means your a daring person... Girls also do that because they like to impress guys and guys do like that.... I do that stuff all the time and even when it is not a dare... and I kno for a fact that I am not a lesbian well hang in ther hun
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Hey...im a 14 year old bisexual and i want to have intercourse with the same sex...and i also want to tell my parents but i dont know how they will act... :( im kinda worried..
Signed..14 year old bi guy
Your forteen you can't figure out what your sexuality is at this age is... you will soon kno right now you just have different feelings.. happens to almost everybody.. keep it on the down low until you know for sure what you want..... your parents would just tell you that you are only 14.. who knows they could even get mad.. dont tell them you want to have intercourse with the same sex tho.. hope i helped hun
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is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?
Yes that is fine... my sis was pregnat and she said it kind of hurt her a little but the baby was perfectly normal.. if she starts getting uncomfortable you should stop but It won't hurt hope I helped!!
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Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child...
NO NO NO NO..... Don't get an abortion... plz don't.. this guy pierre sounds like a real loser... hey you got a great guy who is willing to be the father.. you want this baby... you should be able to have it... I mean abortion is cruel your the one that made it... so keep it hope i helped hun keep me updated
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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help!
ok if you don't feel comfortable telling your mom then go to a clinic that is sworn to secrecy.. i had the same problem.. and I was pregnat... I had a misscarriage tho. I used 4 store bought pregnacy and they all said i wasn't...But also sometimes girls periods are like this... who knows maybe you will start soon hope i helped good luck keep me informed plz
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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything?
Ok honestly I can tell your boyfriend likes you alot... not many guys can go thru 11 months without anything. If he does this... it doesnt hurt, at first it is a little pressure then it starts to feel good.. not being gross or anything.. No you are not gonna be labeled a slut just don't go around telling everyone. The first time this happened to me. No my cherry was not popped and I was perfectly fine... Go ahead let him try it. You will be fine believe me.. Bunches of Luck!
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP!
well hun first of all how old are you? Second of all... al I can say is ignore them because they know that they are pissing you off and they see it and trust me they like it when they start doing that shit just start laughing like your all cool with it... trust me it will suprise them big time!!
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Doe size matter to girls a lot? im almost 16 and
my penis is not that big and im a bit worried what my girlfriend will think will it matter?
if your girlfriend really loves you it wont matter at all i wouldnt sweat it and if she is mean about it then just she doesnt deserve you. just dont worry, you'll know if she is the right one for you and if not you will find a girl out there that will be much more better for you hope i helped hun
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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..
you know what........ you are way to young for a baby you have your whole life ahead of you, you would need a job, you really don't want to that do you, that would just be another child with there life messed up no offense or anything but a infant deserves a life with a stable mom and dad, your only 15, please dont do anything like that, that is just cruel to the baby and yourself think twice.. alright.. hope i helped hun
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