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MY NAME iS JAMiE.. iM 15 YEARS 0LD, AND iM A HiGH SCH00L S0PH0M0RE.. i AM N0T SiNGLE.. iM TAKEN BY THE BEST B0YFRiEND EVER .. 7.24.04
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okay.. i'm 17/f.
I've been dating my boyfriend (19/M) for about three years. We don't have sex all that often, but everytime we do, we use protection and we always check the condom. I'm a week late for my period. I've been this late for my period before. Him and I haven't had sex in a long time. Do you think i should be worried? I know sometimes stress can lead to not getting your period. I'm really stressed because my boyfriend's moving another state away for college, my parents haven't been talking, I'm worried about my job, and my mom keeps asking me if i got my period and that keeps me worried. Do you think i should be worried? Any help is appreciated. =]
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We did have sex between my last period and this one, but before that.. it was months and I've heard that's known to delay your period if you haven't done it in awhile.


i had sex for the first time last week, and then again this past saturday... after the first time, i was fine and just a little sore for a couple of hours.. however after the second time on saturday, things were a little harder to cope with. i was sore the entire next day and for some reason i kept feeling like i had to pee, but couldn't. and when i actually was able to, it hurt to pee. nothing that physically different happened the second time i had sex, what makes this after-effect so different from the first time? and why is it effecting my urinary system? (link)
You definitely have a Urinary Tract Infection.. and those things are the WORST. One of it's causes is being sexually active. Go to the doctor and get some medicine for that, and drink a LOT of cranberry juice.


not to long ago i had sex with this guy
it was his first time doing anything sexual as well as mine
he has a girlfriend now
im 100 percent positive they dont do anything sexual
i get urges all the time to do stuff with him again
but i know i cant and we dont talk anymore
i think he doesnt like me

do you think he might feel the same urges?
thanks
16/f (link)
he has to think about it! it was his first time. everyone thinks about their first time. maybe you should talk to him, but don't try to break him and his girlfriend up, ya know?


Ok, I'm about to have sex for the first time. I've been waiting for ages and I am prepared now. My boyfriend has had sex before a few times so I need a little help on stuff:
a. Is there going to be a lot of blood?
b. Is it going to hurt? (My friend told me it hurt like a mother- through the whole thing on her first time)
c. Is there anything I should know? I know I'm not going to be that great but I don't want to look stupid.
d. What should I do once it's over? (link)
a) no blood at all. that shouldn't be a problem
b) it might hurt at first but once you start it won't be as bad.. it will start to feel good
c) just be sure that you know birth control might prevent pregnancy, but not STDs.
d) when you're done, you should just take it easy.. after all, you might be tired ;o) hope i helped!
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jamziix16


me and my bf had sex for the first time the other night. it was great... but.... when he finished he pulled out and i dont know if the condom was too small or what. but "it" got all over... we were so scared. i wont get my period until the end of the month. do you think there can be a bad outcome. ps. i cant go to a gynocologist cuz my mom thinks im a virgin. well sorta. i was raped. adn she knows that. but not about this. what can i do. and is there a chance of anything bad happenign. please help. ill rate hella high. (link)
i'm sorry to tell you, but there's always a chance of something bad happening. did the condom break? if "it" wasn't inside of you, normally it dies in air so you might not have much to worry about. however, if it got inside you - you might have a problem. but whatever you do, DO NOT FREAK OUT. stress can make it late.. because that's what happened to me. i got really stressed and i was 6 days late because of it. hope i helped :o)
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im not sure how do i tell im realy not sure im confused if i am well... it soo goes against my religin help will give 5s for good answers (link)
yes, i went through the same thing at one point. if you find yourself having an attraction for a girl, then you are bi-curious. god will forgive you for all sins. if you have another bi friend, why don't you test yourself to see how you really feel. that might be the only way to tell if you really are or not. that's how i found out, and i knew i was just bi-curious, which a lot of people are. hope i helped :o)
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Alright so a few nights ago I got really, really drunk. Like, I can't even remember anything besides taking the shots.
But the thing is
I got drunk and this guy fingered me+I gave him head. I'm a virgin so really the only thing that's 'been in me' was his finger...
and I'm pretty sore
But the thingis...
I don't know If he actually put his dick inside of me. He might've, but he doesn't remember either.
I got my period the next morning, so I'm wondering if there's any possibility at all that I may be pregnant.
thankyou (link)
You are a lucky one. Considering you got your period, you're not pregnant. You can't get it and be pregnant. Hope i helped :o)
&l0ve; jamziix16


Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks (link)
Oh yeah.. I played volleyball, and I was six days late. It's a huge possibility to miss it due to sports.. hope i helped :)
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pretty soon i know my boyfriend and i are going to have sex. OF COURSE we would use a condom, but i am still overly scared of the chance of getting pregnant if the condom breaks. i am trying to figure out what time of the cycle is the best time to Not get pregnant. i know ovulation is the worst time, but what about before, during, and after my period - which is the best time and which is a risky time? i cant find it on any websites and some people tell me different things... please help, im a spaz (link)
i heard 18 days before or something like that.. but make sure to wear a condom because pregnancy scares are the worst thing never.. and if you're afraid, just pull out before he does anything.. hope i helped :)


Well i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has had sex before and I havent (15/f). For the past couple of days I have really been thinking if i want to do it or not. My boyfriend is perfect, but im kinda nervous about the whole thing. Dont get me wrong, I do want to have sex with him, but its only been to months and i think its kinda soon. I have been sort of leading him on, but i really thought about it today and im jsut not ready. What ways can i tell him that im sorry for leading him on but im just not ready yet?????
Please help (link)
i'm assuming you're either a soph. or a freshman in high school, correct? k, you need to decide whether you're ready for that or not. if you are, USE PROTECTION! you know the consequences are bad if you don't. if not, don't let him pressure you into anything. that's the worst situation to be in. and if you decide to do it, don't tell anybody. because that crap gets out like wildfire, and they'll assume crap n everything. im a virgin and ppl say stuff about me, n it's not even true.. so yeah. be careful =) hope i helped !


ok im a girl and i get turned on very easily i guess because anytime i guy touches me in the right way or kisses me or sometimes holds my hand i get really wet "down there".. is that normal for girls to get really wet at the smallest things an to even get wet?! (link)
haha ya.. i get like that too. don't worry, perfectly natural.. just means ur being turned on! congrats =) lol


i know it's still possible to get pregnant when you have your period, but say someone has sex during her period, preferably near the END (and still wears a condom) will that lessen her chance of conceiving? or is there a certain day where you are highly likely to get pregnant? (link)
don't do it while ur on your period in general.. i think that's when it's the most risky. the least likely day is 18 days before your next period. =) hope i helped


Ok look this is a serious question how do you know when you're gonna start your period i mean i know you get cramps but other than that whats your signs and how long will you have them untill it starts

lots of love,
friends4eva


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ah i might be weird about mine, but i break out in pimples before mine, and i get really cranky.. hope that helped


hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this (link)
you COULD be pregnant. the first sign of pregnancy is a missed period.. obviosuly. there is also morning sickness, tender breasts, and more. if you need more information, search 'symptoms of pregnancy' on askjeeves.com.. hope ive helped =) and i hope everything works out for you !


i shave my vagina almost every other day..i was wondering if its bad for me to shave so often.. but i like to be completely clean..ppl say that i shouldnt ( im 22yrs old ) shave there so often but i dont mind if alot of hair grows back coz life is short and i dont want my bf seeing me hairy there. please help.. (link)
i feel weird when it's all gross down there too.. i don't think anything could really happen, except massive razor burn. i don't think it's bad for you.. hope i've helped =)


my boyfriend wants to finger and i was wondering does it hurt ? do you bleed? and do u use two fingers or one? it seems like it would hurt if you used two ? and what should i do about "shaving" down there i don't want to get embarrased but eerytime i shave down there its all stubbly and it get rashy and i get razor bumps! HELP PLEASE! (link)
when you first get fingered, it might hurt a little because you'll be tight. he'll probably only be able to get one or two in. as time goes by, you stretch out down there and you can fit more.. it doesn't hurt if he does it right. and most guys don't like it hairy down there.. i'd shave down there. don't worry about razor bumps.. they're only there for a couple days.. good luck hope that helped =)


what exactly is an orgasm? is it something physical or is it like just a feeling?
im sooooooooooo confused (link)
when a guy fingers you or has sex with you, you get a great feeling and it makes u kinda tired.. and it lasts like 2 seconds unless he keeps doing it. it feels really good tho :o)


yes i have never had sex or anything but have pleasured myself and have gotten fingered a couple times but only one time during the pleasuring i get like a 5 second thing where its awesome but is that the orgasm? im unsure of this.. (link)
haha yea that's the orgasm :) congrats!


Ok, first off we can start by saying over the summer I was suicidal, but no one knew except for this guy that I became real good friends with, John, well John talked me out of killing myself and cutting and stuff and then in September he invited me to his church so I started going, then one of my friends, Deb, found out I was going and she wanted to go with me, just because she likes John. So I did, Now she thinks that I HAVE to take her everytime I go, otherwise she gets pissed at me. She has even told me she doesn't trust me alone with John cause I used to like him. Well I have this other friend, Nicole, and I have promised her that she can go with me this Sunday, she thinks John is cute too. But John also thinks Nicole is pretty, but he only likes Deb as a friend. So should I tell Deb that I'm taking Nicole with me or what? Please I'm stuck in a rut and don't know what to do. Sorry if all of this doesn't make sense! (link)
aright i understand. okay.. well.. i think you need to tell deb that he doesn't like her. be like "okay, well john kinda likes nicole, so i think that i should take her on sunday" and if she gets mad.. tell her that it's not your fault. but no matter what, don't bring them both at the same time! good luck! hope i've helped!


ok so i have had my period for almost three years now and the first two were regular. But i had surgery in the begining of july and i had my period at the end of july. But after that i havent had it, its been 5 months and i know tis sounds crazy but i want it. It sso annoying not noing wen ur gonna get it. Is this normal after having surgery? if it is then y did i get it in july and not after? (link)
you should maybe go to a doctor or the gyno if you think it's serious. maybe it's normal after surgery? good luck, hope i helped, and merry christmas :o)




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