hEY mY nAME iS tiFFANY. i will bE 14 sO0N & i sTARTED tHiS siTE cUZ mANY fRiENDS &` fAMilY mEMBERS hAVE t0lD mE i aM gO0D wiTH aDViCE. s0 d0N`t bE sHY &` aSK aWAY, tHANKS
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society tells us that having premarital sex is wrong, (risk of pregnancy, stds...) but also emotionally, that you cant handle a breakup after you lose your virginity to someone, it changes your life forever, etc. I know all of that, but is it true with EVERY SINGLE relationship that if you have premarital sex, it'll drive you two apart and you'll eventually break up. How wrong is it to have sex in highschool (only with 1 person of course and you keep it between yourself.) my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and I want to have sex with him eventually but I'm afraid it'll make us break up... why does that happen? like think back in the 1940's, if you got pregnant both of you would drop out of highschool and GET MARRIED...why cant it be like that these days? (link)
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BECAUSE GUYS THINK WITH THEIR PENISES. Wouldnt it be nice if it worked that way though? Unfortuntly times have changed. But I agree with you actually. I dont know how true the "having premarital sex will drive you apart" is. But I will say that personally I think that one of my old boyfriends and I broke up because we had sex, and I honestly dont think I go one single day without thinking of him and we broke up like 6 months ago, so maybe it is true?
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Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
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If this was your first time having sex- ever, he tore your hymen. Your hymen is a little piece of skin near your vaginal opening and the first time you have sex it tears and bleeds. Its PERFECTLY normal, dont worry about it!
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watdoes it mean to eat a girl out? (link)
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Oh Lord...
It`s oral sex performed on a girl. You "eat" (shove your mouth and makeout with) her vagina.
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hi its brittany again i told you that my friends are all exprienced in sex and making out and i havent even madeout and you said dont use to much tongue i just wanted to know even though it sounds stupid is that does the guy usually put thier tongue in your mouth or do the girl usually put thier toungue in the guys mouth and if you do put your toungue in thier mouth do you stick your whole tongue in or no?? im srry for asking sucha stupid question. (link)
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Haha it`s ok, it`s not a dumb question! You don`t stick your WHOLE tongue in, you`ll choke the person lol, so just a little is good and as you get more comfortable use a little more each time. Well you both kind of put your tongues in eachothers mouth, like you take turns, which is why I said you need a rythm otherwise it`d be confusing & messy. Good luck babe!!
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you know that new eminem song that goes 'the way you move it, I cant believe it, I aint never seen an Ass like that' Well when he says 'makes my pee pee go Da Doing Doing Doing' < what does that mean?? (link)
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Are you like 10 years old?
>>>>>>>EDITTTTTTTTTT: Ok fucking bitchass who thinks they know it all... (and obviously doesn`t) it apparently means he`s getting a boner from the chick`s ass he is admiring.
Peepee= penis
Doing doing doing= Him becoming stiff
I answered your question so there cunt.
By the way, the song is called "Ass like that" and it`s not new, people only started to listen to it because the music video popularized it.
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ok so i havent madeout before but i have kissed and stuff all my friends are a year older and i love them to death but they all are starting to have sex i dont want to judge them and stuff i just tell them to realize that they are doing and tell them to be safe. and they love the fact that i dont judge im just there for them. well i havent madeout and im worried if im not the best the first time will the guy judge me because most likely he will be expirenced. please help btw (its not that i dont try its just that i worry about my friends) will he judge me and tell his friedns if its not the best?
love Brittany (link)
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Ok, let's break this down issure by issue...
#1. Confront your friends, at least that is what I would do. Tell them straight out in a calm friendly manner how you feel and that you are only doing so because you love and care for them very much. You probably won`t get through to them the first time but if they are true genuine friends they will most likely try to be more careful because they wouldn`t want a good friend like you who cares so much worrying (trust me, I know).
#2. Everyone gets very nervous their first time making out. I personally don`t know the guy so I don`t know if he`s the type to kiss and tell, sorry! However to build up some self confidence, here`s some making out tips:
1. Try to relax a little bit, not too much though you don`t wanna be too loose, but enough to be able to move and still have control of your mouth.
2. Don`t use too much tongue your first time, I`ve had bad experiences with other people who have used too much and it feels like being strangled with a wet slimey worm haha. (But don`t worry if you mess up because it will just make you more nervous, it`s your first time so cut yourself some slack. =] )
3. After your first couple of minutes you will soon become comfortable, if you follow the other person`s rythm you will definetely get the hang of it.
4. And close your eyes, I personally HATE when people have their eyes opened.
5. Don`t force it either let it go naturally, it seems complicated but trust me it`s very easy and you will warm up to it.
And as you become more comfortable you will be able to experiment with different techniques like licking or nibbling your partners lips! But for now, just focus on self control and rlaxing the muscles in your mouth. Practice makes perfect, I hope I helped with that.
If you have any further questioning please leave another one in my inbox! =]
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okay at skool the other day i leaked and it was all over my chair. i coverd my pants with my jackett. i was wearing a extreamly large pad. it went through. am i bleeding to much
this is my 3rd period (link)
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No, you are not bleeding too much. It is your third period so it is still irregular and your body is still getting used to it. Don`t believe it when people say you`ll bleed to death or need a transfusion or that "eat your beats" bullshit, `cause it`s not true. Don`t worry! =]
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okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/ (link)
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Be supportive, when I thought I was pregnant all I wanted was a friend, a shoulder to cry on, someone who would not criticize me. Because yes, she made a mistake, and she knows it she doesn`t need to hear it from other people, she is just a little girl and wants to still feel loved even though she made a huge horrible mistake. She definetely should take a test, be there with her to make her feel better, it will probably help. Whatever you do, don`t tell anyone else, it is not your place to tell! Good luck to you & especially her.
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I'm almost 35 years old, and I've never had a sexual relation, therefore I'm a virgin.
However, I'm not sure if I might have already ruptured my hymen.
Because when I was 17, I was once exercizing (quite moderatly), and all of a sudden I felt something rupturing.
It didn't hurt AT ALL...
I just felt something going through my vagina...
I can't tell if I bled because of this, since I was in my period.
(But there was a piece of unknown matter to me on the sanitary towel...)
So, I would like to know if this might have corresponded to the rupture of the hymen, and if I might bleed if I ever have sex.
(Furthermore, I've been a victim of some serious calumnies in the past, and I would be glad if I could prove my virginity if I ever have sex with a man...)
Thank you very much for your reply. (link)
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This is an odd question. You realize that I am younger than you and I`m not even a virgin anymore? You are 35, go out and enjoy the world you`re too old to be worrying about this stuff, this is kiddie things!! Go relieve your stress!!!
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ok this is kinda weird to be asking but i had to know...If your going to tease about it dont write me... Ok here it goes
every time i get fingerd i tend to cum alot adn i was just woundering if it was normal to cum so much. and if it is normal is there a way to slow it down a little bit? Please, give me any advice. (link)
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Apparently the guy just knows what he`s doing don`t worry about it, it`s normal to cum a lot. I don`t think there`s any ways to slow it down... sorry.
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Is it normal to still be bleeding the day after your first time? (link)
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Yes, he teared your hymen (popped your cherry) it`s normal.
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Ok, I'm 15/f and I was with this guy for 2 months. Well he starting trying to pressure me to have sex with him. And I know this probably sounds stupid but I really wasn't ready to go that far. I know that a lot of other girls have had sex but I just wasn't ready for it yet. So anyway one night we were hanging out and he started to ask me to have sex with him again. I said no and I tried to explain why and make him understand. Well he seemed to understand and I thought that everything was ok. He brought me a drink of water and then I started to feel weird. The next thing I know I'm waking up next to him and now I'm pregnant. My friend said that he probably gave me a drug or something so I would have sex with him. I really don't know and I don't know what to do now. Did he rape me? And what should I do about the pregnancy? (link)
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He definetely date raped you, go to the police or a hospital now while you still have physcial evidence to accuse him.
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Well heres the thing..
Sex..
im completely ready but im scared that the condom will break and ill end up pregnant!
any advice on the subject??
thanks
i rate 5's (link)
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http://www.brown.edu/Student_Services/Health_Services/Health_Education/sexual_health/ssc/condoms.htm
^I hope that helps!
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My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period. (link)
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THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME ONCE. THE SAME EXACT THING! I was CONVINCED I was pregnant, but I ended up not (thank God!). It`s probably just a little late. I don`t know if there`s some technical medical term for this, `cause if there is i don`t know it sorry! But definetely take a test just to be sure, I wish you tons of luck it`s a horrible feeling, I know first hand.
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ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters (link)
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If you`re sure you`re going through with this (because there are MANY things to consider) well here`s what to expect.
First off, USE A CONDOM. And LOTS of lube. It hurts, alot (it did for me at least) so make sure you`re loose. Make sure you won`t get walked in on either haha. Good luck!!
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im a 21 year old male and my girlfriend is 19 and 8 months pregnant.She's thinks i dont find her attractive anymore because it seems like ive lost my sex drive!!what should i do?? (link)
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Do sweet things for her, we love that stuff. Buy her flowers and cute cards and tell her she`s beautiful EVERYDAY & kiss her right after you say it. Hold her tight, cuddle with her & give her different compliments every day. I mean c`mon she`s pregnant so her hormones are raging, it`s not her fault so take it easy on her it`s hard work!
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There is this guy "friend" of mine that I met last year. After a while we were fully aquainted, we started hanging out. I really think he likes me because he has always treated me with respect and kindness. I went to his house the other day, and we started "fooling around". Now he wants to have sex, not as partners, but as friends. He said that this is not considered being a slut or anything because we are friends. Is this true? I really like him. I just got over a really bad situation with the last person I was with. Please help me.
*~!Ayla!~* ( I am only 13, and I'm a girl ) (link)
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Ok, first off I lost mine at 13 (8th grade) but this is a different situation, I lost mine to a boyfriend who I thought I loved very much & we were together a very long time, very strong bond, ect. If I were you I wouldn`t lose it to a friend because there are many things to take into consideration:
1. Your feelings, he could drop you if you ever get emotionally involved.
2. It HURTs ... A LOT, you might not want to be going that far that young, your first time isn`t all it`s cut out to be!!!!
3. You`re risking a reputation as a slut.
4. Are you sure you want to lose it to a FRIEND? He might not even care about you as more than just a "piece of ass". Which is kind of redundant to #1.
5. You could be risking STDs and pregnancy at a VERYYYYYYY young age.
PLEASE take all of these into consideration before making a deicsion, I can`t tell you what to do I can only warn you about the after-effects of each decision!
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My boyfriend really wants to finger me and i just want to know from someone who has gotten fingered before... what should I expect? Thanks. I'll rate anyone with a serious answer. (link)
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Make sure you`re trimmed/shaved and clean and relax it will take a while for you to get loose. I want to comment on that other person too, his finger can`t get stuck you dipshit, so don`t worry about that.
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is there any way to make your boobs look bigger like when im wearing a cami? like pushup bras, but those dont really help me that much.. any good advice? (link)
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I have a few tips that may help:
1. Apply blush inbetween your cleavage. (I haven`t tried it but my friend did and it seemed to work on her.)
2. I heard to apply a little bit of eyeliner beween your cleavage and smudge it (it makes it look shadowy ya know?), but I`ve never done this before or know of anyone who has.
3. I heard eating nuts works to make them grow?
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ok soo there is this guy i like ALOT...okay well he is more experienced n i really want to make out with him but im nervous when we get the chance to n i ive never mad out n i think i am ready i just dont know i really want to i mean i am goin on 14 n all my other friends have...n we had a chance at the talent show we were in the bak of the school ne he was about to kiss me but i turned my head n he freaked out n got all mad i mean i was crying n everything......is this a sign of sumthing am i lesbian...ahhhhhh PLZ HELP!!! email me if ya want tickl3_m3_pink1@yahoo.com
XoOoXoOoX
TiCkL3m3PiNk!
13 f tx (link)
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Nooo, this is not a sign of being lesbian. The reason you probably turned your head and freaked out is because you are nervous, I really don't blame you, your first time is usually unexpected and if your with someone who`s more experienced it just makes you even more nervous. Think about it seriously, there really is no rush because there will be other guys, here`s some making out tips:
1. Try to relax a little bit, not too much though you don`t wanna be loose, but enough to be able to move but still have control of your mouth.
2. Don`t use too much tongue your first time, I`ve had bad experiences with other people who have used too much and it feels like being strangled with a wet slimey worm haha. (But don1t worry if you mess up, it`s your first time so cut yourself some slack.)
3. After your first couple of minutes you will soon become comfortable if you just follow the other person`s rythm and you will definetely get the hang of it.
4. And close your eyes, I personally HATE when people have their eyes opened.
5. Don`t force it either let it go naturally, it seems complicated but trust me it`s very easy and you will warm up to it.
Practice makes perfect, I hope I helped!
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