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how long after having sex should you take the morning after pill? is there anything i can take so i dont get pregnant because i had sex last night and he accidentally "went" in me and the condom broke.. please try and help as soon as possible! (link)
you need to take the morning after pill up to 2 days after sex
striperella


im a 13/m
and i have a lot of pubic hair. is it normal to shave it? (link)
yea because from a girls point of view, which i happen to be , well for me at least i happen to like a hairless man and so i'd say go for it and let me tell you , you'll like the differense and au naturale feel
striperlla


well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff

signed confused?

i rate 5's for GOOD answers

PS im a girl (link)
this doesn't mean anything she's just not as embarassed as you to change your both girls so get over yourself she's just changing
striperella


I'm 15 and one of my inner labias is about three times the size of the other. However, this wasn't always so. It started about 2 years ago when I started masturbating with the showerhead. (Could this be the cause of it?) Anyway, I figured it was just swollen, and the swelling would go down. However, as time went on, it only got worse. It's now a more purple-ish, darker color, and bigger. Anyways, point being, instead of it getting better like I assumed it would, it only got worse. And it's now two years later, and I haven't told anyone about it. I would really like to, but I am too embarrassed. Also, I'm afraid if my parents take me to a gynocologist or anything of that sort, they will find out I'm not a virgin anymore, WHICH CAN NOT HAPPEN. I've been a huge emotional wreck ever since, and I really need to find out more about this. Any advice, information, help, or ideas would be SO greatly appreciated. I rate 5's for any attempt. Thank you.
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have your friends take you to the emergency room this could be very very serious do something about it know or tell your mom that somethings going on down there and when you go to to the gynocologist go to her alone in her office and tell her what's been going on because it's called doctor /patient privaledge and she can't tell your moma nd dad unless you ask her to
it's ok
striperella


i'm wanting to get birth control to be safe but i aint having sex or anything but if i started doing stuff and it happened. i wouldnt get preg. i'm still a virgin. but i want to get on it to be safe. what should i do. get one of my friends to go with me and keep it away from my parent's so they don't know?? (link)
yes let you friends go with you and hide it from your parents and use also condoms and other methods to be safe
striperella


well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
helpless (link)
do not i reapeat do not ask your mom again and next time yo have money and go shopping with your friends buy one , and when they need washed wash them by hand and let them dry in your closet and then either hide them under your bed or put them someplace you won't forget and that she won't look
striperella


i think i'm big enough for a size a but i'm scared to ask my mom and i certainly won't ask my dad but i hate feeling like i should have a bigger bra what should i do do i tell my mom or wait till she says something? (link)
well my dear go to your mom and say you want to go bra shopping and to know your correct size have the lady at the bra shop measure you it will happen maybe again and it's perfetly normal and natural
striperella


i hate haveing hair down there so i was going to shave it but my friend said that doctors dont want you to because your not suppose to. i dont know what to do i don't want to ask my mom but then again i want to shave there badly i need help!
signed
shaving down there (link)
well shaving down there,
there is nothing wrong w/ shaving down there and just because your friend says you should not doesn't mean you have to listen to them it's so much fun and feels absolutely fabulous
striperella


how would one overcome an addiction to pornography and masturbation?

(i have this friend, see...)

17.male (link)
yea so this friend is ....let me guess you. lol but i don't think there's anything wrong w/ masturbating it's a very healthy thing to do and also porn i think can realy help you get into the mood if you know what i'm saying
so it's good
striperella


ok... I'm 18 yrs old... So for my question... like the beginning of this month I had a gyno appt and she told me that everything was ok... Well now.... my period is suppose to start either today... or tomorrow.... well... it kinda started today.. but its not like my regular period... I mean.. I'm hardly even bleeding at all... not like my normal one where its heavy... I was put on a Antibiotic and the doctor never told me that it could affect my birthcontrol and i never new that... and me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex for like 6 months now.. but ive always always gotten my period on time... and the usual everything... now i'm scared because i'm not sure.... Could I be pregnant???? ;/

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when ou start new meds your peiod coul be affected i don't think you pregnant but to make you at ease i would take and ept test
i know your fine
striperella


well this is kinda hard butt.. well im only 13 and i hang out with a group of all different ages from 11 to 16 and i am the only one who is a virgen! i dont kno what to do alott of them lost their virgenity either when they were 10 or 13 and i dont kno wat to do because i like abcople of my friuends in this grouip as like a boyfreiend and they like me back but i donno wat to because theyr all like sex isa a good thing and its ok to do when ur littlew if u have a condoma dn im afraid they are gonna want me to do stuffwith them that iv nevber donte and i am so0o confuseed please help!

i rate well =] hailey* (link)
well hailey i would say if these guys really like you they will wait til your reaady and if not you shouldn't wast you time on them and its only ok to have sex if deep down you know your ready don't let them pressure you and it's awesome to be a virgin
strperella


I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait? (link)
it's really not my place to say when your ready but if you want to wait till your married then wait and don't let your friends compromise you beliefs because this will happen many times in life so stay strong i hope i've helped
striperella


Ok the subject sounds a little harsh for what I am about to say. My brother watches porn. I mean alot of porn. Its not really occasional, it's routinely. Sometimes I feel bad because, I get a little curious and I watch a video, but I mean now sometimes I feel sick. I regret ever watching the video because all I can think of is its contents. Thats not all I have seen, I have seen pictures and things on TV. I wish I had never seen any of it, because now my mind wanders to places I don't want it to wander. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there anyway for me to restore my "innocence"? (link)
well you can't have your innocence back but i think its healthy to let your mind wander to places you don't want it to b/c if you don't you can't overcome and then your just more sick but you might find out if you let the mind wander u may not feel sick anymore
striperella


i am 30 yrs old and married last 3 yrs but my wife is not happy with me i cannot satisfy her because my penis is small 4 inch in size and thin and my stamina power is also weak please help me i am not happy in my life how i will be able to satisfy my wife (link)
well i'm sorry your gooing through this well i would say maybe you need to talk to your doctor about your problem and ask if you could try viagra,levitra and others like it. another thing you could do is try to watch porn or try different ostions and places like a cheap motel having sex in a taxi or limo and you maybe surprised by the outcome
hope it works
striperella


13/f this is gonna be long. in the past two years i've had three really intense sex dreams where i wake up and i'm really sweaty and kind of shakey and i feel all tingly and stuff. the weird thing is that about a month after i have these dreams i have another dream where i will be in the delivery room at a hospital having the baby. one time i even woke up with cramps in my abdomen. this has happened for the first two times but i only had the last dream like two weeks ago. Are these dreams just a weird...really really weird coincidence or could they mean something?

K.A. (link)
well
you could be have a preminiton or vision of whats to come
or since your a tenn girl its your hormones raging and these dreams could just be a phase
strperella




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