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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
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I lost mine at 15 with a boy I was seeing for 3 months...before we were intimate together. We broke up 3 months ago after dating for 2 years and 3 months. I can tell you the moment you'll know...you'll know. You wont have to question, it will happen. If you're ready no one else will be able to tell you no. You'll be nervous and second guess yourself...but when you are ready you wont. There aren't really any tests you can do...I guess that condom one is good...but it just shows if you are embarassed by it or not. I still can't buy condoms like that, doesn't mean anything.
I wish you the best of luck with you and him, and with your sex situation...and just so you know...a good way to know if you're ready is that sex shouldn't be a situation...it should be a release and showing of intimacy that you want to feel with him.
Xo
Woven...let me know how it goes.
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I write out suicide notes and read them over and over...i write long paragraphs explaining to my family why I killed my self..while I write it I am laughing and thinking how fun this is, I get a thrill out of it. Sometimes I think I am depressed, but I don't feel depressed. I love thinking about suicide, wondering who would be at my funeral, if anyone would cry or care. I feel like I am going crazy, it's always on my mind, am I just crazy? Because I don't have any of the symptoms of depression.. (link)
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You aren't crazy or depressed. I use to do this exact same thing. Just to think of what would occure afterwards, like what my boyfriend would do...or my parents, friends yadda yadda. I got over it after about 8 years of doing it. I recall leaving one of my suiced notes out in the open 'on accident' for my mom to find. She did...and she came to my school thinking I had done it already, on my way to school or something. Well...needless to say I almost put her in the hospital from a heavy and hard hitting panic attack. Yeah, my parents and I dont get along still...but it showed me a little. Maybe you should do this...just set a stage...and play it out...If it doesn't turn out your way...then continue *Best of luck*
Woven
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Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice. (link)
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Your opinions are your own. I'm okay with sex before marriage...it is everyones own decision...but what you are thinking is normal.
I think so anyways
*Hope I helped*
WovenLynx
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I am reguardimg my last queation that nobody answered. It was titled websites?? My question is does anyone know any websites that teens can learn about sex?? I'm 13/f. *danielle leigh (link)
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Yes. I like www.gurl.com Also...go to yahoo and do a search for informational websites for females.
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14/F i am really confused rite now i have this boyfriend who is id say about 3 years older than me [ 17 ] hes a senior im a freshman & hes not a virgin and whatnot and i am . . we`ve been goin out for almost 5 months and hes starting to hint around that he mite want to mess around or somethin and the whole idea really makes me nervous considering hes my first real relationship & considering hes had more experiance than me and i am absolutly clueless . . hes never asked anythin be4 and im afraid that if maybe i dont do anything he mite break up with me . ? or something but i think its more of the fact that im nervous . what do you think i should do?
- confused & clueless
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You answered your own question...if you think he might break up with you because you dont mess around with him then...you shouldn't be with him. I know that may sound like something your mom or dad might say...but come on. If you aren't ready and he can't respect that now...then what else...whats to far...Be careful...seriously. Be nervous...thats normal...completely normal. I was so nervous my teeth chattered...but my boyfriend tried hard to relax me...and he did. But I still was beyond nervous. I still get nervous and we've been sleeping together...for over a year now. Your nerves might just be a way or telling you how much you care for him...but it is also very normal. I think you should wait until you're sure.
*WovenLynx*
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i started my period around the first of august. like the 2nd..about.. for the first time. its september now & i havent started yet this month. will the date i start this month be the date for every month ? ?? help me out w/ this time date stuff (link)
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Give your period about 6 months to a year to find it's normal path and regulate itself. Mine still changes to beginning of the month to the end...just make sure you keep a calendar for the days you started and ended. Normally there should 18 - 24 days from the end of your period until you begin again. That is regulated...but it should not skip months normally...It may though.
*Wovenlynx*
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can you get pregnant if a guy is wearing a condum and pulls out before he cums? (link)
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There are always possiblities to get pregnant. If you are that worried about it...you shouldn't be having sex yet. Not to sound mean...but look at what your question is. The guy not only wore a condom...but pulled out..and you are still worried enough to ask a question about it. The chances of that are slim...but still...you never know. Just be careful...and make sure you are ready.
*WovenLynx*
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if you havn't had your period yet and you have sex can you still get preganat? (link)
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Yes. It is more likely. Your body still produces the eggs, your period is just when they are dispursed. You ovulate before your period...no matter what. Meaning your eggs are fertile. The highest possiblilty for you to get pregnant is before your period...even if you've had your period before. You ovulate and the eggs are highly fetile. Just have protected sex.
*WoveLynx*
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okay so guys are like.. weird.. all of them like want sex from me and i dont want to be like no go away.. but i also wont have sex with them.. whats something i can do to try and tell them i dont want to have sex.. im not mean or anything so please dont put anything mean to say! thanks a bunch! (link)
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No is the best way for that...just no. If they push the question just ignore them or be honest. No matter the way you say it...it may come out mean or not...but honestly...truth is never mean...just interpretted as so.
*WovenLynx*
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Hi
I am 23 yrs old and recently started taking Tri-cyclen brand B. C. pills. I know that you are supposed to take them at the same time each day but no one is perfect. My pills are 28 pack and Sunday start.There was one day when I forgot til 2 hours later and another day for a half hour. I read that combination pills are okay to take off your schedule if you forget, as long as it's within 8 hours or something than it's not considered missed. So I should be fine if Tri-cyclen are combination pills. I assume they are from the TRI part but this is the first time I've taken them ever and rather than making another appt just to ask my MD that one question, is there any experienced birth control takers that can answer my question? I know that you should wait 7 days til you have sex unprotected after you take them so we did that. My bf and I only rely on the pill now since we've been together 6 months and he doesn't want to use condoms anymore. We've both been tested for STDS also so we're okay with that. so I want to make sure that I know what I'm doing.
Can someone please help me?
Thanks, I'd really appreciate it.
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I've never taken Birthcontrol..but I do know that if you get off the pill you have to wait near 3 months before it exits your system completely...so I'm pretty sure if you are 30 minutes to 8 hours late...you're okay. You are 23 years old...then I'd say let him not wear a condom...things will prolly be okay. But, I'm not sure...
*Hope I helped a little*
Woven
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ok this is my 4 or 5 period (don't really remember) and it started on wednesday and on friday night i had like very very very little blood and over night there was none at all so it was 12 hours with no blood and now all of sudden i had kinda alot what the heck!? Please don' tell me "thats the way the body works or your periiod is iiregualr" i wanna why that happened?! (link)
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Okay, I wont tell you that...but I will tell you it may be a possiblity. But...actually it is most likely because your period is brand new...so your body isn't use to it yet. But...mine still does that sometimes. It might of been the position you slept in. *Which is what it is with mine* It might be because you're sleeping with a tampon in...which is SERIOUSLY bad for your body...especially if your period is only a couple months old.
*Hope I helped*
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okay so 2 nights ago i gave my boyfriend head for the 2nd time. the first time he was wearing a condom bc i was to scared of risks. but this time he was not wearing one. he busted in my mouth but as soon as it went in my mouth i spit it into the sink. i didnt wash my mouth out but i spit as much as i could out. i knew what i was doing since i did it once b4 with him & he said it felt really good this time cause he wasnt wearing a condom & all.
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-ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year!! =)
-we are both virgins
-im the only one hes ever done oral with
-we DO love eachother (link)
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You can get HIV from preoforming Oral sex, it isn't common for people who are brand new...if you are the first and know for a fact..then I seriously doubt you have anything to worry about. Just relax...if you believe you are the first for everything...then you are fine. Just be careful is all...make sure you are the first if you are that scared about anything.
*WovenLynx*
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why do guys care if you spit or swallow? (link)
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Because of the different amount of pleasure. I suppose it would feel the same if he came in your mouth and you held it till he was completely done, then spit. It would prolly feel the same as if you swallowed. But, sometimes guys consider spitting as in he cums on your face, or chest or whatever...but not in your mouth. And most guys think it is better for a girl to swallow because of the pleasure that they keep. If you are getting a guy off by head and stop and then use your hand...the difference in texture and such prolly doesn't feel as good for him.
*WovenLynx* Hope I helped.
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okay at the tip of my boobs like where A baby sucks from them I sometimes get stuff there (I dont know what to call it) I quess skin its like I can pick at it and it comes off I just truly dont know what the deal is and what it even is and if it's normal so someone please tell me its so hard to explain?
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Have your breasts been growing resently...if yes, it may just be the fact that your skin is stretching...and it not being use to it, would cause your skin to peel. I'm not sure though...I would probably bring it up with my mom. But...it may just be your skin not knowing what to do from the growing process, if your chest has been growing...then it is probably normal.
*Woven* Hope I helped you.
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does in hurt when myou have sex for the first time iam 15 and a girl (link)
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Yes...it does. But, the pain fades fast...after about 5 minutes or more...but hopefully the guy relaxes you and such...makes you not pay attention to it.
*Wovenlynx*
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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and 1 week he wants to have sex im 14 hes 15 have we been going out long enough (link)
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That is a question only you can answer. I lost mine at 15...but I was ready. In my opinion...if you have to ask if you are ready online...then the answer is no most likely...or else you would have no doubt in your mind. I lost mine at 15, yes...I became sexually active after about a month and a week...also...but...now I'm 17 and me and that boy are still together...I'd be sure before anything...and I dont think you are.
*WovenLynx*
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Hi im 13/f and i have a BIG problem..... ok my boyfriend wants to have sex with me..... and i kept holding it off .. but now i have my period and i DONT want to do it... he got pissed and made up a rumor about me and him having sex.... well my parents found out and i was is big trouble.... ok now its like 1 yr l8ter and my periods are gettin bad and they are really uncomfortable.. so i found out that if i went on the pill they would be easiaer and i would have less of them.... but now how am i soppused to get them without my mom fnding out because i kno if i aske he she will automatticly assume that i would be having sex..... i live peretty far away from a store and i would need a ride....... ok how would i bring this up and how do i not make my mom freak out??? (link)
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You should play more on the pains of your cramps when you get them...show her that they hurt. Then...one day at school go to the nurse and complain about your cramps...call your mom to check you out. Bring it up as if the nurse told you about the fact that Birthcontrol helps with the cramps on younger girls. Or..you could be honest with her.
*WovenLynx*
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well im 16 and im a gurl and im still a virgin in every way but what i want to know is ,is ok to masterbate and when you have sex for the first time does it hurt also when you masterbate does it feel different when you acually have sex or does the pleasure feel the same please help iam i disuging or normal
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*Smiles* Masterbation always feels different when you do it yourself. It still hurts when you have sex, but it will not hurt as badly as it would. The pleasure will most likely feel a lot different, especially if you are into the guy (that always helps). He may not do everything right but the pleasure will also be placed ontop of your nerves, feelings and everything for him.
It's normal to be worried or scared or just curious.
*WovenLynx*
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how do you know when your pregnent?? (link)
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Either take a couple tests to be sure. Um..also, your breasts will become tender, you may either gain or lose weight, um... you may have odd cravings, your period may skip...a couple ways.
Hope I helped a little
*WovenLynx*
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can you have sex during your period? (link)
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You can have sex no matter what. If you bleed a lot, I would advice placing something beneath you, such as a towel or something you can wash. Most girls are actually more aroused on their periods...But yes, you can have sex on your period.
*WovenLynx*
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