Website:
My LivejournalGender:
FemaleLocation:
MassachusettsOccupation:
StudentAge:
19Member Since:
August 4, 2004Answers:
126Last Update:
November 21, 2004Visitors:
8526Favorite Columnists
Ronlina
Mandee
HckyAg89
TheKnightOwl
Main Categories:
Love Life
Theater
General Sex Questions
View All
about
I'm just some girl. I don't really stand out much unless I'm on a stage. I'm not loud unless I get angry. And I don't love unless its proven to me first. I've been hurt almost beyond repair by people I've loved and trusted. But I can only grow from that. I live my life by my own accord. I love my parents more than anything, they have given me an amazing home to grow up in, someplace I want to come back to. I have a boyfriend who has been my best friend for a long time, he's helped me get through a lot. We've been each other's rock when times got hard.I have my dreams and aspirations, and while some may not come true... the most important things is to know I've tried my hardest. I trust my intuition more than I trust any living person. My gut has never failed me, but unfortunately, I have failed it.
Someone once told me that I don't live in the "real world", that I live in a box - fortunately for that person, they never lived my life. My life is real to me, and me alone. I've been through a lot... I've been hurt, I've laughed.. I've seen life, and death... tears of sadness and tears of joy. I've felt every emotion known to man. Hatred, Love, Sadness, Joy, Ultimate Bliss, Anger.. So don't judge me until you actually get to know me. There's more to me than just about anyone knows. Even my closest of friends.
I'm the "Dear Abby" of all of my friends.
advice
I'm and 18 year old female,not a newbie to having sex, about 3 diff partners including my current boyfriend... thing is, whenever I have sex, no matter who it is or what position (guy or girl-I'm bi) I just get nothing from it. Not even the beginnings of an orgasm. I do okay on my own, I'm satisfied anyway, but when it comes to sex I have to fake it since I just can't get there. It feels good, and I enjoy the act just no climax ya?
Anything I can do about this?
Hmm, this is a tough question to answer. Have you tried to do it with a vibrator or something along those lines? That could possibly help you. If that doesn't work for you either, then maybe the girl or guys you are with just aren't hitting the right spots inside you to make you climax. Its harder on a female body to hit those spots because unlike a guy, they're on the inside. And our bodies are all different from each other, so out spots are in different places. If this really starts to bother you, maybe you could talk to your GYN or someone about it. They would probably at least know WHY this is happening.
I hope everything works out and you are able to find a way to reach your climax. Try everything you can, objects, positions, etc. etc. I hope I helped in some way.
Um, I like having sex, I'm not going to lie. But the last time I did, the guy I did it with kind of... made me have anal sex with him. And I tried to say it hurt but he didn't stop. I said it loud but when I told him afterwards, he said he didn't hear me. I cried afterwards b/c it hurt so bad. Is it my fault? I didn't want to do it... I feel gross. What do you think?
xoxo Alyssa*
I hate to say this, however, if you told him to stop and he didn't, then that is considered to be rape. He didn't listen to your words and you telling him not to... I do not think this is your fault, because you were just trying something new, but you didn't want to go ahead with it. You made your own decision, and well, so did he. I suggest if you truly need to get this out and it is bothering you this much, talk to an adult or a counselor about this.
I hope I helped. Good luck, hunni.
I'm 15 n me n my boyfriend are in love, we've been together for a long time n we have been through everything together. We feel like we're ready to have a baby i just dont kno what people would think n stuff, if we feel liek we're ready should we proceed with it or not? helppp..
I believe that if you and your boyfriend feel truly ready to have a baby right now, then you should STILL feel ready to have a baby after you graduate from high school. The graduating situation is more ideal for many reasons, because 1) you won't have to worry about who will take care of the baby while you are at school 2) you can truly see if your relationship will outlast high school 3) you can make the choice to further your education and again wait to have a baby 4) you can make a life for yourself and build up enough of a substantial background to bring a child up in.
Once you accomplish all of this, only then do I personally thing you should have a baby with your boyfriend. At the age of 15, I believe that you should focus on your education, that way any future children you have, you can focus on them and making their lives as promising as you can.
I apologize if I have offended or confused you at all. I hope I helped in some parts. I know you probably don't want to hear that most high school relationships don't last, however, I think that if you put your relationship to the test and make SURE its sturdy and that it will last your entire lifetime, then you can make your decision. I hope I helped. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask, hun. Good luck.
OK I REALLY NEED HELP. i am a girl and i have questions i will rate 5s no matter wat. ok well here goes: when i masturbate i usually rub it with something like a pillow or blanket. i don't really like to finger, i don't find a lot of pleasure in that. is that weird? please be honest. second thing: i don't know if i orgasm or not. it feels really good and i know that i'm "done" but i don't know if i actually Orgasmed or not. what's the feeling? does a bunch of stuff come out? more than the wetness before? how do i tell
Warning: this answer sounds really dirty, and there is no polite way to word this. Ok, well here goes...
Masturbation doesn't just have to be with your fingers. Hence the creation of vibrators and dildos that people use. Different women "get off" in different ways. You have no idea what some people use, and I am not about to write in here the things I have heard about. About the whole orgasming thing, I've never heard of their being a specific way for a girl to "finish", I've heard that its different for every girl. Some girls let out more wetness, some girls don't. When you feel "done", then I'd assume you have had one.
I hope this helped. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask.
Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx
-x- unknown -x-
I think that if you need to ask other people if you should have sex with someone as a gift, then I don't believe that you are ready. My advice is to wait until YOU feel you're ready.
How old do u have to be to have sex?
You don't need to be a certain age to have sex. You just need to know when you are ready. You will know when the right time comes.
I've been goin out with this guy for about a year now. We both really like each other and I believe it could be love (I'm 18)... we've talked about having sex, we're both virgins and he told me he's ready to have sex with me and wouldn't push me if I wasn't (and he hasn't pushed me at all)... but I don't really know if I am or aren't... so how can I tell for sure if I'm ready?!
I say, make sure you are ready first, go to the doctor and get onto birth control, and then make your decision.
Good luck
((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think?
OK, I am going to start out by asking... what are your feelings for this guy (like or love?) Secondly, how does he feel back? Like, how does he treat you? And finally, how long have you been together? I believe that sex should only be 'had' if love is the case from BOTH parties. There are too many possible side effects from having sex. Not to scare you, but it WILL hurt you really badly, because your body isn't used to that type of "activity." I personally, don't believe that you are ready. If you are having all of these worries and doubts, you shouldn't even be thinking about sex.
Well, this is all I can think of right now, but if you need anything else, you have my name.
Good luck (stay safe)
im horney.. no guys here, what should i do?!
Do whatever... feels right to you. =)