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Don't enjoy it
I'm and 18 year old female,not a newbie to having sex, about 3 diff partners including my current boyfriend... thing is, whenever I have sex, no matter who it is or what position (guy or girl-I'm bi) I just get nothing from it. Not even the beginnings of an orgasm. I do okay on my own, I'm satisfied anyway, but when it comes to sex I have to fake it since I just can't get there. It feels good, and I enjoy the act just no climax ya?
Anything I can do about this?
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Its the symptons of herpes I think u shud go to a hospital straight away
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tell the person EXACTLY what you like and how you like it. its a real turn on for someone to direct you the right way so you can get off. be very straightforward.
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Are you sure you're sticking things in the right holes? Because believe it or not, you just can't get an orgasm from being porked in the belly button.
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Don't stress too much on having an orgasm, because this alone can cause you to not have one. Just go with the flow, and just enjoy yourself and get in the moment of it. It will happen eventually, but don't push yourself.
Try to relax, and don't switch positions too often during the act especially if it feels good the way you're doing it.
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Well if there is no satisfaction why to do proceed doign it. If you dont get anything then all you are doing is risking getting pregnet.I advise you to stop have sex!
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oh yea and you anwer your question in my feedback book yes i am 13.
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Yes - stop faking it. When you fake an orgasm, the message you are giving your partner is that they are doing everything exactly right...which obviously isn't true.
If you know what makes you feel good, for example through masturbation, then try to incorporate those motions/activities into your regular sex. Teach your partner what turns you on and how to touch you. If you can't speak up about your sexual needs, nobody else is going to do it for you.
I'll also point out that other ingrediants for pleasure are: trust, good communication, foreplay, a solid relationship, and a good working knowledge of your own body.
Good luck.
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Hmm, this is a tough question to answer. Have you tried to do it with a vibrator or something along those lines? That could possibly help you. If that doesn't work for you either, then maybe the girl or guys you are with just aren't hitting the right spots inside you to make you climax. Its harder on a female body to hit those spots because unlike a guy, they're on the inside. And our bodies are all different from each other, so out spots are in different places. If this really starts to bother you, maybe you could talk to your GYN or someone about it. They would probably at least know WHY this is happening.
I hope everything works out and you are able to find a way to reach your climax. Try everything you can, objects, positions, etc. etc. I hope I helped in some way.
<3 Sammypie
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