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Hi!!! We're Regina & Gretchen! This is our Advice Column! We give the best advice and like looovveee to help people with their problems! We are like both really experienced so you can ask us anything!By the way, Regina is the one on the left and me (Gretchen)is the one on the right!

xoxo Regina & Gretchen

~Karen is too stupid to give advice, sorry!~ ♥ from Regina

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does anyone really know when they are ready to have sex? does everyone have doubts about their first time?
i'm very indecisive in the first place and have doubts about everything, and i'm afraid i'll never know when i'm actually ready.
does anyone really ever know?

You know you are when you find an awesome guy whos willing to pay for child support if you get pregnant!

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i'm a female, 15. and i have some girl friends around my same age that have already lost their virginity. me and my boyfriend almost had sex too but i said no.. but i think the only reason was because i know he's had sex before w/ this other girl and that kind of made me uncomfortable for different reasons. how do i know when i'm completely ready for sex? and how long is a good time to wait to have sex with my boyfriend? and is 15 way to young to lose your virginity? and wow that was a lot of questions :) haha thanks.

Just because other girls are doing it, does not mean you have to. If you want to become a teen mom, then go ahead sweetie!

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alright well my boyfriend and i have been getting very serious about our relationship. and we havent FULLY had sex yet but i mean hes gotten to my downstairs with his without a condom. he knows how to control his cum so i trusted him. my cherry hasnt been popped yet either..so i guess im still pretty virgin...but what i was wondering was like do you think even though my cherry has not been popped (atleast i dont think so because i havent bled like everyone says you do) something could happen?

Sorry hun, you're not a virgin. Also there is no way to control the "cum." There are a million other ways for sperm to enter and if you haven't been using a condem....well lets hope you're not pregnant and if you are, maybe next time you'll be a little more sensible!

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16/m

I'm hookin up with my friends cousin who is 15yrs old this weekend. I don't really know her too well but i've been told she has the hots for me and that she is " easy " .

I'm not all that great around girls and i don't want to blow my chances with her. Any ideas on how to turn her on?

Try actually acting respectful instead of sounding shallow!

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im 15/f and me and my best guy friend went to a party n both got a little drunk among other things. anyway we ended up having sex and since then i've found out im pregnant and i know its his and i told him about it. hes basically demanding i keep it but see i dont want to b/c its going to destroy my body, reputation,i know i wont be able to keep my gpa above a 4.0, and my mom will kill me. so should i just go behind his back or what?

Just tell your mom. I mean, you're going to have to eventually. it's not like she's not going to notice when your stomach is sticking out! You don't have to keep the baby, the best choice would be adoption. Your guy friend shouldn't have any effect on your choice. He's not even your boyfriend, and he's just as much to blame as you are. That's too bad about you being pregnant, but it was your choice to get drunk so i guess you'll just have to live with it.

Ohh by the way, I was almost pregnant one time too. But thankfully it was just a false alarm and I can go on with my glamourous life as usual. Well, good luck with the baby!

♥ Regina

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I'm 13/female. I want to have sex with my boyfriend. The problem is that he hasn't talked about wearing a condem, and I don't know if I should ask him to. I really love him, and i don't want him to think that i'm like a loser because I have to ask him to wear one. Should i ask him? I rlly need advice

Um, don't ask him to wear one because you'll just feel stupid and he might not like you anymore. Just like go with the flow and whatever happens, happens.

xox Regina && Gretch

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Late last year I mustered up the courage to see a gynocologist because my period is unhealthily sporadic. One of the questions they asked before the check up was "Are you sexually active?" At 15, I don't think it's appropriate to have a partner. However, I would like to know if they ask you the question because the office needs to know if your hymen is broken... or if it has to do with something else. In my case, my hymen is already broken, but I haven't had sex with a partner yet. What should I answer in the future?

You should tell them the truth, because they will believe you. They get alot of youngsters coming in who have been sexually active, so they basically have to ask everyone. The doctors know that you don't have to not be a virgin to have your hymen broken, you could of had it broken exercising or in an activity. I get asked this when I go to the Gyn, too. I just tell them the truth about it. They usually only ask you once if you have the same doctor, so I only had to tell my doctor about my experiences once, but of course if you have a problem down there, they will usually ask you again.

xoxo Reggii

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