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does anyone really know when they are ready to have sex? does everyone have doubts about their first time?
i'm very indecisive in the first place and have doubts about everything, and i'm afraid i'll never know when i'm actually ready.
does anyone really ever know?
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When you're 100% ready to have sex, you'll know. It's just something that clicks in your brain. Your first time should be special. It should be with a person you're in love with; you're comfortable around and are in a committed relationship with. You don't want to give it away to someone you aren't sure about, someone that may just end up dumping you the next day. You only get one first time and that first time should be special.
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Yes. People do know when they are ready.
If you've got doubts, it means you are not ready. What might help is you taking some time to think about your expectations.
Do you want to have sex only in a committed relationship, or not?
How long do you want to know someone before you have sex?
Do you want to be in love?
How will you protect yourself and your parter from possible consequences - pregnancy, STDs/STIs, etc.
Are you ready for the extra pressure sex can put on a relationship?
Do you feel physically and emotionally ready?
When you are ready, you will know. It's okay to have doubts, because they are strong signals from your mind that you need to take more time to think things out.
I wish you the best.
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when its the right time and the right person you know. no matter how in decisive you are its not like your deciding which chip dip to buy. if you have any doubt you should probably trust your instincts. yeah alot of people know when there ready. its your body.
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