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Suicide - A CRY FOR HELP
A suicide attempt is a cry for help -- a desperate effort to end the pain of problems that have become overwhelming.
A new teen suicide hotline is available in Southeastern Idaho through the Bannock Youth Foundation. If you or someone you know is depressed or contemplating suicide, help is available 24 hours a day. Help is free and confidential.
1-800-949-0057
SOS
Teen Suicide Prevention HOTLINE
1-800-949-0057
Let's Talk . . .
SOS Teen HOTLINE: 1-800-949-0057
Emergency Medical Services: 911
What To Say To A Troubled Friend . . .
"I'm here for you."
"I want to hear about what's bothering you."
"I really care about you."
"Let's talk and figure out how to make things better."
"Things are tough now but they will change - you've got to hang in there and I'm here to help."
"I would feel horrible if you hurt yourself and I don't want you to die."
"If I can't help you, I'll help you find someone who can help."
"No one and nothing is worth taking your life for."
What You Can Do To Help A Depressed Or Suicidal Friend.
Listen to your friend with concern.
Ask your friend if he ever felt this bad before. If so, how did he handle the situation?
Share a time when you felt pretty bad and assure your friend that things can and will change.
Be especially concerned if your friend takes drugs and/or alcohol because their judgement is impaired.
Ask if your friend has suicidal thoughts.
Let your friend know that many people think about suicide but never actually attempt it.
Give your friend a hotline number and make sure your friend calls.
Stay with a depressed person. Do something together.
If your friend is suicidal and refuses to get help, tell a responsible adult as soon as possible.
Make specific plans to see your friend the next day.
ANOREXIA HOTLINE
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If you need help, please call the ANAD hotline, 847-831-3438 (Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm, Central Time)
Anorexia, Bulimia & Compulsive Overeating.
Abuse, Rape, Incest Hotline: 1- 800-656-HOPE
Bulimia/Anorexia Hotline: 1-800-227-4785
Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD
Covenant House Crisis Line: 1-800-999-9999
Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE
National Runaway Switchboard: 1-800-621-4000
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-SUICIDE
Peer Violence Hotline: 1-87-REPORT-IT
Young and Pregnant Hotline: 1-800-550-4900
Youth Depression Hotline: 1-800-HIT-HOME
FOR MORE INFORMATION VISIT http://www.library.nashville.org/YA/health.htm
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me and my bf just kissed yesterday..he did it so unexpected i got shocked..and im a little werided out cause i dont think i kissed right and he kissed weird...i love him so much nd it doesnt matter to me..but it just seems weird...i dont know what to do...and me and him want to kiss more
Just go for it girl
It doesnt matter
Practise makes better!!
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Ava
OK i like this guy, Jesse. And everyone who knows him keeps saying he likes you he likes you, but like i can see it i just like cant believe it you know? well anyways, Jesse is really nice, like we met abut a week & 1/2 ago and stuff but like we really hit it off and stuff. WEll it turns out he has a girlfriend, Bethaniee. and i know his girlfriend too. well his girl friend keeps being a little suspicious about me talking to him and hanging out with him cause the last time we hung out it was at my friend Faye's house and we were sitting in her hot tub half of the day talking about random stuff. and i dont know how Bethaniee found out we were in the hot tub but nothing happend so anywys like we were talking on aim and he imed me and we started talkin. then all out of the blue he asked for my cell number. i gave it to him and he called me 5 minutes later. we talked for like 2 hours. Then at like 1 last night he called me and we talked for an hour and stuff then my dad came in and said get off the phone so i hung up on him . then he texted me saying "are u ok?" and "im sorry i got you in trouble" i know i like him but i can't admit it to my friends cause there all like do you like him and i didnt at first but like know i really do.
so my 2 questions are:A.After readding all in info do you think he likes me
&
B.should i tell him i like him
Well congratulations he likes you!!!! imso happy for you its great that wall had that long phone conversation together jsut to get to know each other!!! And you never know, now the he knows you like him, maybe he will ask you out! who knows
GOOD LUCK
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~princess Ava~
well tomorrow i'm going to the doctors for a check up and i'm 14/f and last time i went they looked down my pants and i think its VERY preverted! ( is that normal for most doctors to do?) is there a way i can stop them??
signed: grossed out
It is normal for the doctor to do that. Every so often more like once or twice a year the have to do that to see if your developing "nicely" as they put it. But when you get older or you become sexually active you have to go see an ob-gyn which will seem so much more worse. but dont worry and there isnt anyway to get them to stopp im very sorry
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~Princess Ava~
Well my friend still thinks shes pregnet but hasnt had sex!! Shes geting some symtoms of pregnety!! And if you were pregnet would you be able to suck your stomic in??? And does your bellly button stick out or in like normal???
Get a home pregnancy test. This will be very help ful
Hope i helped and good luck
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.:~ ♥ Princess Ava ♥ ~:.
i had sex w/ my dog.
What do i do? i think im pregnant! will i have puppies or children?
signed,
jonathan
funny very funny
now if you have real questions ask me them but this place is for people who have REAL problems
.:~Princess Ava Mariah Longoria Selenas~:.
my moms best friends son is 14/m (hes going into 9th grade) and we went to dinner with them tonight and he was really quiet and while all the adults were talking and all the kids were running around he picked up his knife and started kinda sawing at the back of his hand and the second he saw that i saw what he was doing, he stopped. and later that night he asked if he could walk home to practice his guitar before they all got home (we are neighbors and we all live close to where we were having dinner but not close enough that most people would walk home right before a big thunderstorm) and when his dad said that they were all going home anyway he looked kind of mad. so i guess i have two questions, can you cut the back of your hand (like cutting suicide wise) and should i be worried about him like what should i do
please answer me really soon because if something happened we would all be heartbroken
and p.s. his mom said that he was never upfront snotty, but he never likes going places with his family and stuff and that he was doing well that night. does that mean anything?
sorry, this is a stupid question but i'm just worried about him!
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You should be worried. Cutting your self is a serious thing. Many people do it so try to get rid of pain. I would recomend talking to him about it. tell him that he needs to see some one about this.
Good luck and hope i helped
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.~:Princess Ava~:.
Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant?
Only if he, um, ejaculated somewhere around your "cha cha" and the sperm found its way it can you get pregnant. If he got no wear near that arean then its almost impossible. And one thing i can say about the late period is that you could be under alot of stress and and that caused you to miss your period. Now if you rare pregnant, i would recomend going to your physician. if thats not possible or can't be arranged, go to your local drug store or pharmacy and buy a home pregnancy test. Just to be safe, i would buy 2 so you can retest. I would recomend EPT. If im correct, it is 99.9% Accurate.
Hope i helped and good luck.
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.:~Princess Ava~:.
ok.....if your bf fingers you will u get preganent?and do u have to have your period to have someone finger you?
No only when the genitals touch each other and the sprem is inserted into the "cha cha" can you get pregnant. And you do not have to ahve your period to be fingered persay.
Good Luck
.:~Princess Ava~:.
ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH
ok first.
-this girl was a virgin and lost her virginity to him
-my boyfriend was a virgin and lost his virginity to her.
-so basically they lost there virginity to each other
-they used protection.
-i was a virgin and lost my virginity to him
-we used protection.
(ok this may sound gross but if your going to talk shit then dont bother writing)
-i made him take it out before he cummed if that helps anything.
Ok, let me make it simple. If she lost her virginity to him, then there was no possible way she could have had an STD. You only contract STD'S through sexual intercourse. Unless during the time they were ingageing in sex she was having intamate relasionships(sp) with another person, she could not have giving you boyfriend an STD. So therefore, you can not have an STD.
There is this guy "friend" of mine that I met last year. After a while we were fully aquainted, we started hanging out. I really think he likes me because he has always treated me with respect and kindness. I went to his house the other day, and we started "fooling around". Now he wants to have sex, not as partners, but as friends. He said that this is not considered being a slut or anything because we are friends. Is this true? I really like him. I just got over a really bad situation with the last person I was with. Please help me.
*~!Ayla!~* ( I am only 13, and I'm a girl )
Trust me . You dont want to give in. Once he gets what he wants, he will drop you like a fly. Plus your still in Junior high. You should atleast hold off untill your around 17 or 18. It maybe hard but it will be worth the while, because your partner will be more mature and experienced. But i also suggest waiting untill marriage. That always wwworks the best.
~Princess Ava~
when you shave your cha cha lol is there any way that you can't get razor burn.. ((the bumps)) thanks
Rub acohol on the parts the were shaved. This will close up the pores and prevent's redness and inchyness. The only side effect is that it will burn a little at first.Afterwords rub some lotion on your bikini line to help also. Preferably no frangranced.
~Princess Ava~
Ok... this is gonna be long and im sry! im 15/f... and i like this guy... but this morning my best friend called me and told me that she had sex with the guy i liked (she liked him too)... i mean they had done stuff before but i just let it go because she's my best friend... but i mean idk what to do... they didnt use protection... and so im worried about my best friend but im also kinda pissed... i mean just giving him a handjob and stuff is one thing but having sex... i mean they're not even going out... its just too much to handle and its really starting to get to me... if u have any tips on helping her find out if she's pregnant... or how early you can take a pregnancy test i would appreciate it... i wanna help her all i can... and if you have any other advice about our friendship and stuff... well thanx!
Dump her. She obviously isn't worth it. I mean if she know you liked him then i would be pissed also. But you seem like a true friend. Tell her to get a home pregnancy test. some can tell if she is pregnant 5 days before her missed period. I recomend E.P.T., which you can find at your local drug store or pharmacy.
~Princess Ava~