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Okay so first I'm a female and 15 from Chicago Illinois.
So I went to my homecoming for my highschool. And afterwards me and the guy I went with (who I am NOT dating) had sex. Well we forgot to use protection. Yeah I know. Dumbass move. Anyway, I got pregnant... My moms cool with it because she had my when she was 16. And my dad doesn't really have any opinoin. I was thinking at first about getting an abortion. My life would be totally ruined if I had a kid. Even though I absouloutly LOVE kids. But then I thought how could I kill a living kid! That's just wrong. So I need to know what I should do. Should I put it up for adoption, let my parents take care of it while i finish schooling, or get an abortion. Or just try to take care of the kid on my own? Any suggestions?
Thanks a ton.
By the way, your pretty much a stud. So im me sometime and maybe we can talk. kily1229
Okay well i personally think abortion is wrong. It's sad that the kid never had a chance to live.
Also don't take care of it yourself, because your right, it will ruin your life and you won't be able to finish school. I love kids too, but i mean you want to be able to get a good education so you can get a good job.
So if you want to keep the kid and your parents are willing to help than go with your parents taking care of it while your in school. That seems like the best option.
If your parents won't help or you just don't want to keep the kid because you are young then go for adoption.
Best of Luck to You
-Jake
lol thank you, and ya i'll im you sometime
14/f. My boyfriend just turned 17. I am a virgin, he isn't. He's had sex with 2 people. We have been together for probably about 4 months. He respects me and I know he loves me and always wants to spend time with me. I know that he wants to have sex but tries his best to repect what I want. I sort of want to have sex, I know he loves me and cares about me. But there is another guy who I talked to before I knew him and he was in love with me. For some reason I stopped talking to him. And I'm just confused about what I want. Please give me advice, and when you have sex, do you immediately start to bleed your first time? and how much? I will rate.
I personally think that 14 is way too young to be having sex. I would wait until you know what you really want. If you have sex, and you aren't ready then you will regret it in the end. If you feel ready and know that he really does care for you then I guess go for it, but like I said before I think you still very young.
Just go with what feels right
-Jake