Okay so first I'm a female and 15 from Chicago Illinois.
So I went to my homecoming for my highschool. And afterwards me and the guy I went with (who I am NOT dating) had sex. Well we forgot to use protection. Yeah I know. Dumbass move. Anyway, I got pregnant... My moms cool with it because she had my when she was 16. And my dad doesn't really have any opinoin. I was thinking at first about getting an abortion. My life would be totally ruined if I had a kid. Even though I absouloutly LOVE kids. But then I thought how could I kill a living kid! That's just wrong. So I need to know what I should do. Should I put it up for adoption, let my parents take care of it while i finish schooling, or get an abortion. Or just try to take care of the kid on my own? Any suggestions?
Thanks a ton.
By the way, your pretty much a stud. So im me sometime and maybe we can talk. kily1229
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Jake1822 answered Monday March 13 2006, 6:05 pm: Okay well i personally think abortion is wrong. It's sad that the kid never had a chance to live.
Also don't take care of it yourself, because your right, it will ruin your life and you won't be able to finish school. I love kids too, but i mean you want to be able to get a good education so you can get a good job.
So if you want to keep the kid and your parents are willing to help than go with your parents taking care of it while your in school. That seems like the best option.
If your parents won't help or you just don't want to keep the kid because you are young then go for adoption.
Best of Luck to You
-Jake
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