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can i be pregnant if my boyfriends hand had barly any prurm on it and fingered me (link)
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Sperm can live in air unlike the myth that is commonly heard of. Sperm lose most of the ability to swim once they hit air, but so long as the semen (the fluid sperm live in) stays moist and wet, the sperm live. When that semenal fluid dries up, the sperm die.
Do not believe it when people tell you that sperm die when they are outside a body. Absorb the information above and spread the word!
Also, there is a possibility of a pregnancy. A normal, healthy male can release between 40 million and 1.2 billion sperm cells in a single ejaculation, so anything is possible. However, it is unlikely.
Next time you guys are intimate, be sure for him to keep one hand designated for you and one hand designated for him. In other words, he can pleasure himself with one hand while he uses the other hand to pleasure you. If he wants to switch hands, make sure he washes his hands throughly or keep a bottle of hand sanitizer nearby.
Hope I Helped!
Jackieee
If you're (or anyone else) questioning my information, I gathered the websites I recieved it on :)
http://scienceline.org/2008/06/ask-olson-sperm/
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pregnancy/AN00281
http://www.ehow.com/about_5447549_long-sperm-live-outside-body.html
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me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for a while i dont want to find a new girlfriend but the one i have doesnt want to have sex but u am always horny so i was wondering if there was anything around the house i could use as a fake vagina because i do not want to go bug one or anything the are expensive? (link)
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You didn't specify how old you were, but I'm assuming you're in your low-mid teens.
By how you phrased your question, it genuinely sounds like all you want from a girlfriend is sex. I should hope you haven't used past girlfriends for sex, because that is so disrespectful and disgusting.
So you're horny. So what? You're just like every other typical, teenage boy. That doesn't mean you should go out and use every girl on the street for your selfish desires.
If you want to have sex, jerk off by yourself. That'll solve your problems. Don't just use your girlfriends to have sex with them, that's rude and most of all disrespectful.
I hope I helped
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i'm 18 and still a virgin. i'm definetly not ashamed of it, actually i'm kinda proud. its not like i'm ugly, actually alot of people are surprised or don't believe me that i'm still a virgin i just refuse to give my virginity to someone who doesn't deserve it and i haven't met anyone worth giving it to yet (i know i'm old fashioned but whatever). i've had a few boyfriends and definetly many opportunities but i just didn't want to. but i feel like everyone my age and even a little younger has had sex. when i hang out with certain friends thats all they talk about. i mean somethings i can contribute because i've done everything else except actual intercourse. but i just feel like i'm alone. is there anyone out there my age virgins? (link)
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Me! I'm also 18, a virgin and proud! I've been dating my boyfriend for 11 months and we are completely content with our relationship. Like you, we've had many opportunities to have sex but, right now, it's something we're not really in a rush to get to.
I wouldn't think of myself as "old-fashioned", more like self-respectful. I definitely live by my own morals, and not everyone else's around me.
And in all honesty, I don't want to give up my virginity for just anyone, or to fit in with society. It's not me. And it might be you too. And that's perfectly normal and respected upon.
Don't be anyone else, be you :)
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Hey! :) So I have to say.. love your advice! And i'm hoping you'll be able to help me out. This may be a bit long but I will appreciate if you can help.
So i'm 20F. Currently don't have a boyfriend. Ok, please don't judge what I want to do I am just asking you to please suggest what I should do to make this happen!
Me and this guy have a great connection. He's sooo cute, and I know he absolutely thinks me and my body are hot haha which is good to know. Well I met him awhile ago and he knew my friend..kinda..and so he told my friend to have me text him because he thought i was just the hottest thing, and had a good feeling about me so i texted him saying hey :) and we talked for a little but he was drinking. well then i find out he forgot to save my number because he was drinking. so anyway this past week or two he was texting my friend and was always asking if she was going to be with me. so last friday, i saw him. long story kinda short :we were in the hot tub, things got steamy we ended up making out and he fingered me. i didn't do anything to him, because i wanted to go back and join the party i think he was kind of mad. later that night i offered to take out the whipped cream even to have fun and he didn't want to!
well he can't text me because he doesn't have my number so I havent really talked to him since that night. it's killing me..i keep thinking about what we did and how he turned me on and i want to do it again!! my parents are leaving in two weeks and i think it'd be fun to have him over but i don't really know how to come about asking him. i don't even know what he thinks about me now?? did he even enjoy the night as much as i did? what if he thinks i'm not willing to please him because i didn't that night? i just think he keeps thinking bad things about me..but thats just me because i'm an insecure person.
don't tell me not to just have a friends with benefits, please. i just don't know what to do?? and i feel weird texting him since he doesn't have my number now! what would i say? i want him to know i want to do more with him and willing, and want him to come over when my parents are gone. Any suggestions?? (link)
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Well you'll never know how he feels about you until you talk to him!
Don't fear texting him. If you want to talk to him, just do it! If hw felt a good connection with you that night at the party, I'm sure he'll be more than happy to talk to you.
There's a solid chance that you'll be able to tell if he wants to talk to you just by his responses. And if he IS into you, he'll save your number and text you on a daily basis.
If you want him to come over, it's just as simple to ask him. Just be like, "so my parents are vacationing in 2 weeks and I think it'd be fun if you came over :)".
You can't put negative thoughts in your head because you'll always be sidetracked by them. If he accepts your invitation to come over when your parents are away or any time before/after that, then just do what you want to him--it's up to you what you do to him.
My main advice here is to be careful, safe and don't do anything you don't want :)
I hope I helped!
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Im like afraid to even touch a guy down there ...like it grosses me out so how do i get used to it?? (link)
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Ahh! Don't be afraid! Honestly, it's definitely not as bad as it initially seems. It does seem gross but it's really not. In fact, the penis has less bacteria than the human mouth.
If you have a boyfriend or something of the sort, then I'll give you a hint or two. Seeing my boyfriend comepletely undressed and walking around like no big deal realllllly made me feel more comfortable with my boyfriend's entire body. It just seems so natural and free. Once you get comfortable with a guy's body visually, you'll feel more relaxed when you touch it. Seriously. And then before you know it, you'll be doing things you always thought you were reluctant to do and you may end up loving it.
There was definitely a time where I thought penises in general were just flat-out gross (sorry, guys!) but now I have no problem at all with them. And I know that might sound weird but hey. I'm so comfortable around my boyfriend dressed or undressed and you can definitely be the same!
There is no reason to be afraid, just get accustomed to his "below the waist" (:
Hope I helped!
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My boyfriend is also pleasing me. I feel bad 'cuz i dont' please him as much as he pleases me. What are some ideas on how i can please him. What are some kinky ways to spice up a love life? lol (link)
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Honestly, your best bet is to ask him what he'd like.
However, last week or so I found an old blindfold I got as a gift. I had my boyfriend lay in my bed and put the blindfold on. I told him that no matter what, he was not allowed to remove the blindfold and he pleasantly agreed. From there, everything is up to your imagination to go wild; from kissing, sucking and licking, he's all yours. He'll love it, I'm sure. My boyfriend admitted I was "driving him crazy", in a good way of course (;
Best of luck! Hope I helped!
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Hi all :) I'll make this as short and simple as I can to conserve your time and patience.
I have never had sex and don't intend to engage in doing so for a good while. In the meantime, my boyfriend has fingered me many many times, not to be rude or anything. By this time, my hymen is already broken, no big deal. Yet I still bleed, kind of excessively. And it's really annoying.
Now I'm not sure, and I apologize if I sound ignorant, but I think I might have a hunch at why this is happening? I thought perhaps because the uterine lining is built with blood to nest a baby or shed during menstruation, that's he's possibly irratating the lining and causing a large amount of blood from the lining to end up on his fingers and in my underwear? Not too sure.
If you know anything about why I keep bleeding, please inform me.
P.S.: even if his nails are short, this keeps happening and I can't think of anything else of why this would keep occurring.
Thank you so much (link)
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ok this is what happening
my parents are out with family friends, and they'll be back any minute so I need your help
heres some background
i volunteer on my cousins softball team (im 17, the girls are 15)
and whatever yea i met this girl, her name is Allison, and we're going out for a while. We have a lot in common, sometimes i help her with her homework. I helped her on an english essay and she still got a C. This is because her teacher is a prick... anywayz
So she came over like an hour ago, and i really want to lose my virginity, so I ask her to have sex
"no i cant its not right" she said but i told her "dont worry i know what im doing, ill be done in like 10 seconds, plus ill give you 2 n64 games if you say yes"
So I gave her diddy kong racing and ken griffey jr baseball, and then she goes to my room. shes a bit confused and scared.
Then i think to myself - yo I need lube right? Cuz I hear you guys on TW saying you need to lube up her clit otherwise it wont fit in properly.
Ok so I have no lube, but i really want to lose my virginity - so i grab some butter from the fridge, but its cold, it wont melt - so i microwaved it for 8 minutes, and then i put it in a glass and poured it on her cooter, now shes saying i burned it.
I don't know what to do, my parents are going to be back any minute and shes crying in the bathroom plz help you guys are really smrat and please help me.
Any idea how to shut her up? Should i give her another n64 game? (link)
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Wow! I don't even know where to begin. I give everyone respect on this website, but what you did to this poor girl is so messed up in every way imaginable. You told this girl you'd give her 2 video games if she has sex with you? And you think that's ok? And then you burn her with got butter because you have no lube?
Guys like you should probably have their balls cut off, really. You have no respect for girls whatsoever and why she even wants to talk to you is such a mystery to me, because let me tell you, if I was her, I'd cut your nuts off myself. Grow up.
Haven't your parents taught you anything about respecting girls? People like you really put guys to shame. What you did was so sick and ridiculous, I don't know how you can sleep at night knowing what you did. You owe this girl a thousand apologies.
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can i be pregnant from pregnant...what are the chances?... me and my bf did the pull out method..and iam afraid to do the preg test cause iam scared what results i will get (link)
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Yes, you can get pregnant from pre-cum. The "pull-out" method is not legit. You could most certainly be pregnant, and my best suggestion would be to go get a pregnancy test.
Remember to not make a mistake like this again and pass the word on to your friends that they shouldn't use the "pull-out" method either.
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ok so....
15/f
So...um...my boyfriend and I have been hanging out a lot at his house and we're usually alone cuz his parents work and stuff. Lately he's been getting very....touchy. I mean, we've always kissed, but lately he's been going for my breasts and running his hands up my shirt and over my stomach and trying to get his hand down my pants. I really don't think I'm ready for that. I mean, I love him, a lot. But I don't think I'm ready for that. For him to finger me. Or give him a hj or bj, like he wants. How do you know you're ready for sex? But, actually, I guess mainly I'm concerned about, how do I get out of doing what I'm not ready to do, without him getting angry and/or dumping me? I mean, he has a bit of a temper, and he is very VERY inpatient, and he's gotten close to hitting me before. He'll raise a hand and then walk away, slam a few doors, kick some furniture and then come back like nothing happened. So, really, basically, how do I tell him no without getting hurt? I don't want to loose him, because I really really love him. But I'm just not ready for sex.
Sorry it's so long. Thanks for reading. Any help appreciated.
Chail (link)
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Let me first say this, if he has gotten to the point where he has been close to hitting you, you are making the horrible mistake of staying with this kid. I don't care how angry or impatient he is, he is not to raise his hand at you, EVER. Whether or not he's a great guy, no one should ever ever ever physically and purposely hurt you. If I were you, I'd dump him right now considering just the little bit of information you gave of him. There are so many women who are being abused and can't get out of their relationship because they'd risk being abused more; you need to leave him while you can. Before he starts to actually hurt you.
I hope you take me up on this advice and understand what I'm trying to convey.
In the meantime, if you feel like you're not ready for ANYTHING, you need to say something. Don't let things just happen if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
Let me tell you, a while back, I asked my boyfriend if he respected me, and as I'd hoped, he said yes. Right after I told him that I take things very slow and that I didn't intend on changing the way I am. He respects that and to this very day, when things start getting "touchy" he'll tell me, "if you're uncomfortable with anything, just tell me". He respects me and he respects my body. Your boyfriend needs to do the same thing. And if he doesn't know that:
A.) He's probably not worth your time (which I don't think he is anyway, but you obviously have a different view)
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B.) You need to make it PERFECTLY clear of your standards and morals.
If you're afraid he's going to blow up and get angry, there is no doubt in my mind this guy is complete garbage. If he's not gonna be patient and respectful towards you, he doesn't deserve anyone.
I can't tell you what/what not to do. But I can advise you and say what I think is right/best for you. Please make the best decision and break up with him. You may say you love him, but if he really loved you, he wouldn't raise his hand at you.
I hope I helped.
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I'm 13 and I just started my period 2 days ago. The first day there was brown period, and then there wasnt any period at night. The next day there was brown period and nothing at night too. Then the next day, there was nothing all day. Is this normal? (link)
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Eh, when I first got mine, it was brown the whooole week--no red at all. And even now after 4 or so years of having it, I usually don't bleed at night. It's probably normal, but if you feel uncomfortable, talk to your mom, dad or older sister if you have one.
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i've never touched myself and im grossed out by the vagina and i don't really know how to masturbate so i don't wanna mess anything up down there by trying....i kinda want my boyfriend to finger me but i don't know if it will hurt or anything...ive tried clitoris stimulation when i was dry humping my boyfriend i guess it stimulated it? is that normal? and my other question is, is being grossed out by my own vagina normal?
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I'm kinda in the same boat as you. I have never maturbated in my life, and I'm in the middle of figuring out how I would really feel if my boyfriend fingered me, nevermind my own self. I can't tell you exactly what it feels like because I haven't experienced it, but I have used a tampon, which doesn't hurt, it's just a little uncomfortable when you're putting it in, if you've ever used one. If you think about a tampon, it's about the size of a male finger, so think about how the feeling would be about putting 1 tampon in or 2 tampons and so on. To some people, I'm sure it's a little painful, but to others, it's just like putting in a tampon which is really no big deal.
Being grossed out by your vagina is normal. I can't say I know many girls who are very "vagina friendly" and talk openly about it... I know "down there" makes for an awkward conversation and just thinking about it kinda weirds me out a bit, to be honest. But girls shouldn't feel grossed out by it. The vagina is very clean and, yeah, it may smell every once and a while, but so do your armpits lol. I hope my answer helped you, good luck, girl!
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she is 16 and her friends tell me tht she wants me to but i want to know if girls like those types of things. (link)
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I think your best bet is to wait. Honestly, if it's only been a month and a half, that's a little strange that she wants to be eaten out. I wouldn't like it, and I'm sure a good majority of other girls wouldn't either. I wouldn't do it. You want to respect her, and whether she wants to do whatever it is that she wants, she could easily break it off with you and say to other girls/people that all you wanted was to get in her pants. Now, I'm not saying that any of that is/will going to happen. But it's always a possibility. Theme of the lesson: I would refrain from doing so. Go in for a good makeout. It always hits the spot.
Hope I helped
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Hi, I'm 14 and me and my girl have been dating for about a month and a half and I want to know if girls are comfortable with being eatin out or felt up or should I just stick to kissing?? Thanks, justin (link)
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If I was dating my boyfriend for a month and a half, I would feel disrespected by being felt up. And I would certainly not allow myself to be eaten out. In my eyes, that is just immoral and rather disrespectful. If I were you, I'd just stick to kissing for now. And then as your relationship progresses, you can try new stuff. But I would definitely not suggest rushing into things. I hope I understood your question correctly.
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15/F
I've never kissed a guy but over half the kids I know have already lost their virginity or gotten way close to losing it. And they're all like "YOUVE never kissed a guy? youre gonna end up like the 40 year old virgin, oh i know this guy for you" or whatever
And I 'pleasure' myself and stuff but just doing that, I feel SOOO guilty like I cant leave my room after.
And theres this guy that wants to do stuff with me and I really like him, and I talked to my mom about how I dont think hes that good of a person to hang around and she told me how my sister lost her virginity to a guy when she was my age.. which didnt really help.
But I reallly wanna do SOMETHING with a guy to know how it feels.. but at the same time I dont because I like being special, and feeling proud, and seeing peoples reactions when I tell them.
I just don't know what to do :[
this is highschool and its hard (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I wanted my first kiss to be with someone I really liked and someone who gave me butterflies every time I saw him. I waited for my (now) boyfriend to ask me out and I even made him wait like 2 and half weeks to actually kiss him. My theory is, you have a first for everything. Do you really want your first [kiss] to be with someone you don't have a lot of feelings for? It may seem like the first kiss is no biggie, but the thing is, the first should still be special. And for me it was. I think the same should apply to you and many other girls who feel the way you do.
Who cares what people have to say? If they didn't wait for someone they cared about, then that sucks for them. I gave my first kiss to someone who DESERVED it. I'm not just going to let any random guy have it. It was special to me and should be for other girls as well.
Teens let middle/high school really get to them. Yes, we entered a bigger school with older kids, who are having sex. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't wait for a committed relationship to do the same. Fitting into the crowd is so dragged out. Be yourself and do what you believe is right. And if that means waiting for the perfect person who you believe is the right guy, then so be it.
Wait. Patience is truly a virtue. Don't take yourself for granted and try and become like every other girl who thinks Abercrombie is the only clothes line out there, kisses and hooks up with every guy she knows. Be yourself and be unique, it really pays off. And my guy finds it quite attractive.
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i'm 15, having a really hard time at school getting kicked out of all my lessons, argueing with all the teachers and everyone is constantly going on at me.
then at home it's worse me and my mum argue almost every day and we usually get to the point where we hit one another or say really hurtful things, my dad doesn't get involved because he's recently started working away all week and is with him girlfriend over the weekend.
i don't really go out with my friends anymore because i'm never in the mood and with boys it just never works out.
everything just seems to be going wrong at once and i don't know what to do, i try put on a brave face but i just sit and cry when i'm alone.
i thought about suicide but i don't know if thats the answer.
i have 62 pills (paracetamol, ibruprofen and nerofen) all in my closet hidden for when i feel it all gets too much and i can just end it.
i don't have anyone to turn to because i don't want they're pity and hate speaking to people about how i feel.
i just wished i was happy i'm only a young girl but i'm not.
i just want to know what to do? please. (link)
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First, I think you should seek immediate help. Call a suicide hotline even though you may think its not the answer. Please call a hotline like 1-800-SUICIDE
In the mean time, I think you best bet is to talk to your mom about your problem or a teacher or a guidance counselor (anyone that you can trust) because they can seek the help you need.
I can't say much more than to see help for your own good. So please, tell a trusted adult or older sibling about how you feel and they can get you help. Just tell anyone.
I really hope this helps.
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