Lately I have been noticing that down around ,y vaginal area I have been kinda itchy... and like I went to the store and bought some kinda cream stuff but the last time I out it on it was like my skin was pelling! Can some1 plz give me an Idea on what I have?
Thanks.. I rate 5's!
I think that you should go to an English class and learn how to spell and speak correctly. And about your vagina, you should go cry because you have vagina cancer!
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Well, My friend and i are both 13 years old and girls. I asked my best friend if she would like to experiment again and she didn't mind. I was wondering could there be a possibility that she likes me or just likes what we did together because when i asked her she said it was no problem, but she also added we shouldn't do it too often , (Nothing "below the belt"). If it is normal does anyone out there know anything else we can experiment with each other above the belt and below. I'm also wondering is it common for me as a African American girl to be experimenting with my Polish American bff? I rate high. Holla back!!
Mhm...You are most def. a lesbian. No need to experiment any more, just go and for the whole nine yards. If you are asking what else to do when experimenting, that def. says that you are a lesbian.
P.S. In return for this awesome advice, you should give me a high rating.
-Inga
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hey i need your help i just saw the guy that i lost my virginity too and havent seen for 5 months. He started flirting with me again and told me he never meant the stupid shit he said in the past. He then told me that i could call him whenever i wanted and if he ever hurt me again he would let me kick him where it counts. Then he said he loved me dont call me stupid or anything but i really love this guy. do you think he was just telling me that to get down my pants or somthing please help me i really am confused and it actually hurts realyl bad!
Get back with him if you want, but for like a couple of months don't do anything except for making out. Do not let him feel you up or feel you downstairs. If he can wait just to touch your boobies then you can say that he loves you.
-Inga
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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???
are you freaking serious??!?!?! You are only 14, kid and you thinking about having sex with someone you feel only close to and not love. You are really messed up in the head. What happens if you get pregers? If you come back here with a question on what to do with your baby, I will laugh because most of these people are telling you to not do it. You are being very stupid and not thinking with your head. You are thinking with your vagina. Hope this helps.
-Inga
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i dont want to sound stupid when i say this but im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together over a year now and well i havnt done anything besides kiss him, see ive never done anything with anyone and well lets just say i have what usto be a "sex god" for a bf until he got with me. I want to do somthing like give him a hand job or blow job because as much as he tells me he doesnt mind i know he does. im just wondering... how? i mean what do you do while your giving and hand job? what do you look at? how do you do it? i dont wanna totaly suck at it and i wanna know what im doing before i try it!! please anything? any tips? advise? anything?
If you do not know how to do it, because it is kind of commonasense, then do not do it. You are ONLY 14 years old. What is the matter with kids these days? Is it cool to have had sexual experience as soon as possible? I do not think it is. If you don't feel comfortable, then do not do it. It is as simple as that. Sometimes people can be so stupid.
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What is the right age for a male to start getting erection and be able to burst?? I am thirteen years old but I still cant have any erection...But all of my friends (same age) say they can have erection...Some even say they have been having erection since they were 11 or 12?? Maybe this sounds gay but I have actually seen them having erection in the mall or in the school shower...Is this bad? I am so worry about it...Is it possible that I won't be able to have any erection throughout my whole life??
The right age for a boy to get an erection is 3 years old. I read it on a very professional website.
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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track?
OH EM GEE!!! Wow! You are kind of stupid for cheating on your boyfriend and you are totally stupid for having sex without a condom. What were you thinking. I do not care if I am being mean becausae you made a really stupid mistake. You are fourteen and you are already having sex! What is wrong with you? Did you think that you would be cool? That is stupid. First of all, if you are thinking of getting an abortion, that makes you even more stupid!!!!! You know if you get an abortion you will be killing a little kid. Good luck with feeling like shit the rest of your life. You can go through wit hthe pregnancy and give he/she up for adoption. I was reading the comments you recieved and whoever wrote that you need to drop out of high school is REALLY retarded and stupid. Gosh, that bothers me that people say that you have to drop out of high school to have a kid. You can go to high school and then take a maternity leave. Some girls did that in my high school. You should call over your "boyfriend" to your house and make sure that your parents are home but not by you so if anything bad were to happen, they could be there, then tell your "boyfriend" that you are pregers and also tell "Mike" that you are pregers. YOU SHOULD NOT GET AN ABORTION BECAUSE THEN YOU WILL BE A MURDERER! If you do not want the child, give the child up for adoption. But otherwise, this is a BAD, BAD situation for you. Abstinence until marriage would have helped you stay out of it. Nice work. WOW! I still cannot believe that you are 14 and pregers. You need to not have sex anymore. That is my BEST advice to you. I hope that I helped you in some weird way.
-Inga
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ok, so i have this really personal problem, i am a 16 year old girl, but i was born with male genatiles. I dont know what to do becuase i have a steady boyfriend, we have been seeing eachother for about 3 months. We have gone to third base( but i gave him pleasure not the other way around)and he told me taht he wants to do the smae for me. Im afraid that if he sees my 'down there area' that he will be grossed out. But i really really love him. Help me, how can i tell him?!
-worried
Some of the answers/advice that was given to were rude. Talk to your parents about it and see if you can do something. If your boyfriend cares about you then he would not mind not touching down there and he would wait. I mean you only have been with him for 3 months. That is not that long of a time to be touching each other below the waist. If you wait more and he stays with you, I think that in the heat of the moment, you could stop him and you could tell him or hint him some way about it by saying "I am different then most other girls." and maybe he will get the message. I hope that everything works out for you. If you need anymore of my snazzy help, please IM me or send me one in the inbox! :)
GrooveryInga
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ok my boyfriend and i had oral sex. i fell like i have betrayed everyone and now i dont know if i was ready. is this normal?
Thanks
Lauren
This is absolutely normal. You have betrayed everyone that is close to you. You have now turned into a slut and you will forever be known that. Of course you were not ready. If you feel regret that means that you were not ready. You really need to look up on these things before you do anything. Hope I helped!! ** Please rate me **
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well me and my parents got in the BIGGEST fight ever and i walked off and went to my boyfriends house...adn im 5months pregnat adn he said he would suport me and all that shit..well when i went there i didnt tell him and when i got there he was with a nother girl...i felt really bad...and i had no where to go so i went to my friends Marissas shes trying to help me out alot but i tinhk im putting alot of presure on her tho..and i fell bad adn i dont no what to do i dont want to tel lher that i feel liek tell her that...cause she might be liek yea you are and kick me out and i dont think i want to have this baby from that dude...so im tihnking about an abortion but if so then my firnd would get mad saying you made me go all throw that shit!!! i really dont no what to do and i havent heard from my parents for liek a month and i dont wnat to stay with her..what shall i do?
hel me!!
p.s im 17
Firs of all, you do not sound like a seventeen year old girl, because you do not know how to write correctly. Second of all, you should tell your boyfriend or whatever it is that you want him to be. He helped you make that baby, so he should help you support it. I do not understand clearly, did you say that he doesn't know and when you went to tell him, he was with another girl or that he knows? It is bad that you didn't tell him right away. AND YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM!! That is just crazy to do. So you haven't talked to your parents for five months? That is no good. You need to talk to you parents. FAST! Because they can help. I am sure whatever it is that you fought about was stupid anyway. Go tell your parents and DO NOT, I repeat, !!*DO NOT*!! have an abortion!!! Do you want to be a murderer? If you do then do it. Do you understand that a baby at five months old have hair and they are humans not objects you can easily get rid of! http://www.priestsforlife.org/resources/abortionimages/fig17baby5mos.jpg
That is a baby at five months. Can you really kill a person like that? Go to Google and type in "dead babies" or "abortion" and you will see what they do to babies. It is sad and disgusting. You should be ashamed of yourself for wanting to kill somebody is cannot even defend themselves. Hope my advice helps you. :)
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well me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and well it took 4 months for me to kiss him and well thats all ive ever done with anyone...well now hes kinda wanting more and is testing his limits and well i know its normal for guys to try that but i dont know...im only 14 is it normal for 14 year olds to do stuff like that? see my boyfriend has always gottin some from everyone hes been with accept me, but i kinda know that he cares for me b/c he waited so long and well if i do get up the nerve to do it once, will i have to do it alot? is he going to expect that more? should i do it? any advise?
You did not say what your boyfriend wants you to do. You should not do anything that you do not want. If he really cared for you he would respect that. He is not being good.
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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help!
I don't have sex with my boyfriend or anything like that, but I skipped my period in November and I usually get it in the middle of the month. I then got it in December in the middle of the month. Do you have any signs that your period is coming, like you are really crabby or you feel like you are poop? Check for signs. ALSO!!!! Sex before marriage is a bad thing. That is horrible. You shoulnd't do it.
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Hey everyone. I have an embarrassing problem that's really taking over my life.. it might seems small to some, but it's not at all. I have bad stretch marks, and they're making me majorly self conscious... around everyone. I have them all over, but they're especially bad on my stomache and sides. They're taking hold of me and my boyfriends relationship. Does anyone have any home remedies or in-expensive products I can use?? I'm using palmers cocoa butter right now. Should I use it every day?? Please give me advice, i'll rate high. Thanks so much
You should keep using the coco butter formula. I heard from my friend that it works great. I have some stretchmarks myself. You should not worry about them They are part of your body and I also heard that sometimes they tend to become less noticeable and sometimes, not all of them, disappear.
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hey! ok so me and my boyfriend have sex frequently and sometimes we dont use a condom...but i tend to queef a lot and i was wondering what that might be from? or if its normal? or if theres anyway to prevent or minimalize it...he doesnt seem to mind it but it annoys me and makes me self concious in bed...any help would be great! thanks:-)
You are kind of stupid for not using protection. You know you could be pregers. If you are, have fun telling him and your parents.
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice?
You should just straight up tell your mom. This is not an ebarassing thing to tell your mom! She gets it to you know. Just say "Mom, I just got my period for the first time!" Why do you not know? If she is normal, she will be happy for you, but if she is crazy then she will punish you.
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Sorry about the lenth. Anyways, my boyfriend and me started having sex last Augest. (i'm 17/f) and my mom found out a couple of monthes after, and she found out we weren't using condoms and such ... anyways, ever since she keeps blackmailing me. If I don't do this for her or kiss her ass for the rest of my life she'll tell his parents everything ... and he'll get sent away. We love each other to death, but if we were seperated I don't know what I would do. This blackmail stuff is really getting to me ... i get all stressed out by it and depressed. Really depressed. Please help, i rate high
You should sit down and talk to you mother about this. She is being a female dog about this. Shouldn't she tell you to buy protection of birth control pills instead of threatening you? It is not her choice what you do. You should just tell her how you feel and if she does not like it then too bad for her. You shouldn't care if his parents know as well. Why would they send their son away for getting pleasure. But I do not believe in sex before marriage so you are not doing a good thing and plus YOU MUST BE CRAZY!!! You are not using protection!! What is the matter with you!?!?!?!?!?!?!
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I`m more of a sexual type of girl. I haven't had sex or ever gave oral or had oral but i'm sexual in that kind of way. All my friends tell me I should date older guys because the way i am. My current boyfriend who i like alot isn`t perverted like I want him to be. I told him I don't mind him touching me or feeling me up or anything but he only acts like a perve at rare times. I want him to be more sexual. If i gave permission to any other guy even his best friends they would be all over me.. i just really don't get him and i know he wants to be sexual. Like during a movie he puts his hand up my shirt but it's not all the time, he worrys about making out with me more. I`m 13 and hes 12 turning 13 in February. Should i just date older guys in the future? Thnx for reading I give feedback.. xxOo
You are seriously only 13?!? And your boyfriend is only 12!!?? I can see why he doesn't want to do all that stuff you described! Maybe you are addicted to sex and you need to see a therapist. You need to calm down and not be so sexual. You are only 13!! When I was 13 I wasn't even close to thinking the way you are thinking. You are letting his friends know that you are easy. I do not blame your boyfriend not wanting to do anything with you because you come off to me as a being someone who wants sexual things done to you from many boys and I think that you know what I am talking about. You need to take things slower and not be so "Do this to me and do that to me." My advice is stay away from boys for another couple of years and you should be fine.
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