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As a percentage, how effective and reliable is the birth control pill against pregnancy?
I know it doesn't protect against STI's.
When it comes to birth control, there is no percentage because it's a chemical affect on your body and each body is different. However, if there was I would say it lay in the 80%. You see, birth control works by making your body think it is pregnant. Hence, less periods and LESS fertile eggs. You see the less is emphasized. There can still be fertile eggs which means you can still get pregnant.
i just had sex for the first time a few days ago (and have had it 2 more times since).
now it feels like every 10 minutes or so i have that feeling where i have to urinate really badly. when i do go, it burns really bad and hardly anything comes out. then it goes away and it'll come back like 10 minutes later.
idk if this is normal cause the only thing i can think of is the fact that i just lost my virginity.
anything?
This can be a symptom of a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) or a Yeast Infection. I would say it is a UTI though because they can SOMETIMES be triggered by sex. Usually UTI's are caused by bacteria however, every time I have one is because I held my pee for too long (over an hour..bad!). I suggest you drink tons of water and cranberry juice for the next few days which can help take it away. If it is not gone by then I suggest you go see a doctor because if it is caused by bacteria then it can cause problems.
Hey i feel so embarrassed here but i really need your help... i am 19 years old 20 in December and i cant have sex...i have a boyfriend that is really understanding and helpful we are together nearly one year but i don't expect him to stay around and wait for me. Last year i was diagnosed with P.O.F(Premature Ovarian Failure). I feel that i am not normal but i really do try to have sex. The pain is unreal when we are about to have sex. I get totally embarrassed and just turn away i dont know what to do?
When i was 16 years of age i was forced to have sex with two older men. I am wondering could this be affecting me now??? I am to afraid to mention this to my doctor.
Please say you can give me a 'cure' i am cracking up now.
Thanks so much for reading this. XxX
Although what happened to you is a tragedy, and may have affected you mentally, I don't think the physical pain has anything to do with it. Talk to your doctor about any type of pain medication you can use so that you can have sex. I know it seems a little extreme but if it is something you want to do, you should look into it. Also, have you tried oral sex? You and your boy friend can "give" and "receive" and nothing has to actually enter your vaginal track. Oral sexual stimulation can all be achieved around the clitoris area.
i heard that if you count the days from your period and have sex on a specific day then you cannot get pregnant because there is no egg in there to fertilise...if so how do you do this?
thanx
Everyone who answered this knows nothing! When you ovulate it means that eggs ready to be fertilized are in your uterus. Knowing when you are ovulating can help to plan getting pregnant but it cannot help you plan when to not have sex because the duration it takes for sperm to reach your eggs varies and sperm and eggs that are ready to be fertilized can live up to 3 days.
ok so a few weeks ago, me and this guy were in his backseat, and i was on top of him, giving him a handjob. i had nothing but underwear on, and he kind of got semen all over my hands, and i dont kno if it got on my underwear, but if it did, does that mean anything...like could i be pregnant? or could it have somehow gotten in my underwear?
no, you couldn't have gotten pregnant because seman dies after being in the air to long.
anybody know any exercises for penis enlargement??
The only way to make a penis larger is to get a boner and that is only temporary. If you're doing it to make sex better and you believe that your package is already of good size, then maybe the girls vagina is just too deep!
me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend.
so it went like it normally do. but when he had it in, it felt like he ''cumed'' so i kept saying take it out take it out i think you cumed and he was like no keep it in, it feels good, but i was like YOU CUMED and he said no i didnt i would know now lets keep going. now i was trusting him. so i kept going believeing him. so 10 minutes later he took it out but it was halfway in and felt like he really did cumed. so i was like i think you cumed and he said baby i didnt and he starting kissing on me, and he kept going down like he was trying to eat me out. so i left his head back up and we started tongue kissing again, my perious was suppose to come this week, but it didnt, and my tummy has been a little puffy from usual, what do i do?
should i break up with him? we been together for 2 years. && both madly in love, but then again i always had iiregular period, should i be worried?
oh if it helps 13/f, im in 8th grade
i wear a 34 b, && my body is pretty mature, && im 5'7 or 5'8,
first off, a week is way too early to see signs of pregnancy, especially puffiness! second of all, you're only 13 so your period can still be irregular.
My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old, we've been dating almost two years. We have been sexually active for some time and never had a problem.
Last night, though, he seemed to be having some male issues. That is, getting hard enough to have good sex. He was able to keep it up enough to get off once, but it was pretty obvious there was a problem. He was very embarassed and I feel bad for him, it's the first time it has happened to us. Any advice on what I should say to him? Or what the reason for this could've been? Thanks
When a man gets an erection blood rushes to the penis. It was proven that some sexual positions where more blood is able to go to the penis an erection lasts longer and strong. However, this could have been the opposite for you boy friend. He could have been in a position where not enough blood was reaching his genital and it went more limp. Other than that I doubt it's Erectile Disfuntion (seems to young for that! a no problem before). It could be that he wasn't in the mood as well.
my boyfriend and i have only had sex twice.. but he can only last literally like 5 seconds.. how can he last longer?
I'm guessing you're younger than 20? Usually guys who aren't fully mature, still maturing, or not expierenced enough then they don't last so long.
Tip: The reason why he doesn't last so long is because he gets a boner fast and looses it fast. Try and keep him in the mood which is hard when you are ontop of eachother. Make the actual sex movements slower and sometimes do like 2 second brakes when you're in action.
Okay, I'm really getting pissed off because I'm wondering if I'm really capable of a natural orgasm. I can get one from a vibrator but I've stopped using it because I want to able to get one naturally.
My boyfriend and I don't have sex, but he does the most AMAZING job at fingering and head. He seems to be doing all the right things and he definitely works my clitoris out. I feel like he's tried everything he can think of to allow me to get one and it still won't work. Do you have any suggestions?
You're probably consentrating to much on trying to get an orgasm or thinking about something else. When he's going down on you, breathe slowly and deeply. Also, try thinking of really naughty things. Try sitting/laying down in different positions. Try doing a little strip tease for him before hand, it can get both of you into the mood. And if none of this works, try putting on an xxx film. Sometimes the sounds help with arrousment.
so i have a question.. how come when i finger myself i feel absolutley no pleasure what so ever.... is it because i didnt hit the g-spot if so where is the g-spot because i have no idea.. if i get my clitoris massaged i do find that pleasurable.. does this meen sex wont feel good to me?
and also i know all vaginas are different but how come when i finger myself the hole to my vagina seems differnt in size when im in a different position.. as in standing up or laying down or differnt laying down positions.
sorry i have so many questions im just really curious but one last one is is your hole like always open 24/7 becuase if i look at my vagina i dont see this huge like hole ikinda have to open it myself when i finger myself is there something wrong or is it normal.. i have a guy that i like and im most likely going to do stuff with him but i dont know why it sounds weird but im self conscious of my vagina.. is there anything that really grosses guys out about vaginas like flappy ones or anything like that because ive heard things like that .. thanks
QUESTION 1: You're not concentrating maybe. You're just doing it to feel something but what I suggest you do is this, think of something really kinky or listen to something sort of dirty or if you really need the help... look at something really dirty. It might just get you in the mood. You find your clitoris more pleasurable because it's way more sensitive and easier to reach. A lot of women don't get orgasms from sex but do from oral sex so once you have sex you will figure that out for yourself. I suggest you breathe slowly.
QUESTION 2 AND 3: Your vaginal hole is inside not outside so when your legs are closer together its more hidde, when they are more spread it's is more open. Which is why when you have sex, you usually spread your legs wider haha. You're normal. Some.. well most guys don't like a lot of pubic hair. Make sure you wash is too.
My boyfriend has fingered me nearly 15 times now and I've not once reached an orgasm yet. I get to the point where my heart is beating very fast, I have some small muscle spasms, and little things like that. However, I've never had a full out orgasm and I was wondering why I'm having a hard time reaching it?
If he is actually entering your vaginal hole then he may not be reaching your G-Spot yet. If he is touching your clitoral area then you may not be so sensitive there. Also with some women they prefer the actual penis to fingering or oral because its.. well... larger! Try breathing very slower and not try to keep your legs as spread as possible. Then when you feel so good you can't hold on any longer just let it out with an orgasm.
(m/14) Hi im planing to have sex this weekend and im not shure about what size condom i should get im 4 and a half inches long and 1 and a bit in width.
GUYS ONLY ANSWER THIS QUESTION.
everyone answering this question must have no expierence with condoms, seen one, used one, or understand how elastic they are.
one condom fits all, people just put out the extra large to make men feel good about themselves, ect. unless you are HUGE, and i mean, 11+ which i don't even think is medically possible, you will want to use the extra large because you don't want the condom to tear.
i have been having sex with my boyfriend for over a month now. we have sex just about 6 times a week. i have yet to orgasm. we are trying. but what is something that i could do to help out? and i have never masterbated or experienced an orgasm. i would like to experience one. haha
just some kind of tip for us. thanks.
try different possitions first off like in different directions,ect. try slower deeper breathing.
wen you give a guy a hj..do you want them to cum or not? how long do you do it for..not "whatever feels right" just maybe an estimate? thanks =]
You want to give him the hand job until he looses his boner, then if you wants more then just do it longer. The whole point isn't for him to cum it's for him to enjoy it.
so I use a venus vibrance razor to masturbate along with the flat end of a sonicare toothbrush on my clit (razor in the vagina- the non-razor end)
and well i don't use the razor that often anymore because the next day after i use it i get these weird excruciatingly painful vaginal cramps (much like premenstrual ones) when it's not even during my period or close to it.
I don't feel any pain during the penetration- and i don't bleed or anything.
so what could i be doing wrong?
If you're a virgin then you may have ripped part of you vaginal wall, parcially broke it. It's perfectly normal when it breaks or in other words, get's popped. It happens when you have sex, you get a "cherry pop". It may just get a little more ripped each time. If you are not a virgin and you really want to continue doing this then try some other device haha. Sometimes after rough sex women feel discomfurt like around the pelvic area/lower stomach it's normal.
how far in could you go for fingering?
How long is your finger... you can't stick your fist up a vagina is it's pretty much just the length of your finger. NO you cannot pop a cherry by fingering.
when your going "down there" to finger a girl. Is the clit the place to focus alot of your time? Like will that gaurantee an orgasm? Thanks
Nothing gaurantees and orgasm but the clit is rather sensitive so it helps producing one best.
When you masturbate (finger) my self how do i make my self cum give me hints someone! i know how to finger myself but i dont know how as good as my boyfriend does it!?
Well it's called vaginal fluid different to the cum guys produce. You get it when you are masturbating or about to orgasm or when having sex, your body produces it as a natural lubercant. You can't do it yourself it just happens.
Is it a turn off for guys if a girl has already had sex? I'm not talking about being slutty or anything, I've only been with one person, and lost my virginity to my first true love. I'm just worried now that I won't be able to be in a serious relationship with someone else.
Some guys like it better when the girls is not a virgin. Because when a girl gets her cherry popped it hurts real bad because there is a sort of lining in the back of the vagina where the penis is inserted and that lining/wall ripps and usually blood occurs. Some guys don't like dealing with that but others don't mind. Usually it shouldn't be an issue.