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last longer?
my boyfriend and i have only had sex twice.. but he can only last literally like 5 seconds.. how can he last longer?
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Tell him to beat off before hand.
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I'm guessing you're younger than 20? Usually guys who aren't fully mature, still maturing, or not expierenced enough then they don't last so long.
Tip: The reason why he doesn't last so long is because he gets a boner fast and looses it fast. Try and keep him in the mood which is hard when you are ontop of eachother. Make the actual sex movements slower and sometimes do like 2 second brakes when you're in action.
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Yeah. I know what your going through. Thats actually completely normal. There are many different methods to making him last longer. I would have him have an orgasm before you have sex. Whether you give him a hand job or perform oral, it can help a lot. There are also a lot of positions you could try. Usually if the girl is on top it can help, because the blood flow is reaching downwards instead of upwards, which as a result, causes him to last longer. Maybe even just take time to just get to know each other would help to. He could feel pressured into having to perform. My boyfriend and I had the same problem, so what we did was just take time to get to know each other and made sure our relationship wasn't only based on sex. If you feel you want more tips, I suggest picking up a copy of the latest Cosmopolitan. There is always loads of tips in there on how to deal with this kind of thing. Hope I helped.
xoxo,
dottie4
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