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Q: Does anyone masturebate with a showerhead? Like on one of those three settings? If so whats the feeling called when you like can't take it anymore. Is that an orgasm? Is there anyway to prevent it? Cause it feels so good when I masturebate I dont want to stop but that feeling makes me and then I feel so wrong after. Like I did something bad

i use the shower head. it feelss soo good i know. its a very intencee orgasm. try screaming or something

Q: I just turned 14 and don't plan on going all the way with a boy till I'm older. I have gone as far as 3rd base so far. I get scared when a guy is "touching" me so I tend to be the one who does the touching most of the time. I found that I really like playing with a guys penis and his balls. I like how it feels and looks. No wonder why guys are always touching themselves all the time. Am I over obbsessed with guys "privates"?

HA omgosh, im 13, and i have giving head. I dont wanna loose my virginity till in older. I lovee the balls too i just like the way they feel, people at my school call me a whore but i dontt careee. please im way cooler then them

Q: I'm a teenage girl. I'm single, and a virgin. (and sick of it) For the past five years of my life I have wanted to commit suicide because I have recently discovered that there is no point in living.

I'm very overweight and I'm ugly. The one boy who has ever loved me was a liar and he had a mental problem. (not being sarcastic) I have no friends and I really want to die. I've been working as a stage actress for a while but I realized I have no talent at all.

My point is: No one loves me and no one ever will. I can't live any longer without being loved. What should I do? How can I survive without love?

Everyone treats me like I'm seven years old. I look a lot older than my age and most people ask me if I'm in college. I hate my life so much. Oh, and I do masturbate regularly so don't say that I should try that. It's not a substitute for a partner or for real love. Also: all of my peers have boyfriends. So I'm the only one who's single and a loner.
By the way, no one ever listens to me when I talk so that's another reason why I want to kill myself.
Please give me advice.

Seriosly,
If you kill yourself
you won't go to heaven.
You wont have an orgasm anymore,
it will succk balls.
So don't kill yourself.
k, I mean, try going to threpy maybe.
The right guy WILL come along.
Also, try and loose weight.
Being over weight causes streesss.
You can fix mose of your problems.

1.) loose weight !
2.) Wear make-up, fix your hair pretty, dress pretty. It will make your FEEL pretty.
3.)Im sure you have talent! Or else you wouldnt be working there!

I mean try threapy.
Please, don't kill yourself.

Q: Okay, so basically me: I'm a rocker chic who digs Metallica, 3dg, AFI, MCR, Flyleaf, and Circa Survive and a WHOLE lot more. I've known to be emo a lot of time but really, I don't like to label. I'm a rebellious, outspoken, fun girl that sometimes eh, has suicidal moments in life. I also love, love, love music. It's my life. I'm very artsy (Literature, drawing, usic wise) and random a lot.

So, my question is: What shall my new sn be? Someone suggested music whore. but I'm looking for new ones too.

BUT PLEASE. Make it sensible and funny. No I love you kisses or oxox xoxo stuff in there. I am not one of those girls that goes "Oh my gosh! PINK!" I'm the girl that goes "OH MY GOSH! THAT GUITAR IS SWEET" I need to talk to a lot of people on this sn and I don't truely reveal myself to others unless they are very close to me. So no depressing, emo sounding things. Okays? THANKS VERY MUCH.

SW33TxGUITAR [sweet guitar]
R0Ck0Nl0SER [rock on loser]
DONtLAbElM3 [don't label me]
HUGSNOTDRUGS [hugs not drugs]
SUICIDALxDEATHxHATE [just kidding]
FFUCCkERRRRRR [fucker]
LATAhAlLiGAt0R [ laterr alligater]
H0TxTOPIC [hot topic]
OPiAtExDREAMMARE [opiate dreammare]
N0txxPlAStiC [not plastic]
PlACEb0xxxxx [placebo]

Q: Hey, My boyfriend wants to start doing more, (head) but i wouldnt know how, plese help!

Ask me on aim, I will giet banned if I answer on here.

Q: well, my hormones come on REALLY strong during one part of the day so i find myself masturbating a lot - what should i do? is this healthy that i masturbate a ton?

pft. sometimes i do it about 10 times.a day

Q: Is it normal as you get older for the feeling of being uh..horny to increase?
and what can be done to stop the feeling.

MATERBATE. lol. PORN. & for it to stop then think of grross things?

Q: I just figured out my sister does sex with small teddy bear. She uses the nose to pretend it's a dick and she does it. Is this normal? Can I help her stop if it's harmful. Help!

i do the same. lol i want a viberator sooooooooooooooo bad but im only 14. a teddy bear wont hert her

Q: is masturbating a sin? just a question---cuz i think its completely gross!!

nooo. deff not. its not gross.. i love it =]

Q: after i get an orgasm 10 sec. later it dosnt feel good anymore ... is this normal?

well, when you orgasm does it bulid up & then release? thats your orgasm. if you bulid up and dont feel anything, then im not sure.

Q: it takes a while for me to get a orgasm is this normal?

yes, maybe you should try fantisizing. and as long as you think of things that make you horny it will come faster. if you would like to talk about thiss anymore because we cant really talk about this on advicenators. just ask me for my screename or leave one in my inbox =]

Q: hi i'm a 16 years old girl and have never had sex, a boyfriend, or kissed a guy. people tell me all the time that i am pretty and must have a ton of guy friends. i get ridiculously nervous around guys i really like and act like a total dork. what can i do to get guys to like me or to handle my nerves?

here's pics of me lol
http://i8.tinypic.com/24fa8o1.jpg
http://i7.tinypic.com/24fadcy.jpg

your gorgous but u do look lke you wood be shy. um just act like hes a friend. and if you like any of them tell them

Q: Ok I know I posted this question before, but a lot of people couldn't see the picture so I'm going to post a link that works. This is a picture of my friend. She's tried to commit suicide soo many times because she says shes ugly. She hates her eyes because she says they're too small. I think shes beautiful but she always has something to pick on about her body. Here's a picture of her, I need to know if she's really pretty or if her being ugly is the truth. http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=21583599&imageID=983295681&MyToken=9888527e-fe1d-47c8-8106-7ad1ea6189c6 What could I give her advice on to do to give her a new look so she can feel pretty like hair, make up, and anything else. I don't want her to die. She tells me that I'm the only one that can help her. Is she pretty and what could be changed to make her more attractive before she tries to kill her self again??

OMGOSH!! I THINK I KNOW HER i had no idea this was going on STOP HER now please =[ CONSULER or parents this is SERIOUS

Q: ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?

me and you are oposites... from where i am EVERYON is a viginnn. .and one guy pressered me into sex. sooo i had sex. yes and now im a whore. DONT HAVE sexx please =[ your fine

Q: umm this may be a stupid question, but how do you kiss? i mean do you just go for it? what do guys expect out of a 13 year old? closed mouth open-mouthed? please help!

slightlyn open your mouth and then stick your tounge out about 2 inches and play with his.

Q: I just recently had a baby and i have alot of stitches in my vagina area i'm just wondering i've been feeling horny is it safe to materbate?

try just by rubbing the clit

Q: Ok please help me im young and i've had sex seven times and all of them i've been forsed into i just dont know how to say NO! because the one guy i first did it with always hit me and i dont want to be hit again by a guy and im not a slut please help

TELL SOMEONE your parents POLICE

Q: Okay so I masturbate like 3-4 times a week and I like to alot. The problem is, I feel so perverted and gross. How can I sto pfeeling so disgusting? 14-f

oh i do it all the time its natueral

Q: If you have sex while on your period can you still get pregnant? and if so what is the likely hood? Or if you use a condom?

OKAY listen this is the RIGHT answer YOU CAN GET PREGANTE ANYTIME thheres no such thing as SAFE SEX even on your period with a condom and on the pill

Q: Ive been told that you can still be preg. even if you get your period.. Im kinda scared because ive been feelin sick for a week now and i get dizzy and the only think i can think of is that i may be prego because on the 1st i had unprotected sex. but i got my period so is it possible to get your period n still be pregnant

if you got your period your not pregnate!

bio

Hey! My name is Sam. Short for Samantha. Im one of those Tipical 13 year old girls. I am a absolute horrible speller. LOL! yes. Um, let`s see. You can ask me almost anythinggg.=p