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Gender: Female
Location: Clovis, California
Age: 13
AIM: mypaperhrt05
MSN: purplefreaker456@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 17, 2006
Answers: 13
Last Update: February 7, 2007
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i need some help i really want a new screen name that everyone will love, what should it be? (link)
ummm what is your favorite song or band?


does anyone know of any jobs that you can get at 14 years old ? or 15, cuz i`m turning 15 soon. (link)
maybe u could babysit?

thats what im gonna try to do because i just turned 14 and i want a job really badly.

hope i helped. =]


So I know its illegal to have sex with someone over 18 if you are a minor... no big deal, we both are very strict about the wait till you aare married thing and i will not let my guard down. my quaetion is, is it still illegal if we date and i am a minor and he is 18 but we do not have sex or anything?
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yeah it still is illegal.
i know exactly what u are going through right now.
my boyfriend is almost 18 and i just turned 14 & we are very afraid about what would happen is the police or whatever found out. just dont worry about it and pay attention to who knows about u guys dating.

i hope i helped. =]


I'm trying to update my iPod with new songs. I didn't have problems with this before but now it says
"Attempting to copy to the disk "CAROLINE'S IPOD" failed. The disk can not be read or written to." Help? (link)
that happened to mine. but what u have to do is erase everything off of it and then put it back on.


well..but i'm so scared because i dunno how he feeling about me for now..because he alittle...,i have two answers in my mind first one is call him/email to him & said,,"i never ever contact you anymore if you don't like so forget about me" because i so tired to love him.tell all the things i feel for him,the next one.."WE STILL friends" PEACE"..which one is better one?I love him but I'm so tired.plz tell me what to do? (link)
im sorry, im stuck on that one.
i really dont know what to tell you.


=p


me and my bff love eachother but were totaly oppasites im a tall gothic hes short and a total nerd but we have been bffs for forever but we like each othere as bf gf but we both deny it
what do i do (link)

just tell him how u feel & then just see what happens after that.

hope i helped.

=]


we known each other since december 5..at that time i broke up with my ex & i met him..first we friends..i told him about my ex,,like how i feel,why we broke up,..he listened & try to ease my pain.he really good guy.but we had long distant realationship. but we ok.now he had base in hawaii.he in marine corps.now he in hawaii.we mailing each other,chatting everynight,made a phone call each other.but 2 weeks later,,he said he crushed on me..i said that too early to say that because we haven't meet regularly each other...& i can't believe that.after that we haven't talk each other,,because of me because i didn't contact to him.i missed him all days,i really missed him at X-mas.i sent a mails to him.i didn't make a phone call cuz i afraid.but he in my mind always.after that we contacted each other again,,but i think he don't have any feeling for me{lately..i know he really in to me}i called him at new year day..at 4:00 Am..because we had a different time zone.when i fell to sleep he left the message on my phone{i kept that till this day}we still talking each other..but the last 2 days ago..he blocked his account..dunno why,,i try to visit his palce this summer..because he have to deploy in iraq again in this ocotber..that why.now..i don't know what to do..because he didn't care about me anymore{in my opinion}I think i love him but i can't..because..i had a experience with my ex..{i told him i loved him but he goes away}..that why i afraid.I love you do you think that word can save me?plz...tell me/..my pals told me to tell him how i feel about him..i afraid he laughing at me. (link)
just tell him how you feel, because usually that works out and it makes your friendship/relationship alot better.
thats what i did with my boyfriend.
a few months ago i told him that i really liked him and he was with my best friend and then they broke up about two months ago and we both realized it made our friendship alot stronger & now hes my boyfriend.
so just think about it and maybe it will do the same thing for you.

hope i helped.

=]


THe guy I like asked me to my high school's Winter Semi-Formal. I'm very happy about it, we have so much fun together. The only problem is that i don't know how to slow-dance with him? How do i do it without looking like an idiot? I want to be close to him because i don't want to look like I just came from middle school. HELP! (link)
i know exactly how you feel!!
the other day my boyfriend wanted to slow dance with me and like i kinda know how to but not really.just pay attention to where you put your feet and were his feet are because to me, its kinda embarassing if u step on the other person's feet.
but yeah, i hope i helped somewhat.

=]


Okay ..
This weekend my friend and i want to go get our 2nd holes pierced at Claire's.
I also want to get the top of my ear done.
I've heard it hurts reaaally bad, though.

Can anyone with experience tell me what the pain's like?
Also, how much each piercing costs at Claire's & if they do a good job!
thanks :] (link)
well i dont think it hurts that bad, it just depends on the person and how well they take pain.
& all i know is, at Claire's its free, well the Claire's here is free and i think they do a good job.

hope i helped..
=]


15/f

Hello, I'm a fifteen year old female. I'm tall and thin but my stomach lately has gotten quite big. I haven't had any diet/exercise changes and I am quite sure it's not related to my period. I'm not pregnant seeing I haven't had sex.

With those ruled out, could it just be a normal teenage body change? And will I grow out of this within the next few years?

People have actually asked if I was expecting, and that is something I would prefer to not have asked.

Thanks! =) (link)
you probably will grow out of it but im not exactly sure.
see, when i was younger,[im 13] thats how i was, and i kinda grew out of it.
so maybe if u just dont worry about it as much, it will eventually just go away or something.

hope i helped. =]


Ok.. so i have been best friends with this boy that im in love with.. we have been best friends for the past 3 years. we have been more than friends also.. we almost dated but.. something got in the way.. i dont kno what but i guess i did something wrong?
well.. we have been 'friends with benefits' for 3 years and i started to get mad feelings for this kid. he knows how i feel too.. but still nothing. he has cheated on all of his girlfriends with me and no.. im not trying to brag..his mom moved him 600+ miles away from me ..she didnt even let him say goodbye.. he was gone for 6 months and we talked on the phone every day.. he finally moved back here 5 days ago.. and he has been staying with me. we have been doing stuff. but still.. no 'title'.
i want to become his girlfriend because i am one of the jealous types , and i dont want him to be talking to these other girls behind my back and then come home and expect more..what should i do?
should i ask him out??
should i keep waiting and waiting..?
or shouldi just tell him how i feel and hope for something to happen?
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i think you should tell him how you really feel. it might actually help. i kinda went thru what you are going thru right now but its kinda different, i had a tiny crush on my best friend's boyfriend and then one day he kept asking me what was wrong and so i eventually told him how i felt about him and then a few days later he called me and told me that he liked me too, and that actually made our friendship alot better. but wait at least another week or so and then tell him your real feelings.

i hope i helped.


i know i know, these stupid christmas
questions. there must be a million
on here already. but i was thinking
about baking my boyfriend of eight months
some cookies or cupcakes or something
for christmas and then making him
a big card and writing a cute note
in there =]. for his birthday, i wrote
him a very sweet, meaningful note and
he seemed to love it. so i thought he would
maybe like something i made/baked. do you
guys think he would like it? if not; what
else could i get/make him? thankss :] (link)
i think cookies would be a good christmas present. every guy loves cookies. i had to figure out what to get my crush and he told me that he would love it if i made chocolate chips cookies, so hopefully your boyfriend will like ur cookies.
=]


How do you deleat an email address if your on an yahoo email account? (link)
first you have to right click their email address and click block user and then that blocks them so u cant send them emails or receive IMs from them and u cant IM\email them either.




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