we known each other since december 5..at that time i broke up with my ex & i met him..first we friends..i told him about my ex,,like how i feel,why we broke up,..he listened & try to ease my pain.he really good guy.but we had long distant realationship. but we ok.now he had base in hawaii.he in marine corps.now he in hawaii.we mailing each other,chatting everynight,made a phone call each other.but 2 weeks later,,he said he crushed on me..i said that too early to say that because we haven't meet regularly each other...& i can't believe that.after that we haven't talk each other,,because of me because i didn't contact to him.i missed him all days,i really missed him at X-mas.i sent a mails to him.i didn't make a phone call cuz i afraid.but he in my mind always.after that we contacted each other again,,but i think he don't have any feeling for me{lately..i know he really in to me}i called him at new year day..at 4:00 Am..because we had a different time zone.when i fell to sleep he left the message on my phone{i kept that till this day}we still talking each other..but the last 2 days ago..he blocked his account..dunno why,,i try to visit his palce this summer..because he have to deploy in iraq again in this ocotber..that why.now..i don't know what to do..because he didn't care about me anymore{in my opinion}I think i love him but i can't..because..i had a experience with my ex..{i told him i loved him but he goes away}..that why i afraid.I love you do you think that word can save me?plz...tell me/..my pals told me to tell him how i feel about him..i afraid he laughing at me.
confused_girl answered Thursday January 25 2007, 10:30 pm: just tell him how you feel, because usually that works out and it makes your friendship/relationship alot better.
thats what i did with my boyfriend.
a few months ago i told him that i really liked him and he was with my best friend and then they broke up about two months ago and we both realized it made our friendship alot stronger & now hes my boyfriend.
so just think about it and maybe it will do the same thing for you.
Brandi_S answered Thursday January 25 2007, 10:29 pm: Saying "I love you" in order to save your relationship isn't probably the best thing to do, but saying it because you really mean it and feel that way is a good thing to do.
Tell him how you feel. If you love him, tell him you do. If he laughs at you, he isn't worth your time anyway. If he laughs, he isn't a very good guy. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
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