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This Guy.........
I have a bf, and is kinda serous. last week, i though id spend the rest of my life with him, and he was the only boy id ever love. well, this week i went on vacation and met this gorgeous boy. hes such a gentleman(sp), and hes so funny! i love to be around him. so now i realize my bf isnt who i want to be eith forever. i dont know why i should stay with him, if i like somone better. but the boy i like, hes a year older, and we live far away. it could never work between us, and i dont want it to anyways. i just love to be around him. so is there a point breaking up with my bf if i dont want to be with the other guy? and if yes, how do i do that? we were in LOVE, i mean he was my whole life. but now im realizing i didnt like him, i liked that he liked me. i dont want to break his heart, i still like him but as a friend. Also, i told the new guy's cousin that i liked him ( i didnt know it was his cousin!) and now i dont want him to find out because that could make things so awkward between us. how do i make him not find out? and if he does, how can i make it not awkward! thanx so much!
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If your feelings for your boyfriend can change in the course of a week, you weren't really in love with him. You honestly, don't know what love is. Your feelings for someone just don't change like that. It takes time for your feelings to die down, and it usually takes longer than week.
If your boyfriend treats you good, I'd stay with him. I'm not saying the other guy doesn't, but honestly, if you've got a good guy, why would you give him up? Those are the kinds you keep.
This new guy you met, he might just be nice to you so he can get inside your pants, or so he can get you to go out with him. Who knows if he'll change or not if you guys were to start dating.
You told the guy's cousin that you liked him. It's his cousin. He's more than likely going to tell him. As for it being awkward, it's going to be awkward no matter what. There's no changing that.
I would just stay with your boyfriend, but then again you don't really deserve him if your feelings for him can change in less than a week.
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If that is his cousin im sure he will find out. But if you dont want to be with this guy anymore tell him dont keep leading him on.
HOW you ask?
Tell him what you just told us: im realizing i didnt like YOU, AS MUCH AS U liked me. i dont want to break YOUR heart, i still like YOU but as a friend. And if he cant handle that then oh well. You tried your best. Sometimes you cant help but to break a heart.
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think to yourself who you would stay with for the rest of your life, maybe niether are the guy for you.then break -up the easy way, tell him you moved on, or try the picking your wedding cake and be annoying approach.
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