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my bff and i r in love
me and my bff love eachother but were totaly oppasites im a tall gothic hes short and a total nerd but we have been bffs for forever but we like each othere as bf gf but we both deny it
what do i do
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If you feel so strongly confident that he loves you and you love him, you should definately try to have a private conversation between just you and him about how you feel and ask how he feels about you two becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. There is always going to be differences in relationships so if you feel it would work, then give it a try! Because trying new things is the best approach.
If he still denies it, even after a private talk (in a secluded area) he just may not be ready for a relationship. It could be for several reasons. He may be having problems in other areas, or he just plainly isn't ready for the whole "boyfriend & girlfriend" thing.
Yet what I would do is try talking to him. Since you two are such best friends, you should be able to trust each other and easily get responses from each other about being "boyfriend and girlfriend".
And being total opposites, (like I mentioned somewhat earlier on differences), it's totally OK to be completely opposite. Don't feel at all, insecure about you being tall and him being short. As long as you love him for who he is, and him for loving you for who you are. Also, "opposites attract". You'll have your arguments (maybe you know that one already!) But opposites just seem to find so many things riveting and wonderful about each other that no one would understand except you two.
Don't rush things if he feels that right now isn't the time to take things to the next level. But once you see yourself ready for sure, and he sees himself ready, it'll naturally happen. But asking can give him the input you are interested in being in a relationship with him, and he'll start thinking about it.
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just tell him how u feel & then just see what happens after that.
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