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my friend thinks shes ugly and is trying to kill herself
Ok I know I posted this question before, but a lot of people couldn't see the picture so I'm going to post a link that works. This is a picture of my friend. She's tried to commit suicide soo many times because she says shes ugly. She hates her eyes because she says they're too small. I think shes beautiful but she always has something to pick on about her body. Here's a picture of her, I need to know if she's really pretty or if her being ugly is the truth. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) What could I give her advice on to do to give her a new look so she can feel pretty like hair, make up, and anything else. I don't want her to die. She tells me that I'm the only one that can help her. Is she pretty and what could be changed to make her more attractive before she tries to kill her self again??
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I think shes ugly. No offense. Have her wear darker shades of eyeshadow like browns or silvers. And eyeliner of basically any dark colors also.
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OMGOSH!! I THINK I KNOW HER i had no idea this was going on STOP HER now please =[ CONSULER or parents this is SERIOUS
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you should ask your friend to see a concellor, and you are right she is very beautiful. sometimes no matter how hard you try to convince someone of how wonderful they look and how wonderful they are they just don't see it from your point of view so try and get her to talk to a councellor (i'm sure your school should have one, go see that councellor) but if your school doesn't have councellor they hire, there are many youth surport groups out there. especially surport groups and help lines for teenaged girls and self-image issues as well as groups that help suicidal people. i really urge you to hurry and get her to see a concellor because from what you've said this is a very serious thing especially since she tried to commit sucide before. my best wishes to you and your friend and i hope that helped =]
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Asking us if she's pretty isn't the best thing. People have different opinions and my opinion is that she's not ugly. I personaly don't belive that people should be judged by their looks and she is taking it too far. If she has tried to commit suicide soo many times, how come you never told anyone? I mean she's your friend and all but why haven't you ever tried to get her some help? The next time she starts to say she wants to kill herself, you need to tell an adult. If she find out you told she might be mad, but it's for her own good and it's very serious. She doesn't really need a new look, but you guys could try doing something fun together like giving each other make overs. Maybe she should get a new hair cut, add a bit of make up.. or anything that will make her feel better about herself. Have a serious talk with her and just tell her that she's beautiful and that everyone loves her for who she is. Make her feel better by doing anything. Do things that make her happy. Suicide isn't funny and it's not just a word that she should be just throwing around. I don't know if she is dead serious about it or if she's just saying that because she feels bad. Eather way, it's no jake. You should tell someone because that might be the only thing that could help her.
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