hi well i have some questions about sex and puberty and things like that which are pretty graffic for the sight. so can any knowledgable guy mind answring some of my questions? just give me your advice column . mods pls dont delete please because im trying not to waste time by asking you a graffic q with will be deleted. thanks
I know I'm not a guy, but I would b happy 2 answer any questions that u might have! Just drop me questions in my inbox! BeezKneez
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For everyone I wanna know how old were you when you lost your virginity, how did it go, was it to someone special or do you regret it, where were you when it happened... and so on. Thanks
I'll be 16 in a lil less than 2 months and I'm proud 2 be a virgin! :-D
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?
Well, the best time is probably after marriage, however u may not choose 2 wait that long. Make sure that ur ready 4 sex, and that u have no doubts about it. U don't wanna do sumthin and then regret it later. ALso, if u decide 2 have sex, make sure u are safe and use protection.
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me and my boyfriend give each other oral every now and then. well he recently mentioned something about me shaving my pubic hair. he said it would be sexy and easier to perform oral on me. i dont know if i should, it would grow in thicker and darker and id have to shave it all the time. i wouldnt mind it tho probably... what do you think ?
Most guys definatly prefer if u shave it cuz alotta guys find it gross. Ultimatly, it's ur decision. Ya, it'll grow bak and ur gonna have 2 eventually shave it, but that's the same w/ having 2 shave ur legs all the time. It's also kinda nice 2 have ur pubic hair shaved when u wear a bathing suit too, but like I said b4, it's ur decision.
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what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?
Whoever the person is, ur prolly @ least pretty close 2 them. U shouldn't b having sex if ur not ready, so just tell the person that ur not ready and he/she should respect that. If they don't understand and don't respect wut u have 2 say then they aren't worth it. If they do end up pressuring u in2 sex even tho u say no, that's considered rape... just b careful. If u have any other questions let me know!
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How much will I bleed the first time I have sex.. when my cherry gets popped?
It all depends on the person... if ur lucky u might not bleed @ all, but then again, u might b bleeding so that it's running down ur leg and everything. It depends on how thick ur hymen is. The thicker it is, the harder it is 2 break, and the thicker it is, the more it will hurt and possibly bleed.
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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me
*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*
Trust me... not many ppl wanna see ur thong hanging out. Alotta ppl might think of u as a slut... and u don't wanna be noticed that way. Instead, join clubs and activities or sumthin and that will get u noticed in a much better way than if u go around w/ ur thong hanging out all the time.
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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me
There is a certain time in a girls cycle when they can get pregnant, but every1's is different. I suggest using protection... it is better 2 b safe than sorry.
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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?
Ya, I know how that is, and it's hard. This is sumthin that I believe, so it might b no help 2 u, but I'll say it anyways... It seems as tho if ur waiting 4 sum1, sum1 willbe waiting 4 u. That "special" some1. Not exactly a soul mate, but the person u were meant 2 b with. If u keep waiting (which I think is a good thing) ur sure 2 find an awesome guy who is still a virgin. Good luck!
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My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not?
Well, if ur becomign sexually active, first off, u should trus tur partner and he should trust u, in other words, u should prolly tell him ur not a virgin. If u don't tell him, he might b able 2 tell ur not a virgin cuz u might b a lil streched out, or if ur cherry popped he might notice too.
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I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?
The best thing 2 do is 2 wait 2 have sex, and even better until ur married. That way u can trust the person ur with and u know that u truely love them. If ur having any doubts, it's better not 2 have sex cuz u don't wanna regret it later. Hope I helped! (And sorry, I don't mean 2 preach.)
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17-F i went over this boys house today his name is Dan. well he wanted to do stuff with me like give him head, hand jobs stuff like that and I said no but the next thing I know he's on top of me like humping. We have all our clothes on. and he's going faster and faster by the second. so my question is that sex or dry humping??
It's just dry sex... but sounds like that guy is a real hronball if he did that even after u said "no."
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My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date?
Wow... well, I dunno how old u are... and it really doesn't matter, but no1 should be having sex on their first date w/ sum1. That's just wrong. Wait until you find sum1 that u truely love, and better, wait until ur married until u have sex, otherwise u might totally regret it. If he wants 2 have sex w/ u and ur not ready just say "no" and if he truely cares about u and respects u, then he'll get over it. Good luck!
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ok..heres my thing you guys...
*my best friend lost her virginity last year and alot of people consider her a whore now :(
but anyways...my boyfriend wants me n him to lose ours now for our 1 year anniversary hes 16 and im 14...i really dont know if i should becuz i dont wana be considered a whore or nething like what happened to my friend....please help me in doin the right thing!!
signed,i honestly dont know what to do
It's prolly best (especially since u have ur doubts) not 2 have sex now. Both u and ur boyfriend are still young, and (no 2 be mean) but most likely one or the other of u is going 2 get hurt, and u don't wanna regret the whole experience in the future. If ur boyfriend truely loves you and respects u then he will be fine w/ it if u tell him "no" 2 having sex. Good luck!!
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((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think?
Personally, I wouldn't have sex, especially @ ur age (which also happens 2 be my age too). Even tho u may really like this guy, I don't mean 2 sound mean, but ur most likely gonna eventually get hurt and then later regret the whole thing. It's best 2 just wait until marriage, cuz even tho it may be hard (I totally understand how hard it is), @ least u know ur with sum1 u love and who loves you back. You may not like my advice, but frankly, its prolly the best way 2 go if u think that u may regret having sex w/ him.
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