I'm not sure what pill your on, but it takes me around 2-3 days to start my period after I take the first menstrual cycle pill. But you really need to get into the habit about taking it at the same time, thats the only real chance you have to prevent pregnancy. Just set your cellphone to have an alarm go off at a certain time everyday.
Be careful, & I wouldn't worry just yet.
Hope I helped.

While my cousin was pregnant, she was doing the "weight watchers pregnancy diet".
The way she done it was she estimated her "points" for weight watchers, and added a few points. She ate healthy. She was fine. Eat healthy, and everything should work out.
http://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/pregnancy-healthy-eating

Like the others said.
If he cums in you, your probably going to end up pregnant.
Be safe!
Don't let him, unless of course, you want a child.
AA

I'm sure that there would have been a chance, if he ejaculated, and you didn't wash your hands.
But, you washed your hands, and you waited until later that night to finger yourself.
You're safe!
AA

1) A girl loves it when a guy shaves, it shows that he cares about his body, and has good hygiene.
2) When shaving your area, I usually let it soak.
Then after the hairs get loose, and not so stiff, I moisturize it with soap, and massage the hairs, this also helps to loosen them up.
Then, I rinse the soap off, and cover with shaving cream and just shave away.
Be careful not to shave too fast though.
When you shave, shave from bottom to top, but not so much straight up and down, shave at an angle, this prevents rash, and cuts!
Hope I helped!
AA

Thats normal.
My boyfriend does that.
Its even worse during sex.
Its not really a rash, its just lots of redness.
Nothing to worry about.
It just means he's really horny.
Hope I helped!
AA

Summers Eve- Towlette- Dont use while on period, cleans vaginal area, leaves smelling fresh.

Douche Kit- Squirts up into vaginal area, use after period. Cleans vaginal area.


Many women take the issue of genital hygiene very seriously, to the extent of sometimes becoming obsessed with it. The vagina is something that is very simple to clean.
The external part of the vagina, the labia, should be cleaned twice a day using clean cold water. Since the genital area is moist and warm, bacteria can grow easily. When you use hot or warm water you are creating an atmosphere for the bacteria to grow more irrevently.
Women often use perfumed soap and other products with strong scents in a hope to change the smell of the vagina. This can cause infection. Washing the inside of the vagina with soap disturbs the natural balance of substances.
When the natural balance is disturbed you are at risk of developing an infection that is caused by bacteria.It is also important for the area to be cleaned following sexual intercourse. Washing should be performed using a singular front to back motion to avoid bacteria around the anus from coming into contact with the vagina or urethra .
Cleaning the vagina is just one thing but there are things that you needs to take into consideration. The kind of underwear one wears and the way it is washed makes a difference. Cotton underwear with good coverage help reduce the likelihood of perspiration and the transfer of bacteria from the anal region to the genital area.
The vagina has a self cleaning process, normal vaginal discharge is usually clear to white and it is a necessary part of the body's regular function. As discharge leaves the body, it takes bacteria with it which helps in keeping any vaginal infections at bay.
Excretions from the vagina, perspiration, and urine can build up making it even easier for the bacteria to grow which is why one needs to clean the vagina after urinating. These bacteria can cause urinary tract infections (UTI's) or other vaginal infections.
Hope I Helped!
AA

OMG! I was in the same situation.
Me & my boyfriend have been dating eleven months.
We had sex and had done everything else, besides me giving him a BJ, around 4 1/2 months.
About 3 months ago I started giving him head.
I really didnt want to at first, but I knew he would go along with what I said.
I think your saying that you don't want him to cum in your mouth, that you want him to cum else where? You should be able to have sex after he cums, maybe not directly afterwards, but yeah, you should be able to have sex.
He shouldnt care to kiss you as long as he doesnt cum in your mouth. Because if he has good hygiene he should smell, or taste bad (lol).
My advise, you don't have to do this, just a suggestion.
Steps ... lol...
1- Give him head, but dont let him cum.
2- If you have unprotected sex, then just climb ontop of him, without letting him get off from the BJ, and go at it.
-If you have protected sex, have a condom nearby, and put it on him, use your mouth, this is a turn on.
3- After you have sex, and YOU get off, move back down to his lower area, if he has a condom on, take it off, and start giving him head.
If he isnt wearing a condom, give the penis time to dry and then give him head.
I promise theres no taste as long as you have good hygiene also.
4- Give head, until you want to stop, or he gets off.
Good luck with everything!
AA

Dont kill yourself, thats never the solution.
You have a loving wife at home, and probably kids that you haven't mentioned.
Yes, you are in the wrong, by wanting to tell her husband, for revenge, and by having an affair.
If you tell anyone, I think it should be your wife, she's earned more honesty that anyone.
You won't kill yourself, or you would have already done it. Turn to God, don't think of suicide. God's always here to help you, no matter what.
Don't say you cannot go on, when you can. & dont use High BP as a pity act.
You need to get this prostitute out of your mind, and care for your family!
I hope you make the right decisions.
Goodluck!
Have faith.
AA

Labioplasty, is a surgical procedure that reduces the size of your labia.
Women usually go through this surgery when their labia is oversized, hangs, or shows when theyre wearing everyday clothing.
Heres a link with more information.
http://www.cosmeticsurg.net/procedures/Labioplasty.php

She cant be pregnant.
The only way she could have got pregnant, was if he ejacuated near her vaginal area, and some of the semen soaked through the pantyhose, and underwear, and that would be a 1 in 100 possibility.
Your friends safe.
Reassure her of that.
Though, if she plans on going further, go with her to your local health clinic to set her up on birth control, her parents dont have to know.
Hope I helped!
AA

Maybe, suggest him use less fingers, and be more gentle.
No Problem!
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Oh, in your question, you said he was rough and soft, I didnt think you mean that he wasnt gentle. But yes, if he's more gentle that will definately help.

I was like this when I first started becoming sexually active. I bled atleast 3 times, after having sex, and a couple more times, after being fingered. If your just now becoming sexually active, this may be an effect. I wouldn't be worried unless you are bleeding uncontrollably.
If it does pursue, and it gets worse, I suggest going to the doctor.
Hope I helped.

The lips of the vagina are going to be loose, on every girl.
They mean the actual inside, because it opposes pressure to the penis, making it stroke it tighter, and giving them more pleasure.

If this is your first period while on the pill, yes, its very normal. It takes atleast two to three months for your period to regulate after starting the pill.
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Merry Christmas!

New things as in?
- Things to do before sex?
- Ways to arouse him?

-If your wanting ways to arouse him, tease the hell out of him. I climb on top of my boyfriend, with his boxers off of course. I wont let him touch himself to even try to "stick it in" I grind on him, and get him super horny, letting his penis rub my clit area. This drives him WILD!

- Things to do before sex, well, if your having sex, your probably doing everything else such as blowjobs and such. Try new positions. Doggy Style, Cowgirl, just about anything that you haven't tried already. I prefer taking a shower with my boyfriend, especially if no ones gonna be home soon. Then, I hit the bed!

-Buy you some lube. Or if you dont want to, let someone you know, that knows you have sex to buy some.

Hope I helped.

Well, I disagree about the loud music if his parents already think that you all are sexually active. If you put on loud music they may walk in to tell you to turn it down, or be more suspicious about whats going on.
My suggestion is, moan quietly. Or, put a pillow over your head. You can moan, trust me, it doesnt have to be loud.
The pregnancy deal. I'm not sure you can get pregnant with just the juice going in you, if sperm got in though, like the little sticky stuff, then theres a chance. But you dont have anything to worry about, unless he gets off while you all are grinding.
Hope I've helped!

Try different things.
Slow & deep.
Or slow & shallow.
Get on top of him, shift yourself & figure out what you like.

Well, theres always a chance that she could be pregnant.
I've always heard that cum dies when it hits air, but like the others, I don't believe thats true.
If she's not on Birth Control, maybe she just misplaced her period, I use to do that alot.
Stress can also cause a missed period.
Go to the local drug store, or doctor, and take a pregnancy test.
& if you don't feel comfortable going and getting one, ask a TRUE & TRUSTABLE older friend to get you one.
Hope I helped.

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I'm a fifteen year old girl, that lives in the middle of no where, seriously! My parents are the best ever! They are the ones I go to for advise. I have an older sister, by three years, and a younger adopted brother, by 6 years.
I enjoy riding horses, swimming, camping, fishing, tanning, shopping, and hunting! So, I'm not your average girl. I HATE pink!
I have a best friend, of 6 years. She's beyond crazy! She inspires me in so many ways.
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