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Silly Question On How To...
... Uh, 'get off' I suppose you could say. Me and my boyfirend have been together two years and he was also my first, so he's really been the only thing I've known to do with sexual experiences and vice versa, because he never touched a girl before me either.
Sex with him is fantastic. He's developed this 'I - get - the - most - pleasure - from - giving - you - pleasure' thing. And whilst that makes me feel guilty sometimes, it's fantastic and he really always seem eager and less eager when I suggest a position where he would probably get more from, but last alot less time.
As it is he only lasts around ten minutes, but it's so darn good I couldn't care less. While I have a high sex drive, I get tired very easily by all this anyway, so it seems like the perfect match.
But I've never really 'got off' - (I am right, that means to orgasm? - if it's not, I'm talking about the big O here guys :)) - and I know theres not any specific way how apart from everything he's supposed to touch. I'm not comfortable with masturbation so even though we've explored together what feels good, any tips and tricks that do it for YOU would be great help to me.
I'll try anything, so fire away with ideas - boys and girls.
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Try different things.
Slow & deep.
Or slow & shallow.
Get on top of him, shift yourself & figure out what you like.
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A lot of girls usually don't reach an orgasm during sex. Some people find out what they like most through self-exploration but if you are uncomfortable with that then use his hand (or tongue) to figure out what you do like. Tell him what feels good and what doesn't . . "be his eyes". If something feels good let him know so he can continue to do it and learn all of your "hot spots". Hope I helped and if I didn't elaborate enough just let me know! =]
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