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yes, i know this is wierd subject but belive me by the time i explain this, if your a girl at least, you can see why i'm pissed. My best friend just so happens to be one of the girls with, well, big breasts. Well i'm starting to "catch up" to her, and every tiem i tell her my size she laughs and says with sarcasm and disbelief in her voice, "thats not your size, that's almost MY size!" And for some reason alot of times we'll get in a conversation, and she'll bring up her boobs! it's so annoying how do i show her that what she's saying is really bitchy w/o her freaking out because belive me this girl is a huge drama queen
haha! just show her your bra tag sometime it comes up and be like SEE I TOLD YOU! not in a mean way but in like a joking funny i told you so type of way! does that make sense? lol well I hope so!
okay okay.....im starting high school on the 31st and my friend ...i'll call her casey.....cuts herself and shes says its beucase she feels alone....over the summer her mom made her move to a big city like 1 hour away with her grandparents and she had to move back beucase she got in trouble for breaking and entering for money...... i keep telling her she needs to stop beucase when she get into high school the ppl that dont kno her that well are gonna call her a freak beucase they dont understand like me and her close friends do.......what should i do..... i feel like nothing anyone says is gonan help! oh yeah and im sugaX0Xbritches...can you add me??? thanks for everythign!.~~~~~ Kayla~
That's all you can do! Just keep talking to her and tell her why you want her to stop cutting. If you want you could go online and get info on cutting too, and then give it to her when your talking to her. Sometimes having all the information right infront of someone makes them have a big realization of what theyre doing. And YES of course I'll add you as a favorite!
my friend...... is so depressed.. i was, but now im happier than ever. It feels so good being happy. I want her to feel that too, but its so hard. I just want her to live. and not let life pass her by. i donno wat to do.
TELL HER HOW HAPPY YOU ARE! It's so much more fun to be happy than depressed! Talk to her and tell her that you care about her. Then if that doesnt work SHOW HER. Take her somewhere where you guys can have a realllllly fun time! I dont know what your into but I think amusement parks are always fun! I mean how can you not have fun there?! haha anyways if thats not your thing then maybe a movie (comedy!!) or shopping or SOMETHING! hopefully that will let her see what shes missing out on! Hope everything works out :D
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Me and my friend have been really close since the 6th grade, and we have always gotten through all of our problems by talking them out. But just recently, since school got out actually, she's been acting different...distant. I tried to talk to her about it, asking her if anything was wrong or if something happened, and she just brushes it away. She won't have a conversation with me and I'm worried she is going to block me out entirly soon. How should I deal with it?
talk to her one on one. Tell her your side of it and make sure to be open-minded of hers also. Try to make her see your side without making her feel like a bad person. Explain why you wanted to talk and that you dont want to ruin your friendship that has lasted so long.
Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe.
one word... JEALOUSY! "Ellie" is jealous because she wants your full attention and instead she is only getting some of it. Your leaving her out sometimes to hang out with others and she wants all of you to herself. Talk to her and tell her that your getting stressed out and see what she says. Hopefully you guys will be able to work things out and stay friends since you have been for so long. Try working on your guys' friendship and if you still wanna break the friendship then I'd suggest doing it gradually so she doesnt explode or whatever. Good Luck! plz rate me
One of my best guy friends used to have a huge crush on me but when he realized it wasnt going to happen, he moved on to one of my really good girl friends and now they are together. normally i would be really happy for them but they are not right for eachother AT ALL. Their relationship is not going to last and i know it will end badly and i'm not the only one who sees that. three of my other friends also feels this way. We havent said anything to them because they seem so happy and we dont want to ruin that for them. also, i'm pretty sure that if i told them what i thought, he would think that i'm just being jealous because he doesn't like me anymore which is not what is going on and it would ruin my friendship between both of them which is something i really don't want to do. it wouldnt be worth it. so what im doing is leaving their relationship alone and waiting for it to play itself out so they can end it their own way which will probably be very badly. am what i doing the right thing? or should i be going about this in a different way? (we all are 16)
if you honestly dont think it will last then just let them go and make their own mistakes..dont say anything about how u dont think its right or that they arent right for eachother or anything but when its over, then you can make your move. dont go to fast tho cuz then u might hurt your friend..but yeah..i think ur doing the right thing by not saying anything
ok me and this guy just met this year and were already best buddies!!hes really nice when no one else is around but when hes with his "cReW" he changes his attitude and everything.i like him and i kinda think he likes me too but he wont say anything but then sumtimes when were on the fone together(which makes me soo happy!) he kinda drops little hints but then goes back to these two girls he thinks he might like but then he says he'll probly never get with any of em..and one time he asked me right before we hung up on the fone if there was anything we wanted to clear up..so how can i get him to tell me how he feels about me truly???
I think you should just ask him honestly how he feels. Thats the only way youre gonna get a straight answer, right? Also try to drop hints, like flirting a lot! It should help! GooD LucK! plz rate me
I'm 13, girl, and my best guy friend is moving tomorrow morning, and last night I w/bein a jerk, and I cussed him out. I have never made a worse mistake in my life. He's always been there for me always, and now he hates me. What do I do?
I think you were just mad at the fact that he was leaving so you wanted to take it out on something... Make sure you try and tell him beofre he leaves how truely sorry you are, and why you did it. If he forgives you right then then thats good. But either way I think you should send him a card in the mail after he moves. Maybe put in it some inside jokes that you guys have had, some good times, wish that he likes it there, and let him know youre missing him. I hope this helps and everything works out! I'm always here!!
ok i SERIOUSLY need help on this one (not like you ppl who are being dumb... like omg!!) One of my really good friends birthdays are coming up and I dont know what to get them. What are some good ideas?? ALSO i'd like to know what to get someone who is just my friend.. not too great but still friends! any suggestions?
Well gift cards can never fail... but you might want something more personal for a good friend. A cute thing that I would suggest is finding a picture of you 2 and get a cute frame for it. Then also give her a card with all your guys' inside jokes or good times on it! hope that helps!! rate me plz