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am i doing the right thing? One of my best guy friends used to have a huge crush on me but when he realized it wasnt going to happen, he moved on to one of my really good girl friends and now they are together. normally i would be really happy for them but they are not right for eachother AT ALL. Their relationship is not going to last and i know it will end badly and i'm not the only one who sees that. three of my other friends also feels this way. We havent said anything to them because they seem so happy and we dont want to ruin that for them. also, i'm pretty sure that if i told them what i thought, he would think that i'm just being jealous because he doesn't like me anymore which is not what is going on and it would ruin my friendship between both of them which is something i really don't want to do. it wouldnt be worth it. so what im doing is leaving their relationship alone and waiting for it to play itself out so they can end it their own way which will probably be very badly. am what i doing the right thing? or should i be going about this in a different way? (we all are 16)
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if you honestly dont think it will last then just let them go and make their own mistakes..dont say anything about how u dont think its right or that they arent right for eachother or anything but when its over, then you can make your move. dont go to fast tho cuz then u might hurt your friend..but yeah..i think ur doing the right thing by not saying anything ]
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