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so live like you mean it,

love til you feel it

it's all that we need in our lives.

so stand on the edge with me,

hold back your fear and see

nothing is real til it's gone.

& hold on before it's too late,

well run til we leave this behind.

don't fall just be who you are,

it's all that we need in our lives.

♥ ♥ ♥





i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.

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i wish. :]
haha, but thanks.

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What do you do when your best friend is a lesbian?!?!?!?!



thanks in advance!

you should be a good friend and not let it bother you. that's the best thing to do. comfort her and make her feel like it's alright. i know it's different and weird but if she doesn't hit on you odds are you wont even notice. just go on like you did before you knew.

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well, its like this i have been best friends with my friend all my life.im going out with my boyfriend now and she doesnt like him.she wont tell me why she doesnt like him either.she made me choose between them and i picked her because your best friend will always be there and your boyfriend might not.anyways,i broke up with my boyfriend and he was defastated and then i started crying because i couldnt believe i was actually breaking his heart.i told my best friend i picked her and the only thing she said to me was good.i kept bumping into him and i knew staight away he was still hurting inside.but about two weeks later i saw him in the shop and i went over to him to ask him was he ok he couldnt even look at me.i said to him that i made a big mistake and i was really sorry.that night he rang me asking me did i want to get back together so we did.
i told my best friend when i went back to school and she got really bitchy with me and said whatever go ruin your life.i left it and just started talking about something else.now if i even mention his name she starts shouting at me saying he is such a freak why on earth would i go out with him.he isnt a freak god no.
ok my question is long but what should i do my best friend is being really mean to my boyfriend and i.if you have any advice for me please give it.13/f
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Your best friend could be jealous. She could want to be the only one in your life. She might think since you have a boyfriend now, that you'll leave her. You need to sit here down and be like "What did he ever do to you to make you hate him? - Believe me you're my best friend I wouldn't leave you for a guy so don't worry." Say something like that and see what she does. It could be POSSIBLE that she likes him. I don't know.

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i want more guy friends. like, it's not even about getting or a boyfriend or flirting or anything. i'm just SOOO tired of all the stupid, immature, catty drama that comes along with girl friends. i have a couple guy friends, but not alot - only one really good one. how do i make more? i really want more really good guy friends. any advice? thanks so much!

I completly agree.

When you see a guy friend start a convo with them. Try and join on the convos that they're already having. They're very easy to get along with and not complicated to understand. Just find a guy friend that you have already and be like "Hey, let's hang out with your friends today."

I don't know - Give it a try!

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ok my name is sarah I am 13 and I have a huge question, ok now listen I have had a crush on this guy for about 2 months tops and I have been friends with this grl named carisis for only like 2 years because we have never been friends before but now we are, anyway she knew I liked this guy and then she went behind my back at the park and MADE OUT WITH HIM and so yeah of course i got all mad at her and yeah I didnt talk to him but i did forgive her and we have still been friends but now i have a new boyfriend and she juked on him all the way down at a school dance and told my other friend not to tell ME! SO I am like who the hell can i trust anymore, is she really a friend cause i know that my friends who tell me everything and I can trust and have known for 8 years are my best friends but yeah oh and I did a really slutty thing too because of "her" and I feel really guilty cuz none of this wouldnt have happened if she told me that the "guy" was using me so she is basically acting like a self centered brat saying that i am screwed and everything ugh there is another big story behindall of this but yeah so please tell me if i should stay with my boyfriend and trust my friend anymore please!!!

I would stay with your boyfriend. I would deffinitly tell your "friend" tho that she needs a little adjustment or she's going to have no friends. I had a friend like that once, well she wasn't exactly my friend, but she talked to all the guys I liked & made sure she bragged about it. I wanted to punch her so badly, but enough about me. I would tell the girl exactly how you feel. Be like "Hey. I am loosing complete trust with you, and what your doing is so bitchy, can you please stop?" Give that a try. I hope this helpss.

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Okat so i haave like a lot of problems and i need your help.

First one- I was at a school dance. my parents are rlly protective if i dance with people n stuff..well theres this boy, lets say Kyle, and he snuck in to our dance. he is in 10 th grade. he skipped 2grades though so heshould be in 8th. well, he asked me to dance so i said yes. n we danced for what, 30 seconds? n my friends all saw me. n i guess one of them got in the car and was like OMG my friend *me* danced with this rlly hot 10th grader. her mom spazzed out and called my mom. i said i didnt because rlly, what is 30 seconds? n now my mom n dad believe me.. but i talked to my friend who told her mom n i told her to lie to her mom.. n now her mom is like well all these chaperones saw me. i mean seriously, how could like 5 chaperones see me in 30 seconds.. come on! do u think her mom will call mine again?

Second Problem- So at my birthday party a couple of weeks ago, 4 girls were completely being mean and just hung out in my closet like the WHOLE time bad mouthing me and the other 3 girls. before my party, the 4 girls hated eachother.. n now they r having a party tonight... n they didnt even BOTHER inviting me.. n they talk about it in front of me too...

sorry this was so long. i am just sooo stressed out n i rlly didnt know who to go to..=[

1. your friends mom should mind her own buisness. it's dancing. what does she want you to do, sit there? pshtt. no. have fun, and explain to your parents that you can dance & have fun too. your friends mother is probably just jealous it wasn't her daughter. =)

2. girls are the biggest bitches ever. all they like to do is use people. you can do better then whoever they are, and just don't even let them bother you. next time you have a party or whatever don't even invite them. i'm sure they'll get mad, and be like oh well. =] hah.

i hope you're problems are better.

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i going skating with my boy friend tonight and i am going to wear some cute blue jeans with some top thats where i ned yalls help here is your chocies a jaket thats like a burgedy that says Abercombiewith the zipper pulled haft way down and you see a whit shirt or a orange that says Hollister zipper pulled haft way down with white shirt?????? any other ideas
Tanks
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i think they both sound adorable hollister & abercrombie are my two fav stores«3 umm i'd do whatever looks best or makes me feel better? they both sound cute tho ! have fun wiff ur boyfriend lol ♥britney♥

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