ok my name is sarah I am 13 and I have a huge question, ok now listen I have had a crush on this guy for about 2 months tops and I have been friends with this grl named carisis for only like 2 years because we have never been friends before but now we are, anyway she knew I liked this guy and then she went behind my back at the park and MADE OUT WITH HIM and so yeah of course i got all mad at her and yeah I didnt talk to him but i did forgive her and we have still been friends but now i have a new boyfriend and she juked on him all the way down at a school dance and told my other friend not to tell ME! SO I am like who the hell can i trust anymore, is she really a friend cause i know that my friends who tell me everything and I can trust and have known for 8 years are my best friends but yeah oh and I did a really slutty thing too because of "her" and I feel really guilty cuz none of this wouldnt have happened if she told me that the "guy" was using me so she is basically acting like a self centered brat saying that i am screwed and everything ugh there is another big story behindall of this but yeah so please tell me if i should stay with my boyfriend and trust my friend anymore please!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? beckss answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 2:01 pm: From all the things you are saying shes doing makes her definatly NOT your friend. If she knew that you liked that guy, a true friend would actually try to get you too together instead of making out with him. Shes a slut. The other guy is your boyfriend! That is not a good friend. I would seriously confront her and then never talk to her again, because she did things to you more than once and tell her that, doing this made her lose you and she is going to lose all her other friends. good luck. =D
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x0advice4y3w answered Sunday April 9 2006, 4:05 pm: I would stay with your boyfriend. I would deffinitly tell your "friend" tho that she needs a little adjustment or she's going to have no friends. I had a friend like that once, well she wasn't exactly my friend, but she talked to all the guys I liked & made sure she bragged about it. I wanted to punch her so badly, but enough about me. I would tell the girl exactly how you feel. Be like "Hey. I am loosing complete trust with you, and what your doing is so bitchy, can you please stop?" Give that a try. I hope this helpss.<3 [ x0advice4y3w's advice column | Ask x0advice4y3w A Question ]
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