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why is my best friend like this?
well, its like this i have been best friends with my friend all my life.im going out with my boyfriend now and she doesnt like him.she wont tell me why she doesnt like him either.she made me choose between them and i picked her because your best friend will always be there and your boyfriend might not.anyways,i broke up with my boyfriend and he was defastated and then i started crying because i couldnt believe i was actually breaking his heart.i told my best friend i picked her and the only thing she said to me was good.i kept bumping into him and i knew staight away he was still hurting inside.but about two weeks later i saw him in the shop and i went over to him to ask him was he ok he couldnt even look at me.i said to him that i made a big mistake and i was really sorry.that night he rang me asking me did i want to get back together so we did.
i told my best friend when i went back to school and she got really bitchy with me and said whatever go ruin your life.i left it and just started talking about something else.now if i even mention his name she starts shouting at me saying he is such a freak why on earth would i go out with him.he isnt a freak god no.
ok my question is long but what should i do my best friend is being really mean to my boyfriend and i.if you have any advice for me please give it.13/f
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so maybe your friend knows something about him thats you dont, maybe try asking her about it you may find something shocking out!
and i as for your bf what does he think of her?rememeber what you said your friends are alwasy there for you boys come and go and at your age i wouldnt worry to much about it ,youll be fine :)
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hey, okay it is good that you picked your bff over the guy because that is true.. friends will be there forever. But the person tha isnt treating this situation right is your friend. If she really is your true friend then she would understand that this guy makes you happy and would want you tpo be with him! I think you need to talk to your friend and tell her that this guy means alot to you and that you respect that she doesnt like him but this is your life and you want to live it the way you want to..... Hope I gave you an idea!
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Your best friend could be jealous. She could want to be the only one in your life. She might think since you have a boyfriend now, that you'll leave her. You need to sit here down and be like "What did he ever do to you to make you hate him? - Believe me you're my best friend I wouldn't leave you for a guy so don't worry." Say something like that and see what she does. It could be POSSIBLE that she likes him. I don't know.
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