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One of my closest friends typed this Note on Facebook:
I'm sick of this teenage girl drama.
If you have a problem with me then just say it. I'm not going to sit around and put up with you "joking around" because I know there's a not just a grain of truth behind it, it's a damn truck load. You people are so immature.
Oh boo freaking hoo, I talk to your boyfriend. What's the big deal? Is he not allowed to have FRIENDS? Do you keep that tight of a leash on him? Shows how much trust you have in that wonderful person.
I've been spending my summer, no, my LIFE, trying to cut you people out of my everyday routine. How do you manage to come crawling back? By tricking me into thinking you're genuine EVERY GOD DAMN TIME. Well, you'll be glad to know that I'm sick of you and I'm not going to be putting up with how immature you people are any more. I'm completely and utterly cutting you from my life for good.
If you see me at school? Don't talk to me. If you see me on the street? Don't talk to me. If you see me in a dream? Don't talk to me. I swear to God, I want nothing to do with you ever again.
Congratulations on succeeding in being the most ridiculously immature, ignorant and self absorbed people that have ever stepped foot into my life. Oh, and for the record, you should feel pretty happy that I let you in my life for that long because you REALLY did not deserve it.
Fin.
=/ I don't know what to say. I don't know who she's referring to but I just want to let her know that it's okay and that I'm there for her. I'm good at caring but I never really know what to say.
Thanks! (link)
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If your really close friends, and your curious of what's going on in her life don't be afraid to ask her, as long as this thing isn't about you haha. Just point blank say "Is everything okay? I read your note on facebook and I'm just letting you know if you want to tell me you totally can(: I'm just curious, but you don't have to tell me if you don't want to(:" just plain and simple! She can't get mad at you if your not forcing her to tell you what its about, does that make sense? I think it'll be fine, just let her know that your here for her and your lucky to have a friend like her! (: hope I helped!
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Alright, so me and my best friend are EXTREMELY close. We can tell each other anything and we trust each other completely. We hang out a lot and stuff and we're both addicted to taking pictures and stuff, so we go to the mall and take crazy pictures all the time. According to another of our friends, who is really really honest about anything, we are acting like lesbians? I don't know how, I mean we just like to hang out, like normal "best friends" should. I'm straight and I don't know about my best friend, but she says she is so I believe her. Not that there's anything wrong with lesbians, but if people think you are and you aren't, it can kinda mess up some relationships. I guess what I want to know is; how do you and your best friend act? if it's similair to the way we act, do people call you a lesbian? Thanks! (link)
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Okay I totally see the problem, and there's nothing wrong with you guys at all, its just other people maybe being Shallow, Jealous or Gossipy. But that's totally their problem. I'm with my best friend now acctually, and I don't have a sister or anything but I think having a best friend is exactly the way you described it. Like me and my best friend hug like all the time, doesn't mean we're lesbians right? People hug! And nah I don't think anyone's ever thought that we were lesbians. Maybe people want you two to think that, so you'll become less of bestfriends and other people will steal you away from eachother? It happens! But all I have to say is, that's so rediculous, it seems to me that you two act way more like best friends, because best friends tell eachother everything, can take lots of pictures together, finish eachothers sentences, like the same things or not like the same things and argue all the time but still love eachother! I hope this makes sense! (:
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ok. i'm 15 from IL. my friend has the hugest crush on my other friend. but shes so oblivious that she doesn't even realize it. should i tell her, or should i just let the chips fall where they may? (link)
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I would say, give her hints he likes her. But don't tell her straight away and don't make it obvious. Also first before you do anything, you could casually do in to a conversation like "So, who do you think is hot at our school?" and like name off guys untill you get to the person who likes her. And then if she says lie "9" then you could say "Oh do you like him?" and if she says yes, you could say things like "you guys would be so cute together" or "I should ask if he likes you.. should I?". Or if she already does like him, then don't say anything, and just see what happens. But I'd say if nothing happens for a while and they still like eachother, maybe step in but don't make a big approach if that makes sense. That's what I'd do! (: Hope something helped.
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well i have this friend that i like but i dont want to tell her that i like her we just have such good chemistry together we've made out a few times before but i dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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If you've made out a few times, she probobly likes you too. Give it a shot and tell her. Or you could get one of your friends, who's friends with her and get them to ask her if she likes anyone and then casually bring up your name and see what she says, just incase she doesn't like you. Because it wouldn't be good if you told her and she said "Uhh, no?!".
I hope something helped you out(: Good luck.
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i'm 15 girl that's a sophmore in highschoool!
i want to be popular
and i don't want the typical advice like put yourself out there..it does not work or help! (link)
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Okay, well if you don't want to be yourself, you can test out a bunch of make up, exercise, join clubs/dance/other things you like. Make new friends by being nice and smiling (but not to annoying) and laugh a lot, because people apparently love laughing. Except unhappy people or serious people I guess if you look at it that way. Don't transform yourself though. Think of a person or a personality you would think a person would have that would make you want to be around, and be that person. If that makes sense. Also, don't be afraid to say stuff, quiet people normally don't get that much credit. So try putting yourself out there, and be ready for anything anyone might say. Just try to be confident with yourself, you'll get the hang of it(:
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So i am 15 and i am going to my friend birthday party in 2 days. At the party there is not going to be alcohol or smoking or anything. But afterwards I am spending the night at her house with a whole bunch of people and there is gonna be drinking and smoking and i already know i don't want to smoke but I am iffy on the drinking. My friend told me I didn't have to but I would feel kind of left out so I kinda want to. Do you think its a bad idea? or should I enjoy my youth? (link)
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Well theres a few things you could do:
1."blend in" and not drink but carry around a bottle of beer & pretend to drink it but your not really your just putting your lips on it & not drinking anything
2.not drink but still act crazy & talk a lot and have a ton of fun, and not be a drunk person who has to get up in the morning feeling aweful with a horrible head ache & really bad breathe
3.drink like one bottle but sip it like have a few sips every half hour or so, like watch what your doing.
if i were you id defidently chose number 2 but its your call haha. its a good thing your not smoking though but you really don't want to get drunk so if i were you i wouldn't drink at all, but still have fun & be crazy, plus if cops come for any stupid reason you'll be sober. :]
hope something helped or gave you the ideaa. good luck! :]]]
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She is really mean to me and ignores me half the time. We always fight. she says she is my friend but she doesn't act like it. Is she my friend or not.
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I think she is nottt your friend because friend's treat friends with respect not like crap. So if i were you i'd ignore her & drop her and find some other good friends who'd be nicer. :]
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Im so scared im not going to have a friend next year, all my friends are going to be in seperate hombases!!!!!!!!!!!! I need tips on how to make friends because its hard in middle school,
THANKYOU!! :D (link)
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I know just what you mean, making friends can be really difficult but you will defidently make one your first or second day if your really open with talking to people,almost everyone gets really shy at first when they talk to new people so you could try asking more questions to who ever you meet, and be happy but not to happy, you dont want them thinking your annoying. haha, you could be like "hey whats your name?" and you could talk about things you have in common or classes you both have or basiaclly anything. most meetings are a little akward but the trick it mainly keeping the convorsation going. i really hope something helped. good luck. :]]]
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Ok.
so my friend just informed me that
she likes this one guy who is 16 and
shes 14 and she wants to ask him out.
but i happen to know for sure
that he likes someone else.
should i just help her through it
or tell her that he likes someone else
and see what happens from there?? (link)
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Think about her and what would happen to her in the future if she asked him out and he said know. now are you SURE that he likes someone else for SURE? because these could happen: A. she could ask him out and he'd say no and then she'd be crushed and wouldn't ask out many guys for a while and you might feel some what guilty B.you tell her that you think he likes another girl, but your not sure, and you should make it so she wont think your "jelous" or anything and you should bring up an idea so you save her from a potential heart-ache. If i were you i would tell her but say it in a certain way she trusts you and knows your not jelous or you aren't "stealing" him or anything. don't be afraid to tell her, shes your friend she should understand. hope that worked because im not the best at this haha. :]
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