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im not sure what to tell my friend
Ok.
so my friend just informed me that
she likes this one guy who is 16 and
shes 14 and she wants to ask him out.
but i happen to know for sure
that he likes someone else.
should i just help her through it
or tell her that he likes someone else
and see what happens from there??
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Think about her and what would happen to her in the future if she asked him out and he said know. now are you SURE that he likes someone else for SURE? because these could happen: A. she could ask him out and he'd say no and then she'd be crushed and wouldn't ask out many guys for a while and you might feel some what guilty B.you tell her that you think he likes another girl, but your not sure, and you should make it so she wont think your "jelous" or anything and you should bring up an idea so you save her from a potential heart-ache. If i were you i would tell her but say it in a certain way she trusts you and knows your not jelous or you aren't "stealing" him or anything. don't be afraid to tell her, shes your friend she should understand. hope that worked because im not the best at this haha. :]
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if youre POSITIVE that he likes someone else, then you should tell her, otherwise shell just get hurt by him.
if you arent sure, then maybe ask him yourself if he likes someone or not. if he does, tell her, if he doesnt, help her through it.
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if youre positive (i mean ABSOLUTLEY positive), then you probably should tell her. if she asked him and he said no, she'd be hurt (and maybe upset that you didn't tell her about his crush). only if she mentions it though... if you randomly tell her that, then she might think you like him or something.
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You could try telling her, sure. But she may think you're telling her to make her jealous, or think that YOU like him. How sure are you that he likes someone else? You culd be wrong. I'd let her ask him out anyways. She'll regret not saying anything if she doesn't, and you'll have to hear about it regardless of what happens [he says yes, he says no, she never asks and wonders what could have been]
So prepare yourself for the worst. A pint of her favorite icecream next time she comes over is sufficent :)
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Mm I think you should just tell her that he has someone else in mind because it would hurt her more to be turned down,you know?
Hope I helped ;]
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