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Well, i like this guy and he knows. Well, he's off limits anyways because he is "talking" to his ex girlfriend. But anyways, i used to always be sad because he had a girlfriend and i liked him SSOO much. But now, i am working on the next problem. I want to be his friend but he dosen't answer my text messages ever. He always used to reply to them. Also, calling him isn't an option. He will talk to me a little at school but he dosen't go out of his way. He talks to my friend about his girl problems and tells her secrets and they talk a lot. I can't really expect my friend to tell me anyways. I wish i was the girl he talked to about that. I know he dosen't do that to me because he knows i like him and he wouldn't talk to me about his girl problems. I am also really shy around him but i still talk to him. What do i do?
16/f.
Loosen up around him. If he sees that his presences doesn't do anything to you, then he may think you don't like him anymore. Emotions shut boys off somehow, not exactly sure how but if he thinks you don't like him he may want to be friends.
The first step to a relationship is a friendship, or atleast only the ones that work. I knew a boy two years befre dating him because we were good friends.Maybe he just thinks its weird that you like him and barely know him.
I would just take a break, and try to be his friend first and don't aim to be anything else. Don't flirt[[even though its REALLY hard not to]] and just hang out with him. You say your friend and him are friends well have her set up this thing at the movies with a group of friends, and have her invite him.
Make sure though that this boy doesn't think that ***she like hims though because that may cause some issues.
Hope I helped.
ok..so... theres this boy at my school and i really like him...but theres a problem...were really good friends and its cool like this and all but i want more....last year i liked him to and he thought i only liked him cause he gave me attention..so i was mad at him for a long time and were now really good freinds again and the other day he found out i liked him again some how i have no idea how he found out!! and so im afraid hes going to think something like that again. im so confused i really like him but i dont know what to do can you please help me?
Last Year was Last Year..
Maybe he liked you then but didn't know how to tell you so made up something dumb, to runaway from it.
If he tries it again catch it before it happens.
If you don't want him toknow tell him you don't and who ever told you needs to keep there mouth shut for things they dont know about
And if you do want him to know don't denie it..
be like soo?? Or give him reasons why.. and explain that attention hass nothing to do with it.
Hope I helped
My friend and I like the same boy. I dont know what to do really. Does anyone have advice for me, because i don't want to hurt her but i really like him. My age is 14 and I am a Female.
well if you have a clear shot at him.. like he likes you back, sit her down and explain it to her before someone else has the chance.
if he's ifyy.. and ur not really sure how he feels wait until ur posstive!No reason ruining a friendship over a guy that never liked u.
NOY SAYING IT WILL
but if it does get her angry explain it more. and dont bring this up ina casual conversation.. maybe cry a little. might help
ok...im 13 and so is my friend..but she has some..well..problems..heres how it goes..a few weeks ago i saw my best friend that i hadn't seen in 3 years..she ended up staying the night at my house a whole week two weeks later..she told me everything that happened since we had last seen eachother..she told me that she used to cut herself and had an eating disorder and she still did it once and a while..im worried that she might end up harming herself..she told me she had it under control but i dont beleive her..she said that it was addictive and i dont know what to do..i told her that i wouldnt tell no body so im not going to..so please dont tell me to tell someone..if you could send me some websites for her to look at or something like that it would be a LOT of help...or even give me a few things i could say to her..i plan on telling her how i feel next time i see her..but i need something more..help!
You ask for help, then restrec some of the options. If you truly want to hel your friend, you need to tell someone. As hard as it may seen ask a parent, teacher, guidance coinseler.. anything about cutting and how to treat it. Dont mention names.. just voice it.
my friend and i were at his house with all my other friends but then he told them to go away so that he could dye my hair. i was really wet when i first got there so he lent me a t shirt and boxers to wear. so when they got out of the house we were alond in his room and he kinda started feeling me and put his hands on my waist. he was all over me and even tried to finger me. he was lifting up my shirt but then i was like what are you doing?? you have a girlfriend!!!! so it kinda ended there but i dont know what to do because i really like him. the thing is maybe he doesnt like me but just wants to do stuff with me. ugh what do i do??
Tell your friend what happened, and be like I told him no and he stoped. Im soo sorry. And tell him that were friends nothing more.
i am a 15 year old girl. I have liked this one guy for about like since 6th grade and now i am going to be a freshmen...so about 4 years. well we always flirt and like hold hands or are really close to each other. he was a girlfriend but he wants to do IT with me. We meet at his locker all the time during class to talk about it. So friday i went to his locker like he told me. I was nervous even though i realy would love to kiss him. he was saying how he thought i like him and i told him i do but what about your gf, he told me that she didnt have to know. We were standing there and i a thinking what if i made the first move? He didnt think i was enthusiastic this time, because this has happened before him asking me to hook up with him. should i make the first move? if so where, how should i tell him that i want to hook up. should i call him and ask him to meet me somewhere?
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If he wants to be with you so badly, he wouldn't have a girlfriend.Its happened to me.. tell him to get you he needs to be availible.
i have a guy friend. weve been good friends since we were five years old.A couple of years back i had a HUGE crush on him and he didn't feel the same way about me, but when i FINALLY stopped liking him he started calling me every night and claims he still doesn't like me.Do you think he likes me more than a friend or do you think he just wants to talk as friends? and if you think he likes me WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!
cuticle sistas!
let him do the first move because if u ask him if he likes you them you may seem like a complete idiot if he says no were only friends i told you this before okward ho ya so let him ask or what ever then say what your thinking
hi i have a problem i was friends with this woman and i told her a secret about me and a man i was seeing 20 yrs ago she promised that she would not tell anyone but she told aload of people in a chat, now she stalks me around the net and im sick of her i wish she would leave me alone she has been warned off moderaters but it just comes back and starts trouble again.
Start swearing at her be like leave me the (beep) alone stop stalking me you (beeping) (beep) i dint don anything to me so leave me alone you frieck ok ill call the cop you weirdo!!!!!!!!
hope i helped
katie
Okay, just to start things off, in the youth group I am in, there is absolutely NO DATING allowed. [and don't worry, it makes sense]
Well, i was talking on AIM last night to one of really good friends and his cousin in a chat room. They invited me to a Flyleaf concert at the end of the month, just out of the blue. I don't know, it just would kind of seem awkward...But I reallllllly wanna go because they are both my friends and such. I think that some of the girls in our youth group might be jealous [they are good looking].
and, I think my mom will be a little freaked out if I said, "Hey, can I go with two 16-17 year old guys to a flyleaf concert?"
My mom doesn't know either of them, but she knows that I can trust them and all.
I don't know what to do at all. Help?
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How do you know that they would never hurt you alot of people say that about people and end up geting raped or what not.But if you say so i trust your judgement.Tell your mom you wanna go and if she says no then trust hers.But if she says yes "yaya"celebrate cause your going to a flyleaf concert
hopeihelped
katie
A good friend of mine recently just told me that he has feeling for me that go beyond our friendship. I had to turn him down and tell him that I couldn't be more than just friends with him. Not because he's not a good guy, don't get me wrong, he's pretty hott, funny, fun, sweet; he's a great guy. I just can't see myself in a relationship with him since we're such good friends. And not only him, but anyone of my male friends (I'm a girl by the way, if you haven't caught on--16).
It's like, once a guy reaches the "friend zone" with me, thats it, I can't date him. I mean, I tell my best frineds (guys and girls) everything from guys I've dated and done things sexual with to why my sister and I got into a fight. They've also seen me at my worst whether it be just woken up, havent shaved my legs in a while (haha), or in an argument with a parent. True, a boyfriend should know almost everything about you and will end up seeing you in those situations but as the relationship builds. Plus if I my best friend becomes my boyfriend then who am I going to complain to guys about?
Does anyone else feel this way or do you think I should give this guy a shot even though I do think this about friendships? Because honestly, if he had told me before we became such good friends I probably would have gone for it.
I feel like the same way.Ya been through so much with them and just cant see you guys together.A lot of people dont date friends because if we breck up it ocward being around them .And what do you mean Give this guy a ashot i know what you mean but you already said no dont date this friend because a few people on the internet said you should you dont even know them dont let them run your life.I understand completely why you dont date friends and your not alone i dont either.Its weird cause there really no diffrence between but kissing hugging more more haha me i dont thik you should date him dont ruin a friendship hoping for luck
okay, there's this gorgeous boy I know. He's completely flawless, and I have a big thing for him. One of my friends tells me that he actually likes me. Naturally, I was thirlled, but there's on problem: HE WON'T GO OUT WITH ME!! There's a lot going on with him, I guess. I mean we still flirt, hang out, etc., but does this mean I should lay off him in terms of flirting? the things have nothing to do with me [more-so family], but does that mean I should leave him be for now? thanks
I think that he may not be ready for a realation ship but you need to tell him that your not looking for the hole friends with benifits i think that he is a nice and sweet lovible guy but why he wont go out with you say that " i like you and i think i show that when i flirt with you and ask you out ...."act innocent and be like 'what do i do wrong...?"so
hopefuly i helped
katie ->
When you`re friend is mad @ you, is it best to say sorry // talk to them online, in person 0r does it matter? also is it best to give them time to cool down so they`re not as mad or what .. i will rate for answers. anything`s useful. thanks!
i tyhink that if you did this you did the right thing .its better to tell why you said this.maybe that them cool off and call them and be like im sorry i siad this or did that(what ever you did)
its better to work things off when people have really thouht about it.
hope i helped
.::katie::.
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Me and this guy have been best friends for like 3 years and we were really really close and i trusted him with everything. In 6th grade we went out but it was ntohign big or anything we lasted about a month. I went out with other people but in the middle of 7th grade i really started to believe that I loved him.. truely loved him. I told some of my "girlfriends" but I kept my feelings from him for a long time. Finally, he put me in the posistion where I had to tell him so I told him I loved him. For about a week we didn't talk but he said he was happy I told him. The next week he ended up with a gf who is my good friend. I never did anything wrong and he told other people that he hated me and he was never goign to talk to me again. This really hurts me becuase not only am i losing the love of my life but the best friend I ever had. What do I do??
I RATE 5's if you answered for reading all of this.
I'm very sorry with what your going through.I don't see how he would say that stuff about and how he would never talk to you EVER again if somthing didn't happen that you might not be telling us in your question.I don't know but tel him "Why are you acting like this you wnated to know how i fealt to you and i told you but then you end up hating me.I don't get it why are you doing this your my best even after this."
but if your in 7th grade i dont think you LOVE him i think you have a very strong crush on him.i don't see why you told him though i would have been so embaristed.it tells me that you don't care what other people think and that's great.but now you care what he think and try to either emprove your slef maybe to what he likes which you should never do not that you said anythign about this.but if you dont care what other people think and just him stand up for what really happend that night and see how it goes.....
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.::katie::.
[16/f] so here's the deal. i have a guy friend turned best friend. we've been friends for just less than a year and we've had our share of ups and downs. in the past 2 months, we've become really close. we used to go to the same school but not anymore but despite th distance we've managed to get closer. i go see him at least once a week now and he calls me everyday to tell me "i love you." he writes me letters, draws me pictures, takes me out to movies, and cuddles with me. lately he's been jokingly saying that he's my boyfriend and whatnot and i guess it got me thinking that there might be a possibility that he might like me. i used to like him LONG time ago but not anymore. all my friends, my family and EVEN his family says he likes me but i just can't bring myself to believe them. and just yesterday he asked me if he could spend new years with me instead of being with his family. i guess i'm just looking for a second and non biased opinion from someone else to tell me if it seems like this guy seems to like me. and if you think he does, should i confront him and ask him if he does? how do i avoid having him fall for me? should bestfriends ever turn into something more? i'm not ready for a relationship and i'm not looking to be with anyone for a long time coming. thanks for any help =)
ok i dont think you should because after yord if you get dumped or dump them you dont act the same way around each other because there not your best friend anymore tehre your x and you say everythings ok but you grow apart so its really up to you but i wouldnt sorry
.::katie::.
My best friend, Cynthia is leaving town. For good! I don't know what to do. She said I can keep in touch, but now she said she was staying and now MY parents are looking foward to moving. I don't get this. What do I say to my best friend? What do I say to my parents?
HELLLLLLLLP!
-*CONFUSED PRINCESS
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ok me and my friend are really close she is like my sister but a year ago she started to hand out with other people and she gets drunk every night and does drungs and parties a lot (i mean i party to but not like her) and i have notest she has started cutting heself and she has just been mean to me and if any of u read me last advice u kno i just found out that i am pregnet i try to tell her and talk to her but she just wont talk to me......plz help me i dont now what to do i am soo confussed i am scared of lossing my best friend-----thanks
tell her to stop cutting stop hurting you friends and hopefully she'll listen drinking to much isnt good for you she could get achohal poniing and stuff and you dont want anything happeing to her like her getting raped make sure you go to every party she does if she gtes to drunk drag her out og thta house and drive her home make sure you keep a good eye on her so nothing bad happens
stay in touch with her
.::katie::.
I've had an eating disorder for lets say longer than a year. (anorexia) I finally got over it this summer. I'm worried about school though and how my friends will react because i wasn't eating lunch all last year. Will they make a big deal out of it and will i end up starting it ALL OVER AGAIN????? I RATE HIGH
wellit would be helpfull if you told me why you stopped but ill work with what i got no just tell them i didnt eat and im sorry i know it was dangerois and thats why i started up again and i will never stop again i prommiss
Hey so I have a boyfriend and hes really hot but I like him cause I like his personality. So my friend Allie kept on telling him to dump me and go out with her. She already has a boyfriend and I told him and we are both really pissed at her and we dont know what to do. Should I just ignore the fact that shes trying to steal my boyfriend or something else?
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ewhat a jerk stop being that girl allie friend so