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i am in love with my best friend.
i am a 15 year old girl. I have liked this one guy for about like since 6th grade and now i am going to be a freshmen...so about 4 years. well we always flirt and like hold hands or are really close to each other. he was a girlfriend but he wants to do IT with me. We meet at his locker all the time during class to talk about it. So friday i went to his locker like he told me. I was nervous even though i realy would love to kiss him. he was saying how he thought i like him and i told him i do but what about your gf, he told me that she didnt have to know. We were standing there and i a thinking what if i made the first move? He didnt think i was enthusiastic this time, because this has happened before him asking me to hook up with him. should i make the first move? if so where, how should i tell him that i want to hook up. should i call him and ask him to meet me somewhere?
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yea im not a fan of cheating at all. i think you should tell him "I'd love to but i wont do anything until you break up with your girlfriend" and if says no, that means he could just be using you for extra action, if he says yes, he cares about you enough to ditch his gf, then you guys arent breakin any trust or anthing like that. its fair and square. i had a bad experience with cheating once so i cant stand it =/
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To be honest I really don't think you should make a move at all. He seems to be treating both you and his girlfriend very badly. He fact he wants to stay with his girlfriend and secretly hook up with you is an indicator that it wouldn't be of much importance to him but he knows that you really like him and he is willing to take advantage of that. You deserve much better, someone who will be proud to be with you rather than all the secrecy and lies.x
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If he wants to be with you so badly, he wouldn't have a girlfriend.Its happened to me.. tell him to get you he needs to be availible.
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He does have a girlfriend. If you want to hurt her go ahead. You know she will find out. Unless she lives on another planet. Guys talk(Brag) and she may have a friend the is gf to one of his friends and there you go. If they cheat once it gets easier the second, third or fourth times.
So if he is willing to flirt with you while he has a gf then he is probably pretty experienced at cheating.
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No way! He has a girlfriend, and do you really want to be the other girl?
Honestly, if you think she would believe you, tell her everything you wrote here. It's not fair to her, and she deserves to know the truth.
You'll only regret hooking up with him, and he'll almost certainly break your heart--after using you.
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