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Next semester my schedule is full but I don't whether I should take History or Art. Art is something I really enjoy art and some of my close friends are in that course but I think History is useful, particularly for Uni. For practice writing essays and stuff.
I can't decide. Some opinions would be helpful. (link)
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Art is a very rewarding subject because in the end you have something to show for your hard work, other than just a grade but it is also a very time consuming subject and there can be a lot of pressure to get things finished on time. History while it of course involves study, it's not as involved.
When I took art there was also an art history aspect of the course. I don't know if this is the case in your school but if so it would be a means of combining the two subjects.
Hope you are happy in whatever decision you make.x
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There's this guy I met online and he threatened to kill me last night because I cancelled plans with him and went to the club with my friends. I don't want to tell my brother because he gets fucking PISSED and I don't want to deal with him. My cousin is the strongest guy in the tristate area and he's a bouncer at a club in philly, so what should I do? I'm freaked out even though i've been through this before. (link)
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Chances are this guy was just mad and said it in the heat of the moment but of course you can never be too careful where your personal safety is concerned . I agree you do need to tell someone, it's too much to try handle on your own but the last thing you need is someone who will freak out so your cousin sounds like a good person to tell, or a friend you can trust. While hopefully the threat is an idle one, be sure to let people know where you are going and when you are likely to be back. I hope everything works out well for you, take care.x
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ok my best friend has new and first gf they hung out like whole spring break and today i asked him if we could catch a movie on friday but he said that he is goin to the mall wit his gf
he said i could come but i dint answer because it rele had to get off the phone
so if i go will i be just a third wheel or is this a good way to meet his gf
i want to know her because ya know i need to c if she is good for him
and please no ooooo u like him and stuf because i dont 15 f
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By asking you to come your friend showed that he doesn't want you to feel as though he's neglecting you. He's obviously a good, caring guy and he'll probably make an effort to make you feel included. Who knows, it could be the start of a good friendship between you and his gf. Hope it all goes well for you.x
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i only know like one verse... YOU DONT GOTTA CALL ME YOU BOO AS BAD AS YOU WANNA FUCK I WANNA FUCK TOO ... who sings it? or what is it called? (link)
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504 boyz - I can tell
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i love her she loves me she has a bf that loves her to hell but she doesnt love him like she used to he is extremely pissed off with me for textin her silly things like i miss you and love you and stuff he was ok with it a few days ago but he has suddnely changed his tune he sed "i dont want to get in the way of something special" (when he was in accpetance) now he is green with envy and would blow me off the face of this planet if he could, i said "but why should i come along and get in the way of your relationship" all because i text her those little things he is now ordering me around to keep out of it which i am sadly doing :s because i am scared to shit of the amount of power this one dood has and i have never been self confident and even while i am writting this message words from this morning conversation on msn between her bf and me with him saying stuff like u are going to stay away because i am going to take control of this and make it work... i feel so screwed up about all this its fukin horible, i wouldnt mind dieing right now to stop my emotional pain but it would cause lot more than that to other people around me AND EVEN THIS VERY SECOND I AM TEXTING HER god damn i have to stop or do i the bf is a great dood he is my freind but after this i think h is reconcidering (link)
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It seems as though the girl involved doesn't quite know what she wants. You deserve a girl who is 100% committed to you, if this girl felt strongly enough for you she would leave her boyfriend. Maybe she likes you on some level but do you really want to be with someone who doesn't feel as strongly for you as you do them?
I know it is so much easier said than done but you need to try to put her out of your mind and resist the temptation to text her. If she does feel something for you then she will be the one to contact you, if not then at least you know where you stand and can begin to move on.
I know you're in alot of pain right now, but it's not just a cliche, time is a great healer and I'm sure you'll be able to move on from this. Just try to keep calm because all this worrying can't be doing you any good. There is a girl out there who will love you as much as you do then, but you need to put all this behind you first so that you can move on with your life.
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i am a 15 year old girl. I have liked this one guy for about like since 6th grade and now i am going to be a freshmen...so about 4 years. well we always flirt and like hold hands or are really close to each other. he was a girlfriend but he wants to do IT with me. We meet at his locker all the time during class to talk about it. So friday i went to his locker like he told me. I was nervous even though i realy would love to kiss him. he was saying how he thought i like him and i told him i do but what about your gf, he told me that she didnt have to know. We were standing there and i a thinking what if i made the first move? He didnt think i was enthusiastic this time, because this has happened before him asking me to hook up with him. should i make the first move? if so where, how should i tell him that i want to hook up. should i call him and ask him to meet me somewhere?
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To be honest I really don't think you should make a move at all. He seems to be treating both you and his girlfriend very badly. He fact he wants to stay with his girlfriend and secretly hook up with you is an indicator that it wouldn't be of much importance to him but he knows that you really like him and he is willing to take advantage of that. You deserve much better, someone who will be proud to be with you rather than all the secrecy and lies.x
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I'm a boy, and I'm 15
I have a best friend whose really cool. Me and him met in marching band and eventually became really good friends.
But there's this girl who is obsessed with him and is always hanging on to him. She pretty much treats me like dirt and acts like I'm getting in the way.
One time I told my friend that if he liked her and she liked him they should just go out with each other, and they both acted like I was crazy. Maybe it was because my best friend had a girlfriend before and had bad experiences? idk.
Anyway, I usually don't care when they hang out, even if I am left behind, but the other day, my best friend decided to skip school to go snowtubing with this girl. It wouldn't usually make me mad, but that felt like kinda the last straw. I was so mad at that girl, because she sort of "took" my best friend. I don't have a lot of friends and I sorta felt like I was being left out.
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You really need to talk to your friend. From the sounds of things, you and your friend get on really well so I'm sure he'll take the time to listen to you. Explain to him that you don't mind him spending time with her but that you feel like it's coming between you two. He possibly isn't even aware that he has been neglecting your friendship.
If the girl in question doesn't treat you well perhaps he could work out a way of making time for both you and her but at separate times. Don't worry friendships often go through weird phases but things have a way of working themselves out. Your friend will probably soon realise that friendships are alot more permanent than random girls. Best of luck with it.x
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I love my boy friend tons and he told me that he has strong feelings for me i wanna kiss him but i'm afraid of what my parents and friends would say.
My friends would probably say i'm a slut but i am worried about my parents as it would be my first kiss
I really need help (link)
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The most important thing is that you do what feels right. If your both ready then so be it.
Nobody should think any less of you for kissing him, he is your boyfriend after all.
Your true friends will know you and know that you're not at all a slut. Parents are never exactly happy at the thought of their kids kissing and so on but explain to them that it's a decision you gave a lot of thought to and hopefully they will see that you are being responsible by being open with them about it.
I hope it all goes well for you.x
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i have a big prob. ... i added my friend and i told him that im another person... and now he found out and he's angry at me... i know that was wrong... but i really wanted to be his friend n i guess i thought he might think somethin u know that i like him or somethin which i dont...
can you please help me ASAP... please please please
thanks alot!! (link)
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Just apologise to your friend and tell him that you weren't trying to deceive him or make him angry. Say you were nervous about adding him as yourself so pretended to be someone else and that you're sorry. He'll probably understand.
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okay.. so im 15/f and my boyfriend 17/m got into a fight last night. see we have been together for a little over 5 months. we have only got into 3 big fights, counting this one.
last night we went to the movies, and then we hung out at his place. i was in a sad/bad mood so i didnt really talk to him all that much, but i got over it and we started talking, then had sex. Well, he has this game on his phone that i like to play.
&& his birthday is next month, and i was going to have a surprise party for him, i told his best friend, so i looked at his texting to see if his friend told him anything about it. and i saw that his friend asked if he was with me and my bf said yea, shes being the usal bitch. i mean, i didnt do anything to called a "bitch". i told him i wanted to go home and on the way home i was crying and stuff. then i got home and we got into a texting fight, and i told him i would never call him any names like that, and then today he was saying how i dont appreciate the things he does for me. and i said im sorry that you called me a bitch and i had sex with you. and he said that he told his friend that before we did anything.
well really theres more to it then that, but i cried all night and today.. am i over reacting?.. i mean i never had a boyfriend that does the things my boyfriend does for me. hes so sweet, and i do notice the things he does for me. i might not show how i love him, but i do, im just really scared of getting hurt like i did in the past... what should i do to show him that im sorry?... or should i even be sorry? (link)
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It seems you're staying with him because of fear of getting hurt but clearly being with him is hurting you too. You don't deserve that.
He shouldn't have said what he did and the fact that he has managed to turn the situation around to make you feel bad is appalling.
He may treat you well sometimes, but sometimes isn't enough. You haven't done anything wrong and he should be the one to apologise, not you.
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