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let it blow over or keep on loving her,,,
i love her she loves me she has a bf that loves her to hell but she doesnt love him like she used to he is extremely pissed off with me for textin her silly things like i miss you and love you and stuff he was ok with it a few days ago but he has suddnely changed his tune he sed "i dont want to get in the way of something special" (when he was in accpetance) now he is green with envy and would blow me off the face of this planet if he could, i said "but why should i come along and get in the way of your relationship" all because i text her those little things he is now ordering me around to keep out of it which i am sadly doing :s because i am scared to shit of the amount of power this one dood has and i have never been self confident and even while i am writting this message words from this morning conversation on msn between her bf and me with him saying stuff like u are going to stay away because i am going to take control of this and make it work... i feel so screwed up about all this its fukin horible, i wouldnt mind dieing right now to stop my emotional pain but it would cause lot more than that to other people around me AND EVEN THIS VERY SECOND I AM TEXTING HER god damn i have to stop or do i the bf is a great dood he is my freind but after this i think h is reconcidering <sorry bad spelling] and i am so scared of whats going to happen i cant think straight i'm getting physically ill and everythin that happens makes me jump.. i didnt used to do this but its really really affecting me please help with anything even if it is just comforting i could really do with it
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It seems as though the girl involved doesn't quite know what she wants. You deserve a girl who is 100% committed to you, if this girl felt strongly enough for you she would leave her boyfriend. Maybe she likes you on some level but do you really want to be with someone who doesn't feel as strongly for you as you do them?
I know it is so much easier said than done but you need to try to put her out of your mind and resist the temptation to text her. If she does feel something for you then she will be the one to contact you, if not then at least you know where you stand and can begin to move on.
I know you're in alot of pain right now, but it's not just a cliche, time is a great healer and I'm sure you'll be able to move on from this. Just try to keep calm because all this worrying can't be doing you any good. There is a girl out there who will love you as much as you do then, but you need to put all this behind you first so that you can move on with your life.
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So you say this guy is your friend? And you like his girlfriend, in which you are texting. Are you sure she LOVES you? If she loves or even really like you, then she wouldn't be this guy right now, seems like maybe she is just leading you on, and she's doing that because she's not getting the attention she wants from her b/f or that she just likes the attention that she's getting from you. You need to stay away from her and this guy, cause seriously it sounds like they're doing all this together, or for some couples they're relationship goes through a phase and all they do is fight so they talk to other people so it can just boost their ego. You don't need this, stay away from them both. You deserve better, you need someone who can just pay attention to you, not you and someone else. If you just let this keep on, then this can be a messy situation. It will only get worse for you. So it's best if you find yourself a new girl, someone who doesn't have a boyfriend, and I'm sure there is someone who likes you out there, it just takes time to find them. You seem like a nice/caring guy, don't waste your life on this girl. Hope things work out, & hope this helps any, I hope ♥
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