Well, i like this guy and he knows. Well, he's off limits anyways because he is "talking" to his ex girlfriend. But anyways, i used to always be sad because he had a girlfriend and i liked him SSOO much. But now, i am working on the next problem. I want to be his friend but he dosen't answer my text messages ever. He always used to reply to them. Also, calling him isn't an option. He will talk to me a little at school but he dosen't go out of his way. He talks to my friend about his girl problems and tells her secrets and they talk a lot. I can't really expect my friend to tell me anyways. I wish i was the girl he talked to about that. I know he dosen't do that to me because he knows i like him and he wouldn't talk to me about his girl problems. I am also really shy around him but i still talk to him. What do i do?
16/f.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? tootsierollsweet999 answered Wednesday September 10 2008, 6:21 am: Loosen up around him. If he sees that his presences doesn't do anything to you, then he may think you don't like him anymore. Emotions shut boys off somehow, not exactly sure how but if he thinks you don't like him he may want to be friends.
The first step to a relationship is a friendship, or atleast only the ones that work. I knew a boy two years befre dating him because we were good friends.Maybe he just thinks its weird that you like him and barely know him.
I would just take a break, and try to be his friend first and don't aim to be anything else. Don't flirt[[even though its REALLY hard not to]] and just hang out with him. You say your friend and him are friends well have her set up this thing at the movies with a group of friends, and have her invite him.
Make sure though that this boy doesn't think that ***she like hims though because that may cause some issues.
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