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Friends and Boyfriends


Question Posted Friday July 29 2005, 9:46 pm

Hey so I have a boyfriend and hes really hot but I like him cause I like his personality. So my friend Allie kept on telling him to dump me and go out with her. She already has a boyfriend and I told him and we are both really pissed at her and we dont know what to do. Should I just ignore the fact that shes trying to steal my boyfriend or something else?

Thanks xo0ox


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rikatree2375 answered Monday August 1 2005, 8:30 pm:
Try talking with her first. Tell her how it's just not right of her to mess up y'alls relationship. If she totally ignores you then don't worry. She doesn't sound like much of a friend anyways. Maybe even have your bf talk to her. Hope i helped!!!

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TakeThisToYourGrave answered Monday August 1 2005, 4:29 pm:
No don't ignore it, that means your friend really cares about her feelings more then her boyfriends or yours and isnt scared to show it..thats kinda sad.

Why dont you tell her that it's sad what she was doing and just try to talk to her, but with all of you, your bf, her bf and her of course,It doesn't seem like your bf likes her since he's still with you so dont worry about that but try to talk to her about friendship skills

Good luck with that!

Feel free to leave one in my inbox if you still need help.
x3Teresa

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Sum41bizzyd504 answered Monday August 1 2005, 12:47 pm:
Maybe shes just jealous. I have to admit some of my friends that are girls have cute guys as boyfriends.

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AshNicole...x3 answered Monday August 1 2005, 3:29 am:
What i would do is confront her about the whole thing and tell her to back off because he is your boyfriend not hers and she shouldnt care anyways because she has a boyfriend and i think this allie girl needs to get a life and stick with her own boyfriend and she needs to stop trying to steal other peoples hope i helped


...AshNicolex3

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tootsierollsweet999 answered Sunday July 31 2005, 7:25 pm:
ewhat a jerk stop being that girl allie friend so

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23xoTinkerBelleox32 answered Saturday July 30 2005, 1:14 pm:
definitely don't ignore she is being a B**** and she is DEFINITELY not ur true friend. You, your boyfriend, and her boyfriend should play an evil trick on her... like him "dumping" you (but not for real) and "going out" with her (again not for real). Then like two days later or something he'll tell her shes fat and can't go out with her. haha mean i know..

or just talk to her and tell her you hate it that she does that... and it makes you want to stop being her friend.

xo-amber

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icey0990 answered Saturday July 30 2005, 12:30 am:
she definately is not a true friend..if i were in your position i would be furious and i would definately think about whether or not i want to be friends with this girl any more..definately dont ignore it! confront her or something and see what the hell her problem is..no friend should do thaT to another friend.
-melissa-

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ncblondie answered Friday July 29 2005, 10:12 pm:
You call this girl a friend? Tell her a true friend wouldn't go after a friend's man and then kick her to the curb.

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ronda answered Friday July 29 2005, 10:00 pm:
You need to tell her to stop he is not her boyfriend he is yours.And why is the guy who gose out still going out with her?And why are you still her friend after what she is doing?If she was realy your friend she wouldnt be telling your boyfriend to dump you and go out with her.You need to tell her to stop.And stop trying to take your boyfriend cause if she was realy your friend she wouldnt do that.


*Good luck*

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shake answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:56 pm:
Ignore it and you'll regret it. She'll get your guy and you'll sit there watching her date him. Do something about it and you'll still regret it. She'll stop being your friend and you can watch her talk behind your back.

Both ways end up bad for you. Its more a decision of who you want to remain with longer.

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vickiooos answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:56 pm:
confront her and tell her it's really bothering both you and your boyfreind how she's persisting this while she's involved with someone else. she's definately not a worthwhile friend if she continues to do that

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