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My friend can be so bossy and mean sometimes and she gets mad at m for everything i hate it. We've known eachother since first grade so i dont want to ruin our friendship what should i do?

well if shes your friend she should understand you. Just say sometimes you get a little bossy and mean and it makes you unhappy!
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My bff is hanging out with this one girl that I hate and I feel really sad and I need to get over this. Help.

Just tell your friend that you dont really like the girl she is hanging out with and that you miss talking and spending time with her she should understand. If she doesnt maybe look for some more friends.
roxie

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hey my friend seems like she wants to have all the friends i have so she is trying to take them away and is saying that i cant be some ones friend because that person doesnt like her should i still be her friend if i am not she will make my life a living hell!!!!

HEY! she might just want to have some more friends she might feel left out and want to be your friend and friends with your friends. You cant control your mates if they want to be friends with someone they you should be ok with it. Because no matter what they arnt going to ditch you if there already good friends with you.
roxie

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people say im really pretty and nice but it doesn't seem like anybody wants to be my friend. should i be like hyper and wild? cuz i have noticed that people like hyper and wild friends. idk what do i do?

You should just be your self!!! Why should you be someone else to fit in find friends that will accept you for who you are!

luv roxie

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Well i have this friend lets call him fred... Yesterday i was talking to fred when i found out that he had tried to kill himself tree times already... but the worst thing is he is only in 7th grade... what can i do to help him? please help..

Hey he needs a shoulder to cry or or someone who can talk to him about it. Just tell him if he does try killing him self, tell him all the things and people he loves will miss him.

luv roxie

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My best mate has a huge crush on this guy and has had done for nearly 2 years, its making her depressed because he doesnt like her but she cant stop fancying him. How can i help her?

You need to get her out to see that there is lots of fit guys that she should be fanceying instead if just that one guy. Just say that hes not worth you and you should get out and do something. Keep her busy so she doesn't think about it.

luv roxie

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I have guy friend and I think he likes me as more than a friend what should I do?

I think you should ask him out or drop a few hints. See if he takes them.

good luck
luv roxie

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i have a friend and she is kind of stupid and I think she is only my because she wants to copy off my homework

Ask her. She what she says mabe you just thinking that. She might want to be your friend but does copy you sometimes.

luv roxie
Fuck of! loser!

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What would you do if you wanted new friends DESPERATELY but no one else wants to be friends with you?

You could try moving schools or classes to make some new friends. Just dont fall in with the wrong crowd.

luv roxie

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is it wrong to have a crush on someone younger by 2 year
i female 13
he male 11

No its not wrong but people might think its weird. If you really like him go for it.

luv roxie

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My friend says she never wants to be my friend again. I have talked to her before but we have gotten no where. I really want to be her friend. Also, she is friends with my other friends so i will still have to be around her. What should I do?

I think you should give her some time and then talk to her about it. If she doesnt want to be your friend say fine walk of and then she will realise that she needs you soon enough.

luv roxie

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Okay, I've been best friends with this girl since last year and we've been so tight! And now I think my other best friend is jealous and is trying to take her away from me! What should I do?

Shes just feel a bit left out because you and your best friend have grown apart and she wants to be in with you again! The other girl you have meet has been so great with you that she feels that your picking her over you.

luv roxie

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My best friend stuffs and everyone knows it! She went from flat, from a 32 C in Except she doesn't know that everyone knows, how do I tell her but not make her mad at me?
SiGnEd,
CoNfuSeD FriEnD

Just be honest with her and tell her the truth.

luv roxie

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my friend dani is a really weird person. she's my friend and all but i don't know how to tell her how weird she is. help me.

When she does something and laughts say your weird.

luv roxie

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My friend is mad at me for a dumb reason and she says she does not want to be my friend but I know shes lying, because she has done this before. What can I do to so her I want to be her friend?

Ask her why she doesnt want to be your friend anymore and see what she says if she hasnt got a reason not to be your friend then just say that you want to be friends.

luv roxie

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I go to an all girls Catholic School, except recently I was accepted into a co-ed boarding school. I'm going to go to the boarding school, except how do I tell all my frieds that I'm leaving them? Even more so, how do I tell them that I won't even be around?

Just get them all together and tell them. Say that your moving but you dont want to have to say good bye but you have to. Dont worry everything will be ok. Tll them that you will still ring and email them or txt them.

luv roxie
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me and my friend, lets call her Sarah, got into a huge fight over a little misunderstanding. I tried over and over again to tell her that i was sorry...but what ever i said it came out soo twisted and messed up!! she is my only friend and now she hates me...how can i tell her im sorry without screwing up?!?!?!

Write her a letter. If you keep getting thigs muddled up and tell her that your so sorry for fighting. And what your feeling and why it all happenend. Say tht your the best friend in the world and you dont want to lose her. Put at the bottom please talk to me or at least reply to this.

luv roxie
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i have heard a or that one of my close friends doesnt really like me, but we still hang out every day. but i heard this from a lying "friend", who doesnt really like the i first started talking about. would she make it up?? what should i do???

Ask him why shes been like that towards you.
Shes not a right good friend if shes been awful.

luv roxie
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how do you know if a girl is lying to you like when you ask them out and they say something. How do you know if they are telling the truth or lying to make you feel better??

SOmetimes they go all read they mess around with there hands and dont look you in the face.

luv roxie
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My guy friend and his girlfriend broke up, and he still likes her alot. She likes him still too but she doesnt want to get hurt and they will be going to different schools. My guy friend asked me to help him get through this because I'm the only one he can trust. I want to help him in any way I can because I want to be close with him. What should I say to him to make him feel better? Thank you so much!

It may seem bad but you cant really interfer! because its between them two. Mabe just be supportive and drop a few nice comments in about him when you talk to his girlfriend, well ex.

luv roxie
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