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Hi well ok see me and my friend were the bestest of friends then all of a sudden I start liking this boy , and he likes me but my friend said that she wouldn't get mad at me, well I called her and told her the news about us going out and she threw the phone across the room......
What do I do?>?? Plz Help me.......And Fast (link)
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well it looks like your friends not a true friend, she shouldnt get mad over you two being together. talk to her about it for sure tell her that its not a big deal. Also tell her that she is over reacting!
Good Luck
Crystal
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my friend cuts herself because of her ex-boyfriend...ive tryed to tell her not to. she cuts herself all over her body except her wrists. and when her parents ask her what happens she makes up excuses like she ran into something, fell... i dont know what to do!
-signed help my friend out!-
I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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you need to tell an adult, some one needs to know even if she gets mad at you she will thank you later. stay by her side no matter what. you need to make sure she is not doing it just to do it or if she is serious about it. also let her know that no guy is worth her tears and the one that is wont ever make her cry. about her parent you tell then that she is cutting her self. someone needs to know goos luck
Crystal
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Well my really good friend doesnt like my new friends what should i do? she always talks bad about them. (link)
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I think that if she doesnt like your friends she is not a true friend. . .true friends wouldnt talk bad about the friends that you have she would understand that things are not ever going to change. and you really need to talk to her about it and tell her that things are not going to change and you are going to be there for her even if she doesnt really want you too
Hope this works for you! good luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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I am sure that this question has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.
My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined? (link)
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to tell you the turth i think she would give it a try! you never know tell you ask her or tell her that you still got feelings for her and you want to get together and see how it goes. you guys have been friends for a long time and you guys tryed it once and someone ruined it for you. I really think you should confront her and tell her how you feel. to answer your questions. . . . . you go to her, you talk to her about gettin together, that you like her and you want to see if you can be better then bestfriends and try the boyfriend girlfriend thing again, I am not sure but i think she will be more then happy, I don't think so I think you guys will still be best of friends! hope this all works out for you. good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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Okay well I have this friend Casey that is reallie jealous of me bcuz I know alot of guys and I have a bf and all.Casey goes around calling me the worse names in the book like c*nt and sl*t and a whore and all.ANd the funny thing is I only have one bf and she likes spreading rumor to everyone so now my bestfriend is mad at me bcuz Casey said I fucked her bf and now I dont know what to do and evening Stephaine bf told her that we didnt have sex which we didnt and now I dont know how for her not to be mad at me:(So please help what should I do:(
-Kimmy (link)
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Kimmy,
sounds like you are a really sweet girl and you don't need a friend that is going to say shitbehind your back. if you boyfriend likes you then he wonrt believe you and you really need to tell her that she is jealous of you two and wants to be with him and if he likes you then he will totaly understand. for her you need to confront her and tell her to stop her shit talking and that she needs to get over it b/c she knows as well as you do that you are not a slut and a cunt and she needs to stop her sit. hope this helps you out good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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one of my really good friends (shes 14) has been having sex with this one guy for over a year now. she used to be going out with the guy, and not she's not, but she's still having sex with him. she's been hurt before because of this guy, and i just don't want her to get hurt again or get into a bad situation. she has b.c. but sometimes forgets to take it and doesn't read the instructions on how to make up for lost pills. i don't want her to mess up her life at such a young age. any advice on the topic would be great. thx. (link)
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you really need to tell her that she is way to young to be having sex and needs to stop you are a great friend to be worries about her but you really need to make her stop and also talk to the guy and tell him if he keeps having sex with her then he might get in some really deep shit that he cant get his ass out of! and tell her the same thing! hope this works good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do? (link)
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I think that it is good that you confunted her about it she needs to know how you feel think of it like this you were in her shoes and everyone is holding something from you, wouldnt you want to know? I would I think you should fa sho reminder that you are her for her but you just hate her lieing and if she cares as much about you as you do to her she will understand and stop ehr lieing ways. hope this helps good luck!
*!*Crystal*!*
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I have this one friend who is always flirting with my friends boyfriends, and even mine. We get mad at her all the time, and she tries to make us forgive her by giving us presents and stuff. We're sick of her! Whenever we get in fights with her she gets her mom involved too. It's starting to get on everyones nerves. Also, she always thinks we're talking about her behind her back, but we're not! HELP! ASAP!-Bethany (link)
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Bethany,
sounds like your friend is not a ture friend and you should tell her to stop fliring with your girl's boyfirends. Just tell her that she is not a ture friend would not flirt with your boyfriend and that you are not talking crap about her behind her back and she needs to get her story stright hope this all works out for you
*~*Crystal*~*
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alright well i was best friends w/ this one chic like really close we couldnt be seperated but then she moved like a few cities away. for a while it was no big deal in fact for about a yr and a half we still hung out and everything but then she started getting into drugs and hanging out w/ the wrong type of people u kno so we kinda ended up drifting apart. she still lives close enough that we go to the same mall so occasionally i or some of my friends would see her there. and whenever i saw her she would be all happy to see me and nice and stuff but everytime another friend sees her they tell me she talks crap about me. i recently got her AIM sn and we talk online and shes kool but im not sure i wanna let her back in my life (link)
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Hey hun, I think second chances are always good! follow your heart! if you girls were bestof friends you shouldnt let drugs and friends get in the way. make sure your friends are telling you the truth. if it comes tothe point I really think you should bring your friends, you and your friend thats "talking crap" face to face they cant lie to you if they are face to face with you. they will arguee tell you come out to the truth! hope my advice works for you and if its fails I am so sorry good luck sweetie! E~mail me telling me how it went footballchicka06@comcast.net
*~*Crystal*~*
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my friend who has been ma m8 mate since nursery, but every few years she changes best friends now she goes out wif other m8s who r ma m8s aswell wif out teling me and i really feel left out. CAN ANY1 HELP ME PLZ PLZ (link)
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you should talk to her about it see what she has to say and if she feels the same way or she has a diffrent veiw on it hope it works out bye love
*Crystal*
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Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. One of his really good friends is a girl and she and I don't get along. I dislike her because she has talked trash about him behind his back early on in our relationship telling me that I shouldn't like him, that he's a horrible person and he's a bad kisser and all this mean stuff. She used the fact that she dated hima s an excuse as well. She and I never were really good friends but she and he always have be like good friends. I now realize how hard it is for him. Because we dont like each other. He's told me how she'd make a comment when he would say he was with me or something about me and sometimes I'll admit I would roll my eyes and maybe make a comment when he talked about her. I've realized this is hard for him. I'm not sure if I want to be her friend but I do want to make things easier for him and easier for our relationship because at one point this situationw as a big factor and reason for our fights. And after our last big fight it came up again after it wasnt for like 2 months. I don't know if I should set aside my differences with her or if I should just ignore it? help please! (link)
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Hey hunny I think you should fa sho talk to him and tell him what she was saying and if he doesnt believe you then you need to sit them both down she cant lie to him when you are sitting right there and know the whole truth. Also you should talk to him and tell him how much you don't want it to end because of a girl and even if its your bestfriend tell him that maybe you guys should nit all hang out and it should be you and him and her and him not all together. sorry if this is really cofusing it understand and if it doesnt help but if it does I am really glad and hope everything works out!
*~*Crystal*~*
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hi my best friends diched me for the popular gang , how can I get them back , they dont even talk to me now!!!!!! PLZ help Jenipher (link)
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Jenipher,
well if your friends ditched you for a popular gang and didnt take you with them then they are not yourr true friends trust me you want a friend that you can talk to and you know always will be there even if they found "popular" friends. Popular is just a word be you don't try to fit it trust me its not worth it! hope this helps you if not i am so sorry but good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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me and my brother are always arguing and i hate it. he always calls me names and im older wot can i do (link)
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Sit him down and tell him how you feel. and tell him that you love him and you don't want to fight. i have been thought that to I got 3 brothers i get to fight with :)
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Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe. (link)
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I have been though the same thing me and my bestfriend did it to but you know you have to sit her down and say you know what your getting to bossy for me and its not as much fun to hang out with you anymore. and see what she says and just keep and conversation open up to her ans tell her what you feel! you need to keep the communication open me and my friend are still friends and I told her the same thing!
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