i hope i can help a lot of people with there problems cuz i have problems 2 and most of the time i understand the way other people feel. just about all of my friends turn to me for advice so i might as well help out other people also.
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im a 13 year old female.
me and my best friend have been fighting alot lately and we have been getting on eachothers nerves alot, and when we are at church, we basically ignore eachother until i have to take her home and i really dont want to loose her, she is my bestie and i consider her my 2nd sister. and if we like werent friends anymore, then my real sister would be upset cuz my sister only likes my best friend, she hates all of my other friends and i just dont know what to do anymore, but this kinda happened to my sister and her best friend and they are still friend but the thing that they did was they too a break from eachother and didnt hang out for about a week and they didnt really talk or anything and now they are just fine but they know now to not hang out as much as they use to and im not sure if thats what me and my bestie should do. (link)
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since your 13 your probably in middle school or maybe your a freshman. in these years you lose lots of friends and you gain lots of friends too. the people who are true will stay and they wont git on your no matter how much you hangout with them. if shes gittin on your nerves talk to her about it. tell her some of the things she does annoys you. she'll understand if shes a true friend and she'll try not to git on your nerves. hopefully i helped.
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Okay so i really like this friend of mine...I mean I have fallen hard...but the problem is...I am completely unsure as to if he likes me...I mean he acts like he does...but then again he is kinda flirting well..not exactly flirting...but messing with other girls while i'm right there...I just act like i dont care and laugh with him...but anyways...back to the issue...i really like him..and i want to know if he likes me..but i dont want to ask him straight up...is there anything he might do that would let me know he's into me? or is there any way i can get him to confess he likes me without being to obvious? I dont want to ask him straight up because i dont want to hurt our friendship...any ideas?? Thanks sooooo much in advance to any answers! (link)
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a way you can tell is if her touches you a lot r you can have one of your good friends ask him if he likes you when your not around him. but make sure hes friends with this person also. hope i helped.
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Hey Guys, I have a HUGE Problem, I know you guys are probably gonna say "You shouldn't care what people thinks!". Well I need to answer that. I can't help it. It all started when Me and My best friend Amber. We Arn't Like That (Lesbian). She has a Boyfriend and yeah I am Single. We act like sisters though. We 'Sometimes' share a drink (pop, etc.). What I mean by that is. She could be drinking something and then I would ask her if I could have a drink and I would take a drink. Now everyone thinks I'm a Lesbain!! What Can I do To Get Them To Shut Up? I'm Not That WAY!!!!! (link)
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people drink after people all the time. dont worry about wut people say. they are probably just joking. wait until you git to high skool. people will just take your drink without asking and drink some of it. dont worry about what other people say.
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what do you do when your friends mad at you (link)
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ask them why they are mad at you. sit down with them and talk it out until everything is back to normal and they arent mad at you.
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ok so my friend says how much i flirt and all and i really dont, she just thinks flirting is talking to the guy she likes, but any way so she tells guys that i flirt with everything that has a penis and that really hurts my feelings when she says it to me but when she says it to me, but to guys and all thats really embassesing(sp) and hurtfull. and today i was talking to a guy and he was like flirting with me and i kinda like him so i flirted back a little, and she pulled me by the hair and got me away from him and was like "stop flirting i just saved you from embasesment" and i wanted to scream "no you didnt you embarassed me even more" but i just kinda walked away from her and didnt say anything...what should say to her that wont piss her off cause she gets pissed off pretty eailsy..o by the way were both 13...thanks for any advice in advance!! (link)
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tell her you dont think you flirt a lot and if she thinks you do then thats just how you are. if you are a flirtaous gurl you cant help it. dont let her pull you away from guys. she might just be jealous that you talk to a lot of guys and then again u might be talkin to someone she likes. dont let her embarras u in front o f people.
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ok my best friend (hes a guy) was hangin out with 2 of his friends. he said to his friends "swear to god not to tell anyone but me and (my name) banged last night" and they believed him! and they were aaskin him a whole bunch of questions and he didnt even bother to say he was just kidding. Why would he tell them that when nothing would ever happen between us? he eventually told them that he was just kidding but rumors coulda started off of that! why would he tell them that though when it wasnt even true? (link)
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guys like to make people think they do stuff with gurls a lot. they think its kewl when they say that kind of stuff even when it aint true. dont worry about it. if anyone asks u if you 2 really did that just tell them the truth. and if rumors would have started then you could have told him what he was doin was bothering you because you dont want people thinkin the wrong things about you. i hope i helped =)
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Hi,
I have this friend that's a boy (i'm a grl) and i've liked him since the day i met him. We're now best friends and do everything together on the weekends and whenever we have spare time. He has a gf and talks about marrying her (even tho he's only 13), and i try to be a supportive friend, but really he's just ripping my heart out. I've tried to drop hints that i like him but i know how he gets when ppl tell him that they like him when he already has a gf...it's not a good site. I guess i just want a way where i don't have to listen to the full on details of his relationship w/ his gf cuz it really does kill me inside. thanx 4 the help
~broken heart (link)
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a good way of kinds hinting him that u like him is by tellin him your really happy that he found someone he really likes and tell him you wish you had someone like him that loved you as much as he loves his girlfriend.
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There is this one guy that me and him are pretty good friends. He's a year younger than me, so he just moved up to the jr/sr high school. I see him a lot now and talk to him a lot more than before. And I'm not sure why but it seems like he likes me. And the problem with that is he has a girlfriend. Earlier this week me and some other people were hanging out at a school basketball game and during his girlfriends game he came and sat in front of me to talk to me. And a lot of hims when he'd turn around he'd like put his arm or hand on my knee or leg. The other day his g.f got hurt in gym and had to leave school, he came and sat with my friends and I during lunch. And then last night at the football game (which his girlfriend was at...but they weren't hanging out that much.) it was like 50 or below degrees and I was freezing so he offered me his hoodie. And he walked to the near-by gas station with us to get coffee and stuff. So I'm just wondering do you think he likes me? Please no stupid anwsers I just want to know what other people think. Thanks (link)
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either he likes u or he just needs a good friend thats a gurl so he can get help with some of his problems.have one of your friends ask him if he likes you even though he has a gurlfriend. he might be gettin to know you better so when the time is right he can break up with his gurlfriend and ask you out. i hope i helped =)
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okay theres this guy i like alot
i was in the lunch room sitting waiting for school to start. and well he homes, unxeepectidly. and i was by myself and well he sat at the table i was at. it was wierd. then i was in the thearter for a welcome back to school assembly, but there was a empty seat next to me because i cant stand sitting by the wall. and so i just went into the second seat. and guess what. HE SITS NEXT TO ME! and we talked alot. like the assembly was atleast 1 hour long. and well we were talking the whole time
hes inn all of my classes and hes by my locker. if i have locker troubles he helps me.
he opens the door for me.
he sits by my lunch table like behind me and if i drop something he will pick it up.
do you think he likes me?
because i think we are really ment to be we have SO much in common i really need the answer becasue my friend is oging to ask him out for me tomorrow && he said he will sit with me in class or behind me.
what do you think? i need your opinion.
ill rate :) (link)
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i think if hes all over you like that then he definatly likes you. no guy would be around you all the time if he didnt like you. i hope u to go out. good luck!!
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I have such a variety of friends. I have popular girl friends, nerd friends, weird friends, popular boys, and loser boys, and some ghetto people (sorry bout the name but what else can I say). I know it's good to have a variety, but sometimes I feel weird around my nerdy/weird friends. They are the only ones in my classes so I feel as if I'm being viewed as one. I absolutely don't care what people think of me, but sometimes I want to,you know, hang out with people in my own boat. I don't know what to do! I'm never mean to people and this is why I end up with such a variety! I can't turn people down! What can I do to feel better about this??? (link)
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im in your same position and i even like a boy that isnt in the popular group but dont worry about what people think about you. if they dont like you...hey its their fault they r missin out on a great friend. if the popular people havent said anything yet then you r fine but if they ask about you "nerdy friends" then just explain to them why you hang out with them. im sure they will understand.
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I wana go to the fair again tonight but I don't have a boyfriend. And all of my friends are to busy kissing them. So what do I do??? (link)
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you can take one of your guy friends that you like and get to know him better. if he likes u then maybe you 2 will kiss and u wont be left out when your friends are makin out with their boyfriends.
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Hey its my friends 15th birthday soon and shes like my best best friend i love her and i want to get her something that she wount forget and that she'll love!!!(nothing to expensive) i want her to kno whow much she means to me!! thanx
xxx (link)
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you can make your friend a photo album with pictures of you and her having fun. you can also give her a friendship braclet. you can even go as far as getting a special shirt made for her!!
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I just started my Sophmore year of highschool. From the begining of Freshman year 'til now, I've lost MANY friends for stupid reasons. Mainly because I got into a fight with one girl that I was best friends with and then she got all of her friends to hate me too. Which was about 15 people. How nice right?
Anyway, I have a reputation of being a bitch. Because.. Well, I CAN be. But I'm really not when you get to know me.
I really want to try to change my reputation on being a bitch, I want to show people that I AM a good person and attempt to make new friends. But I really need help on changing my reputation. Any ideas? (link)
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ok i was friends with this gurl 2 and i put her in the same situation because she really was a bitch. she got mad at me when i talked to other people instead of her but enough about me this is about you. show people the good side of you. dont let the bitch side come out. talk to the people who u think hate you. all 15 of them.lol. ask them y they hate you. dont let people hate you. i hope i helped a little bit. i know this isnt the best advice to give but im new to this. lol.
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Hey.. I'm a sophomore in high school, I go to an all girls school in Missouri. I came to high school without any friends from grammar school really.. I had no close friends of which I hung out with. I came into high school and met a ton of people.. but all of freshman year I never went out on a friday night. Now, I just started sophomore year and I'm making a real effort to talk to people and try to make friends but it's not working. I'm in honors classes and it just seems like a lot of the girls in the class are not like me at all. I try to be social and make friends but no one seems to wanna hang out wiht me. I'm also just a totally different person at school than the person I am at home. I am really funny and loud at home and at school I'm quite. I'm shy sometimes too. I think people get the wrong impression of me. I just really want this to work. The girls in my honors classes are "loserish" I guess you could say, and the other girls drink, and I don't drink (alcohol). I feel in the middle.Theirs a sophomore dance in february and I want a group of friends by than so that I can meet some guys through them to go to the dance with. It's really depressing and upsetting. I know that most of you will probably say that I should get to know people, and introduce myself, and I am. I am in class with basically the same girls I was freshman year. If no one could give me advice, and encouraging story would be good. Is there any of you that were in my situation and found a group of friends? please help! (link)
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hey i live in missouri to and i was in your position in 7th grade but then in 8th grade i started talkin to the "popular gurls" and now im good friends with them but i also hangout with a lot of different people. i dont go to an all gurls skool though. if you have any popular gurls in your class then talk to them. even if theres only one she still can make a difference. dont be shy because thats how i was to but now i dont care wut people think of me. i dont care if they think im loud or stupid but mostly everyone thinks im funny so its all good. so do wut you have to do and a lot of poplular people go to the movies on fridays or to parties and even if they do drink u can still hangout with them. trust me i dont drink or smoke and i hangout with stoners and dunkies and i always have a good time.
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What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"? (link)
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to me the difference between a friend and best friend is basically a best friend you hangout with them all the time and do everything with them and a friend is someone you hangout with but not all the time.
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My friend.. is on the edge of not being my friend anymore. She's driving me insane. All she ever talks about is how sucky her life is. She hates her parents, car, job, school. She hates everything and is CONSTANTLY complaining about how sucky her life is. She thinks at 18 she's had the hardest life ever. HA! If her life really sucked that bad, she would change it right? No, she just likes to nag. How can I tell my "friend" (in a NICE way) that if she doesnt stop B!tChing than Im going to have to start ditching? (link)
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tell her everyone has problems and now that shes 18 she has the oppertunity to turn her life around and make it better. she can get a better job, which will make her money to buy a better car. and about the school thing everyone has to go through school so i guess just tell her to make the best out of it and have fun!
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A few friday's ago my best friend and I were at skate night and we wanted her 4 boy cousins to come. We called them and we both talked to them and stuff and we were being annoying..
but then we called 10 times straight and my friend told me what to say and I said it.. like I kept asking for her cousin's best friend who was over and we were just being annoying.. and so his best friend told me that her cousin was getting annoyed and we should stop calling. I said "ok" and we stopped calling. Then they came to skate night, but her cousin and his best friend wouldn't talk to us. My friend said sorry when I wasn't there. Her cousin still likes her, cuz he's known her all his life, but he probably thinks I'm an obnoxious rude biatch and won't talk to me cuz he doesn't know me that well. I feel SOOOOOO guilty.. I mean REAAAAALLLLYYY guilty. I don't know what to do. Should I try to tell him I'm sorry? I don't know what he'd do.. What should I do?!
13/f.. cousin and his friend are 15/m (link)
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i think you should tell him your sorry and show him your not obnoxious and rude. get to know him and tell him you were only being annoying becuz your friend told u to.
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Hey! I have this really close friend of mine but lately we have started to drift apart from each other. We were especially close--from calls every day to zero calls now. Um, this all started when our council had this summer camp thing at my school and it taught us a lot about ourselves and friendships and it like, totally opened my eyes. I now saw how much she took advantage of me, even when I was a completely loyal friend. Now, I feel because we're not talking to each other anymore, she is trying to make the rest of our council and the rest of my friends turn against me. What shall I do??
signed,
lost
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i think you should try to talk to her. talk to her about fun times you two had together and get to laughing together again. dont let her turn the council against you. this happened to me sorta wit this gurl and she tried to turn my whole skool against me because of sumthing she did. i told my part of the story and she told hers. now the skool hates her because they realized she likes to lie. but wut im sayin is tell ur side of the story while shes tellin hers and dont let her turn the council against her then she will fell bad.
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Well my best friend is being a bitch l8y n then she chose her bf over me n now but that didnt mind me so we have been fightn l8y but we are friends n i went out with this guy she liked but we all liked him but then i found out that she made him break up with me but he told me that he would go out with me again n he told my other friend that he was gonna sk me out but should i say yes or no i really like him but i dont want to loose a friend over him but idk if i allready lost her ................. please anwser me (link)
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if you really like this guy i think you friend should accept that fact and if she has a problem with you going out with him then maybe shes not a real friend. there are a lot of other people you can be friends with. you dont need just one friend!
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Ok i have so many friends, but one of the mjus wont like leave me alone! She wants to were her hair like me and wants to dress the same but i cant deal with this until senior year!and im only goin ot hte 7th grade!! I am starting to get real tired of this and i dont kno how to tell her with out hurting her feelings or anything. PLEASE help me
Signed
Headache&Miserable (link)
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i think you should sit doen and have a serious talk with your friend. show her different ways she can wear her hair instead of always doin it like yours. pick out some cute outfits for her to wear. tell her you dont want to look like everyone else and that you want to look like your own person. =)
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