Hey duuudes im 14 years old an im an outgoin kind of person and im a goofball and i dont really take n e thing seriously.. i luv rap and hip hop and a lil bit of punk rock but not a lot.. im a tomboy and i play sports, and im not into the whole girly girl thing but ya. I dont take n e shit from ne one and i am who i am an if u dont like it o well then :/
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alrght so i have this friend who i have been really close with him for a while now, the other day we did some stuff that i never expected we would do [there were other ppl there] my problem is that i have this other really good friend who could possibly like him and he could possibly like her backk but he keeps on wanting to do stuff but it just doesnt seem fair to her or the other person i like.. what should i doo! =[ (link)
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I think you should not do any more stuff with this boy and it would be dumb of you to keep doing stuff with him, even though he wants it. If your not liking him like that then don't do anything with him. First of all if you continue this he will soon start to look at you like a girl toy, and will go to you only when he wants something. So i think you should stop giving it up to him and act like nothing even happened
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i love my best friend [aka. Barley] but she's so annoying..what should i do? HELP!
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Well the best thing will be to just tell ur friend the truth.. Best friends dont lie to each other, and they are always honest so honesty should not bother Barley just dont be scared to be honest..
good luck
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last night, two of my freinds slept over my house. one of them is my best friend(alex) and i really had to talk to her about what happened before at a party. well, when we thought my other friend(tara) was ,we started to talk about what hapened at this party and mainly about our other friend(who was not at the s/o). when i got up, i saw my tara's eyes open and then close. so i totally think she listened and heard our whole conversation! and i am like 99% sure she will tell my friend who wasn't at the sleepover. what should i do? (link)
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yo i dont mean to be rude but what the hell r u talkin bout ur talkin through your ass
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alright heres the background info..
theres this really hott guy at my school, Joe, and me and him are really good friends. well my friend jess went out with him last year and they broke up over the summer.
now the girl is completely obsesing over him! she never stops talking about him and shes always like OMG HES SO HOTT! its so f***ing annoying! i wanna slap her so bad! he doesnt like her anymore (i asked him) and she wont accept the fact that hes over her. she says she wants to get over him but she cant.
how can i help her try to get over him? shes really getting so annoying. i dont know how much more i can take! i mean i know the guy is drop-dead sexy but she doesnt need to say it every 5 seconds! please help me!! (link)
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ok this simple tell her that she has to move on with her life and just talking about him will just make her more obsessed over him.. and if she keeps going tell her that she really needs to shut up about talking about him and that its getting on your nerves i mean its ok for her to say it in her head bout out loud gets on your nerves a little bit.. well i hope that helped a little bit
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A girl I know, but I'm not really good friends with, is having a pool party. She invited 3 boys, and I don't know any of them. I wouldn't care if they were there if it was just a regular party, and I have a boyfriend, so I'm not worried about any of that dating stuff. What I'm worried about is, that I hate how I look in my bikini. It's the only bathign suit I have, and I don't really want guys to see me in it. Especially when half the girls at the party, are anorexic bitches. I think it'd be rude if I didn't go, and I don't know what to do. (link)
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you know what you should just go to that party and wear your bikini who cares if guys are there and see you in your bikini, and try to be more confident and realize your gonna be the only girl there with some meat on your bones unlike them anorexic bitches that prob have their bathing suit hanging off of them but say to yourself that theres nothing wrong with the way you look in your bikini but.. when you go make sure you have a hell of a time :)
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Hey iam a 17 female and I just found out that one of my friends that i've been best friends since 2nd grade is bisexual and I don't know what to do is it ok for me to still be friends with her or what?my mom's very prejedice against people who are gay and bi and she told me not to associate with them,but she's my best friend and I don't think I can stop being friends with her all at once what should I do? (link)
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i know exactly how you feel on of my friends that i grew up with and i just found out she was bi and im still friends with her.. but anyway you should not even listen to your mom thats her problem that shes like that to people that are gay or bi if your friends with her and love her like a sister theres no reason for you to stop being friends with her she cant help the way she is the main reason is that she happy about the way she is and you should not give up such a good long friendship because of her being bi
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Female. I used to have a lot of best guy friends, we had this huge group. One guy got all of them in to drugs, now they spend their days getting stoned. They're so perverted now, they expect since I have big boobs that I`ll do things with them. I've fallen really hard for one guy, he's totally sweet and respects me, but I hear from everybody he does drugs too and he's not a virgin. (Keep in mind, were 13)
What should I do? Is this guy totally unsafe and wrong to be around? (link)
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ok just to say this 13 year olds have no buisness doin all of that stuff like drugs and sex.. but if they expect you to do stuff with them dont even be around them just keep away from them and find new friends that respect you.. and its ok to have a crush on him but i would not even hook up with him because he might try to get you to try drugs and u think that you might say no but most people end up saying yes because of preasure and he also might want to do you know what with him so just keep away from them for a while
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Well we were really close friends and we always slept over each others houses. and one night when he slept over i wanted to go to bed and he wouldn't let me soo i started dancing on him and he left me alone. and then he started feeling me up. and now it's really wierd. we never really talk anymore and it hurts. i use to tell him everything. and now he doesn't act the same anymore. should i talk to him about it or just drop it? (link)
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omg thats not good i would not even talk about it just leave it alone and i wouldnt even be his friend n e more because thats all he prob wanted to do and then ditch you. i know that may sound mean but thats how most boys are, and that wasnt really a smart thing to do to dance on him because that gave him a chance to do what he wanted to do but i dont know the choice is really up to you but after that happened and hes not talkin to you, you really dont need him as a friend
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Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!! (link)
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the next time they make fun of your boobs just say you guys are my friends what are you doing looking at my boobs anyway.. and theres is nothing wrong with the size around the B range is a perfect size for your age and if they make fun of you maybe they are not your real friends so just ignore them when they tease you because there is nothing wrong with that size
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my friend is the different gender than i am.i am a boy.she gets angry sometimes when i don't give her enough info sometimes for example if we are on the phone and someone calls me in the background she would be like who was that and sometimes i really dont wanna tell her so she would start an arguement then i would hang upthe phone and after i would call back to say am sorry for no reason.she yells at me.she iz not really friendly but when am bored i could call her,shes a nice talker.should i keep her as a friend?what should i do? (link)
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ya dont end a friendship because ending a friendship is the worse thing to do and forget the problem might be is that she might like you and might think that its another girl and she could get jealous that could be it you should just come out and ask her if she likes you or not if she gets mad and yells and says NO!!! and starts flippin out then you know that she does like you
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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever.
so im a cheerleader and all the cheerleaders are popular. but the thing is none of the popular people like me. i used to hang out with them and be wicked popular but not anymore. i love my friends to death but it seams like all the popular people get the guys . im not trying to sound stuck up or anything like that.
if this helps-- im wicked preppy i shop at abercrombie . im a ton of fun and everyone says im very pretty. (link)
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well popularity isnt everything so it really shouldnt matter that your popular or not, all that matters is that you have good friends and not all jocks and cheerleaders are popular.. and you cant really depend on looks and the way you act to be popular i think the problem is that your tryin to hard to be popular again and you really should just be yourself and people are only popular because of their personality and everyone gets along with them.. and its not true that all the popular people get the guys thats just bull because if your a good perosn you can get a guy and have good friends and at the end when your saying that you shop at abercrombie and that your preppy and that people say your pretty that's just showing that your kinda all about yourself and that u think or know that your pretty and shopping at abercrombie doesnt make your popular its just clothes its not like if you act preppy and shop at preppy places and get popular because if that was true everyone would be doing that
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Okay so i just moved to another state and left behind 6 of my best friends. I havent met any friends yet because school hasnt started so im really lonely because im used to ALWAYS being with my friends. I talk to my friends on the computer and phone and thats great but for some reason i still get really jealous and feel left out when they hang out. i mean i shouldnt fel left out cause not like they can invite me! what can i do to not feel so depressed????
Thanks,
Lonely Lady. (link)
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it's not hard to meet new people if your not shy but if your a shy person then it will be hard to meet new people.. so i think that you should just walk around your neighborhood i kno that may sound boring but you just might see someone outside and if they dont say anything just introduce yourself saying hey i just moved here and just start a conversation and the person your age that you met might introduce you to their friends
i hoped that helped.. if that didnt help i hope that you find a better way to make friends good luck : )
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My best friend of 9 years is trying to hook up with my ex-boyfriend, who is my best friend, WHO i had sex with. She acts like theres nothing wrong with it, but it bothers me. When i tell her, she just calls me drama and starts cussing me out. Do I have a reason to be upset? I feel awful! (link)
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i can understand that you get upset but sometimes you have to forget the past and move on you know what i mean? and you should not let her cuss you out you should just not take any crap from her and start cussin her out to it might finally get her to shut up.. but since hes ur ex u should move on and just let her hook up with him but if the break up was long ago you should let it go but if it was very recent then its a problem
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What are some good songs about best friends? (link)
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the song "what about your friends" by TLC is a really good song about friends.. its mad old but its pretty tight
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How do you know if someone is a true friend? (link)
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the only way you can tell if someone is your true friend if they are there for you no matter what happenes if your in a jam they will help thats how you can tell if people are your true friends
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I have a friend that is so wrapped in herself and shes the friend that i feel like i can go to with anything, but all she cares about is herself and shes spoiled in getting her way. i don't want to give up the friendship. so, what do i do??? (link)
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That just goes to show that shes a conceited person and u dont need a friend like that who doesnt really care about n e thing but herself you should just tell her that you feel that you need a friend that cares about and not just themselfs and if she doesnt change you should take a little brake from her
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okay well i have this 'friend' who was always nice to me to my face but always said stuff about me behind my back . we got into a fight that lasted about 2 months then she said she wants to be friends agian . my mom told me not to be friends with her becaause of waht she does because shes a back stabber! anways.. im sick of her doing that because she is only mean to me when shes with her friend and she will start fights with me . today [ like 10 minutes ago ] i gave her a piece of my mind and told her that she hurt me and what she does . ik what i did was right. idk what im relaly asking just i needed to tell that to someone . sorry♥ (link)
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since you just said she acts like that in front of her friends she just trying to show off in front of her friends and she thinks its cool and she just trying to act cute.. maybe shes acting like that because the people that shes talking to about you maybe do not like you and she probaly wants to be accepted by them so she pretends not to like you to and if i were you i would not be friends with her because if she cant be real instead of two faced then what the point of having her as a friend if shes just gonna stabb you in the back again.. you have other friends most likely better than her you dont need that so i would just ditch her
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my friend went to the public pool today
and while she was swimming her purse got stolen
it had her makeup, notes, and her house key.
what should she do since it has her house key
and if they know where she lives they could get it!!
help! (link)
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since the house key was stolen and just in case its someone that knows where she lives have her parents change the locks on the doors as soon as possible just in case
good luck
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I started at a highschool with no friends going with me. I have some great new friends, but sometimes i feel like they dont really like me as much as other times. I try to to stuff with them, and sometimes they will say that they're busy, and other times i'm not invieted to do stuff with them that i know is a group thing not just 2 people. What should i do to see whether they really like me and how should i try to be more included. ps i am a 14 year old girl (link)
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do this as a test to see if they are your real friends like just try not to be around them much and dont talk to them as much and stuff and like stay away from them and if they dont come to u and ask whats wrong or why your not talking to us then u will know that they are or are not your real friends
i hope it helps
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