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Hi well ok see me and my friend were the bestest of friends then all of a sudden I start liking this boy , and he likes me but my friend said that she wouldn't get mad at me, well I called her and told her the news about us going out and she threw the phone across the room......
What do I do?>?? Plz Help me.......And Fast

i think that you just need to talk to her and everything i mean obivsly{how ever you spell that} she musta liked him too or something or she wouldnt have acted that way and everything i mean she said that she would get mad at you and all but then again she still did that makes like no sence at all you need to tlak to her asap
-Cass-

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My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.

Signed,
Very Scared!

What you could do is just dont tell her that you read her diary and everything but just be like i have a funny feeling or something like that you might be anorexic and everything and i mean show her that you care and everything show her that your worried and all cause i mean she is your best friend and everything but you need to say something to her and try to help her if she wants it you cant just force help on her you have to take it slow
-Cass-
hope i helped

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

first why do you care what other people think cause you shouldnt its up to you, you make your own decisions not everyone else and i dont thinkt hat it would matter you should only care about what you think not what everyone else does cuase if you do youll be doing that the rest of your life and its not worth it
-Cass-

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I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks

I mean just cause your not hanging with those girls ne more doesnt mean that thers not more out there and everything i think that what you have done in the past year or so im proud of you for even if i dont know you that well and i give ups to the bf for sticking by you all this time...but i mean girlfriends can do that shit to you and i mean you can either take it or try and talk to them but i mean they have to understand you and what you want to do in you life...i hope i help im always here
Cass

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okay my friends ( a girl and a boy) are in a fight and everytime i talk to the girl she alwasy says so have you talked to him?? What should i say?? should i tell her i did or not!! they are in a big fight and i don't wanna ruin my relationship with this boy, because i really likehim...i mean really like him!! Any suggestion?? :(

*Stuck -n- Middle*

I would tell her to take care of it cause if you talk to him your just putting yourself in the middle and everythign whats between them should stay between them adn everything i think that you should jsut stay out of it and just still be friends with both of them
-Cass-

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this guy that i was friends with for a long time was having a bad day and when we were in art class i asked him what was wrong. and he was like back the *uck off and leave me alone. i was like jesus okay i was just asking i didn't mean to get you upset. that day we were making these clay things and there is this tool that has a very sharp edge on it and he held it up to my throat and he said if you don't get away from me i'll stab you with this. the look in his eyes was absolutly terrifying. that night on AIM i had asked him what was wrong and he was acting really funny. his typing had changed. he was making alot of errors and not correcting himself like he normally would. he threatened to blow up my school and then he threatened to kill me and himself. i got scared and i told my dad about it and the next day my dad called the school and my principal, my guidance counselor, and the schools D.A.R.E. officer sat down with the two of us and we were talking and he kept saying that he was joking about everything that he had said to me that night. We aren't friends anymore and i do not want to start a new school year knowing that he hates me. what should i do? should i try talking to him? or should i leave him alone? he was my best friend for a while and i miss having him as my friend

Hunny im really afraid for you and everything this would freek the crap out of me i think that you just need to leave him alone and just let him come back to you cause i mean what if you try and talk to him again and the same thing happends yeah he might have been your best friend and everything but who wants a best friend who does that kinda stuff i know that i dont but let him come back to you if you have ne other questions just ask
-Cass-

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hey i need help really quickly.. i have a digital camera but i dont know how to get the pic and like put it on the computer from the camera!?! if anyone knew that would be GREAT! xoxo!!

u need the extention theres a cord that you plug into your cam from the comp i have one but some are different if you dont have the cord then you cant do it
-Cass-

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my friend is here and she had a fever a couple of hours ago and there is a movie in the park that i really want to go to and I'm not sure if she wants to go but I REALLY want to go and I think that she s well enough (she had a fever a long while ago and she was well enough to come over to my house what should I say/do?

i think that you should just say home with her make her feel comfortable i mean she did come over to your house not feeling well didnt she just make her feel at home and everything take care of her and all that good stuff i mean what if its something more serious and everything just dont go you will have other times i mean whats more important your friend or the movie?
-Cass-

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Help! I think im loosing my best friend. it seems like all she cares about is her boyfriend. when i invite her somewhere she says oh sry im doing something with my boyfriend. and when shes not with him thats all she talks about. when i invite her over to my house all she dose is talk on the phone with him! how rude! even my bf thinks shes needs to cool it. what should i do and say to her?

Okay i have been dating the same guy for like 4 years now and everything and im not that obsessive over him and everything she does need to tone it down a bit but you have to tell her in a manner that it wont upset her in the long run be like i understand that you have all these feelings and everything for your bf but i dont need to hear about him 24/7 and i would like to see you more often and just have like girl times and not talk about him or talk to him the heart does grow fonder when apart i have learned that one myself yah you may miss him more and everything and want to just be with more and everything but that doesnt mean your heart has grown away from the person at all ...Im still madly in love with my bf but i dont need to spend every waking moment wiht him yeah i talk to him off and on and everything but i love to just hang with my friends i dont need to be with him all the time and you just need to talk to your friend and just explain that you miss hanging out with her and everything and that when you want to be with her shes talking about or talking to her bf just tell her that you miss her and everything just be cool about it

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my boyfriend and my best friend have been fightin alot latly and now there r not friends n im stuck in tha middle wut should i do?? i dont wanna loose either 1 of them

I have been here in this situation and its not fun trust me...I mean it all depends on your feelings and everything i mean you never told them to be friends and everything...I mean you can still hang with either one of them just not at the same time and just tell them that they cant down grade the other in front of you let alone talk about them if that dont work then i dont know sweetie i hope it works...

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