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okayy. there is this girl and she has been my best friend since she was born. but she is stating to become very bitchy. she doesnt get her period and she is only in 6th grade.
but she was a big copier.
last year she copied me none stop.
now she isnt, but ever since she had these new 'friends' [i think they are using her] she has been not talking to me like i'm her friend.
she makes me feel like crap sometimes.
but its not like i can just ditch her.
our parents have been bff's since 7th grade!
what do i do?

Have you tried confronting her about how you feel? Tried taking her aside away from her new friends and talk to her tell her that you don't like the new person she's changed into and that you feel like she's pushing you aside if she won't listen to you then try writng her a letter explaining everything and how you feel . If not then try talking to your parents about this.

Hope I helped =)

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one of my best friends is turning 15 tomorrow, and i already got her a gift. she invited me to her party as well (sunday). when should I give her the gift? on her birthday or her party? :)

I'd say on her party because you don't want to walk in empty handed ! But on her birthday would be ok also. But yeaaa give it to her on the partyy

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okay my bff forever just stopped talking to me and i had already asked her to go to a concert with me. i mean i want her to go, but i did nothing wrong to her and she just completely ignores me. i dont want to go to the concert with her if she is gunna be like this. i mean what do i do to make things better and what do i do if nothing works?

thanks in advance =]

Your friend might just want some space away from everyone including you its nothing you did or might of done but its just that sometimes she might feel like everyone is always breathing over her shoulder. Give her some space as in a week and then try talking to her, ask her if anything has been bothering her lately or if she's going through a few things in life that she might need someone to talk to. If she's a good friend then I don't think she'd "throw away" your friendship. If you've done nothing to upset her I don't think there's anything to worry about. Don't stress it hope everything works out =)

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is there any way to get rid of an annoying friend?

Try doing it in a way that won't hurt there feelings because the last thing you want is to have someone hate you for it. You could try coming forward and straight up to the person and just let them know how they act and how its getting out of hand (annoying) or try keeping it hi and bye with them and just walk away.

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so, me and this girl used to be friends, but now we hate eachother. like really badly. And she always fights with me (even now) about the stupidest shit. Well, today, she talked shit behind my back.......and she thought I was doing something similar, but I wasn't.

My question is : what's the best thing to do? Confront or just ignore and leave them alone no matter how upset you are?

You could actually do both. Confront and ignore. Try confronting her about it FACE TO FACE not over myspace or aim and just let her know that your over the whole situation and that you just don't care anymore convince her enough to believe your really not stooping down to her level by doing what she's doing. You could say something like "hey what ever happnd the other day I'm over it I don't know if you are but I am and just to let you know I'm not talking shitt behind your back" and then just listen to what she has to say (if she does have something to say)
If not simply walk away .you can start ignoring from that day on.

Atleast you got what you had to say to her out and you were completely mature enough to confront your problem.

Hope I helped! =]

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This may sound horrible, but I am getting so bored of my friends now.
They are all getting into all this new stuff, like all the scene kid stuff. You know? And they are getting so concieted(sp??) and becoming myspace whores. It seems like all they want to do is either sit around, or sit around on myspace. And they constantly make fun of what I like etc.
Not only are they getting quite annoying, they are getting quite boring also!
Like I said, the only thing they want to do is go on myspace. They used to be so fun, so active. I don't know what to do now, because I don't just want to ditch them.
But whenever I try talking to them, they just blow me off.

Try making new friends people who'd you'd actually wanna be around with lol

You don't have to ditch them or not talk to them but you could still keep small talk conversations once in a blue moon just to show them that you haven't ditched them and that you still care.

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15/f

i just started highschool, and me and my best friend arnt in any classes together. and she hardly calls me. i always have to call her, and she always tells me she has to go. usually she always called me.

what should i do?

Hunn move on fine yourself a new best friend maybe try talking to some one new in one of your classes

Your friend is moving on to meeting new people you should too there's no such thing as "only 1" you could more than friend I'm not saying forget about this one but to maybe meet new friends and still call her once in a while just to show her you still care

gO0d luck =)

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