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Getting bored of your friends?
This may sound horrible, but I am getting so bored of my friends now.
They are all getting into all this new stuff, like all the scene kid stuff. You know? And they are getting so concieted(sp??) and becoming myspace whores. It seems like all they want to do is either sit around, or sit around on myspace. And they constantly make fun of what I like etc.
Not only are they getting quite annoying, they are getting quite boring also!
Like I said, the only thing they want to do is go on myspace. They used to be so fun, so active. I don't know what to do now, because I don't just want to ditch them.
But whenever I try talking to them, they just blow me off.
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Hey, i know exactly what you mean. Some of my friends come over and just sit on myspace the whole f-ing day. My advice is just go up and tell them. Even if they do blow you off, i guess almost raise your voice and say "I need to talk to you guys"; and tell them just what you said. If they don't listen to you, then they don't deserve to be your friend. I would reccomend playing a sport, joining a club, and/or talking to new people in your classes. Also, maybe when you are hanging out, you can say something like "hey, lets all go outside and pass the soccer ball around" or however you would word it. Or maybe you can plan fun things to do before they come over, or turn off the computer and when they say they want to go online, just say "naww, lets do something else". You can plan to go to the movies, mall, amusment park, local park or something. maybe if you are close enough, and you all can maybe walk and get ice cream or something.
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My brilliant answer to you is just to come straight forward and to say " look i have to sopeak to you guys about something important to me and if you dont listen we can no longer hangout" and maybe by you telling them that you wont hang out with them anymore they will think it is serious and if they listen and chnage good for you, and if they dont then you go your way and let them go theirs...but if they dont listen its their loss....
** P.S. Myspace is addicting for the record**
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You dont have to ditch them. Just slowly stop hanging out with them, but still be on friendly terms.This happens sometimes.
Try making some new friends by joining clubs or people in your classes.
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Try making new friends people who'd you'd actually wanna be around with lol
You don't have to ditch them or not talk to them but you could still keep small talk conversations once in a blue moon just to show them that you haven't ditched them and that you still care.
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I know what you're going through. All my friends are becoming myspace whores too. Like, we'll all go to a party and the only thing we do is take myspace pictures. Borrriing.
I say you should start looking for new friends who have more in common with you - aka, non-myspace whores. You don't have to ditch your old friends completely...you can like join a new club or talk to somebody new. And it all goes from there. Pretty soon, if your friends dont change and you guys are still opposites, you'll end up drifting apart but it will be for the better because your old friends are obviously making you unhappy and that's not fair to you.
Also you might be imagining that they're blowing you off because you're not into the same things anymore.
Okay. I just thought of another option. Whenever you and your group of friends have nothing to do, suggest doing one of the old things that your friends used to like doing. Or you could just be like, "hey guys, I wish we would go outside more often. i'm tired of myspacing." if they dont react positively to your suggestions then you should follow the advice i wrote above.
I hope i helped! It's soo annoying to be friends with people who live and breathe myspace. I want to just be like, "Get a life!"
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leave them slowly. Just you know dont hang out with them as much, and eventually just stop. They will get the picture.
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