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my girlfriend wants me to finger her?
my girlfriend want me to finger her but ive never done that before what do i do
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ok . everyone is teLLing you get straight to it
make it nice and pLesurabLe for her too . rub on your stomach LightLy . ya know start up to bottom , make her get chiLLs :] then go Lower and Lower ..... & just gentLy sLideeee your way down there go easy , start with one finger & just enter sLowLy & move it around aLittLe , then react to her mvment or the wat shes reacting
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Don't panic! First of all, make sure you feel comfortable doing it. If you're not, don't. If you are, the most important thing to remember is to go slowly and to make sure she's wet before you do it (or use lube.) This is because if a girl isn't lubricated when you finger her, it can hurt quite a bit, and I'm sure that's not exactly what you're after!
How many fingers you use is up to you, but I'd advise you to stick with one. And it's perhaps better not to shove it in in one fell swoop! Doing it slowly and gradually will mean that you get the positioning just right. Even get your girlfriend to help you! Then, ask her what feels good and do it! Don't be embarrassed to get her input - she'll be impressed that you're so eager to please!
Oh, and what I'm going to say here is going to sound really self-explanatory, but I'm going to say it anyway - just in case! Make sure your nails are clean and short... otherwise they could cause small cuts in the vaginal walls possibly leading to infection (I know that sounds like a complete horror and is a terrible parting shot - but it's something I think every guy should know!)
Good luck and enjoy!!!
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awww well.. yeah the person under me gave good advice. a good thing to say to her would be like "show me how you like it" so then she can guide you without you looking like you dont know what youre doing.. bc all girls like different stuff. good luck!
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Let her guide you. BUT its kinda self explanitory. Put your fingers down there and play.
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