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Hi Ya'll. My name is Jen feel free to e-mail me, im me whatever. I am very friendly and love new friends. You can ask me questions about anything and I will try my best. Yee-haw! advice
I know this is wrong but i got myself into some serious mess.My bestfriend has a bf and they been together for 9 months and the other day me and him saw each other at this one place and we ended up in his car doing things.I feel really bad i don't know if i should tell her or not.I dont want to but i dont want her finding out from anybody else because i love her so much she is like my sister.IM confused plz help!
You shouldn't have done it and you know it. It's better for you to go to her and express how sorry you are to her face then for her to hear it around school or somebody else tell her. She may hate you for the rest of your life, she may be understanding and give you another chance. Everybody makes mistakes and you gonna learn from them. My best friend would never do something like this but if she had I would have to forgive her because she is my twin and I can't live without her but you need to tell your friend this before she hears it from someone else.
I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP!
My best friend!! Seriously, she is my long lost twin haha. I love her to death but for most of our friendship she was boy crazy doesn't sound like she was as bad off as your friend but she was pretty bad. If you talked to her about your feelings that's all you can do. If you don't give her the attention she wants she'll realize you are not interested and lessen up her obessesion she'll be afraid of messing up your friendship.
Okay my friend likes this guy, but they broke up and he doesnt lik eher at all..so she had a new boyfriend...and i started to like her ex so i told her so she wouldnt be mad at me..but she got mad and we are in a fight now...and then she broke up with her new boyfriend cause i like her ex.. and ithink shes gonna try and get her ex back so i dont have a chance but im not sure...i dont know what to do cause i was only trying to be a good friend by telling her that so she wouldnt have to find out if i like dated him
Friends don't date other friend'd exs. I have never dated anyone one of my friends have dated. I am not saying this works for everybody but it's worked for us. Depending on how close you and this girl are it's a choice you have to make. If you consider her one of your best friends there's no point in risking your frienship for some guy. Boys will come and go but your friends your true friends will always be around! Good luck. Follow your heart.
I am have knida of a hard time dealing with my Good Friend Jessica.....Part of BSG, going away to boot camp... i miss her so much what should i do?
hahhah :) Take it one day at time girl, one day at a time. How'd you find my site? -Love you-
i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people?
Yeah, a job with help with a lot of things. It will help with boredom since you will have hours. It will help with meeting people. I remember when I worked I became very close to all the girls I worked with..we had girls night and we hung out alone too, depends on what you are interested in. Also it will give you some extra cash :)
i think im in love with my best friend... im a girl... lol n hez a guy. well ive known him since sixth grade... n now im going to 8th... n in 6th grade he had this dorky musroom haircut... n in 7th grade he cut his hair... n he looks reallii cute but usually hez not my type... i mean im in love with little ghetto boyz... n my best friend iz like more abrocombie... dont get me wrong i love abrocombie... i feel like my style is changing n i really dont know wut to do cuz he went out with my ex best friend in 6th grade... n i hated her when they went out becuz... we were fighting ova another guy b4 that... n my best friend dumpd my ex best friend... n im scared he wont like me... but im not even sure how i feel about him.
P.S. i love adri n matt like a fat kid loves kake!!
Go for it, you never know how he feels. When you get older you are regret the things you didn't do so much more than the things you did. Good luck!
ok well me and this girl briana are like best friends we go sumwhere together everyday and hang out...but lately she is getting annoying and i dont really wanna hang out with her anymore...do u think we hang out to much and im just gettin sick of her or what!? plez help me!
Yeah, you are just sick of her. Take a little break and hang out with some other friends or family, whichever and then hang out with her just realize you guys can't be together so much. Happens all the time, doesn't mean you shouldn't be friends. Good luck!
My boyfriend ( well ex ) broke up with me and said it's because "we didnt see eachother much anymore" Which sucked but I saw it coming. That night my 'best friend' called and told me how sorry she felt for me and then told me she saw him with his new girl friend. I was really upset... then the next day i found out that his new 'girl friend' was her ( my best friend ). She doesnt know that i know. What should I do?
Friends don't date other friend's men. Well that's how me and my friends work. But I know other people do and that's up to them. Tell her that you know and if you can move past it work on the friendship but if you are against it like me, move on you don't need someone like that around. Good luck!
Hey!!!
Today my friend and I were talking and she got mad at me and then she started cussing at me!!!
Heres wat she said "You are a piece of white trash...(the rest was cussing so yea)!!!!!!
Should I take this seriously or do u think that she was just mad and it came out?!?!!?
PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanx,
Confused
I have a really BAD temper but I would never say anything like that to someone I truly care for. You should let her say sorry and then tell her how you felt. Best friends shouldn't say stuff like that. If she doesn't come back around which she probably will don't go after her-she doesn't deserve it. Good luck.