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ok so my bestfriends planned this whole thing to kidnap one of my other friends this morning for her birthday. well no body included me in all this so i kinda invited myself and i was gonna ride with my bestfriends to my friends house but this morning no one called me and no one came and got me then at skool they told me they forgot all about me (sum friends they are) then my friend asked me why i didnt come with them to kidnap her and everything and i explained the situation and she said she invited me but it wasnt up to her to invite me cuz i was supposed to ride with my bestfriends. this isnt the first time they didnt include me. they never include me in anything. i always end up invitin myself to stuff. wut should i do?
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Hey hun!
I think you should talk to your friends, and tell them it makes you feel horrible when they don't invite you to anything. Point out that they probably wouldn't like it very much if you didn't invite them anywhere. If I were you, I would probably go out and do something really fun sometime with some other friends, and tell everyone about it, but don't invite them. Make them really jealous by telling them what your going to do and how much fun your going to have. Once their not invited, they'll feel really bad and realize how their not being fair to you. It might actually work, maybe they'll start inviting you to do things with them instead of you having to invite yourself! You should try it. They really are not being good friends though, because if they were real friends they would be including you in everything they do. The proper thing to do would be to at least ask if you wanna do something, but instead they leave you out of the picture. If you wanted to, you could also just stop hanging out with them for a while, and maybe they'll realize their not having as much fun as they can be because your not in the picture, and their not being fair to you. It's happened to me before. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Good luck with this. Let me know what you decide to do about this.
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I Have A GREAT Friend but she sometimes makes fun of the way I look like she will say " your nose looks weird or you have a double chin! haha" and She isnt a serious person and It hurts my feelings. What Can I say to her! Please dont say things like "Slap her, hit her, etc." (link)
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Hey hun!
Awwww that is horrible! I'm sorry! That's really mean that your friend makes fun of the way you look. Any true friend would not make fun of the way their friend looks. You need to let her know that when she says things about the way you look, it makes you feel horrible. After letting her know she should stop, but if not you should really stop talking to her. That is not a real friend at all. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions.
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14/f....i just started high school and have made a lot of new friends...some are popular and some are not. i hang out with the non-popular group every single day at lunch but i always have the other Popular group in the back of my mind. in my heart i know i want to hang out with the popular group not just for the guys or w/e but b/c of the people. easy right? i should hang out with the popular kids if my heart is set on it. WRONG...i kinda, sorta dont want to stop hanging out with the nonpopular kids b/c of their whole group, the guys, friends, etc...but i dont know which group..please help..thanx
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Hey hun,
Just think about who you enjoy hanging out with more! It shouldn't be that hard to decide. If I were you, I would hang out with the nonpopular kids, because I would feel as if I don't fit in with the popular kids. Popular people tend to think their so much better than everyone else, and their way too snobby. I can't stand that. You don't want people to think your too good for everyone else. Decide which group you would rather hang out with, but I would choose the nonpopular if I were you. I know you'll make the right decision. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm so sorry. Let me know which group you pick please! :) If you have any other questions, just leave them in my inbox. Luv ya!
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Hello. I was just at my friends yesterday and from about 6 to 10 she was on the computer talking to her "internet boy friend" so i hung out with her sister. Then this morning same thing over again. Her dad even told her that it was rude and she didnt care and she knew i was upset. Shes the one that invited me so it makes very little sense too me. Shes my best friend and i dont want to stop being her friend or going to her house but shes a little to attached to her computer. What should i do? (link)
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Hey hun,
That's mean as hell that your friend did that to you. She shouldn't just invite you over and stay on the internet while your there. She should be hanging out with you while your over, and staying off the internet. I'm sorry to hear that. You need to tell her that it makes you upset that she sits on the internet when your over her house. If she's a real friend, she'll start hanging out with you and not sitting on the internet while your over. Try going over her house again and see if she stays on the internet talking to people after you just talked to her about not doing that. If she does the same thing, then I think you need to tell her your not going to go to her house again until she stops going on the internet while your over. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! Let me know how everything goes. Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions. \
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lately my best friend and i haven't been having the most fun. she's much more outgoing than me, and i often get left out in the dust. also, even though several people don't like her because of her loud, bossy style, she's convinced she's better than me. i really want to make the friendship work, because from grades 3-6 we've been the best of friends, but i've been working hard to keep it together for almost 2 years now, and she hardly ever talks to me anymore. i don't know what to do anymore. should i try to work more at the friendship, because sometimes we do have a lot of fun, or should i give up, or should i just spend less time with her but still keep her as a friend? i'm sorry this question is so long, but please answer anyways. thanks=D (link)
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Hey hun,
I'm sorry! That's not right at all. I was in the same situation as you with my old best friend. She stopped talking to me, and she never wanted to hang out with me anymore when we used to hang out every single day! I got sick of it, so we don't even talk anymore. If I were you, I would just forget about this girl, because she doesn't seem like a real friend at all. A real friend would keep in touch with you after being friends for all those years, and hang out with you a lot.That's a long time! If she thinks shes better than everyone else, than why would you wanna hang out with her anyway? That's horrible. Noone is better than anyone else. You really need to get rid of this girl. My best friend and I were friends for 4 years, but we're not anymore. I know you can find better friends than her. You deserve better hun! I really hope I helped you out. If I didn't I'm so sorry. Luv ya! Please let me know how everything goes okay? Luv ya!
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about 3 months ago me and my " best friend " qot into a HUGE fiqht .. she did me soo wrong .. after a while we decided to squish the beef and just be friends .. the thing is i dont just want to be friends .. i want to be best friends again but we barely talk and when we do its like hi .. wuhts up ? .. and bye .. ii really miss her but i dont know what she thinks. i want to be strong about it and forget about her cause of what she did but i cant .. its hard when everytime i see her online or talk to her i have flashbacks of when we were best friends and all the jokes and insiders we had together .. now she got other friends and its like i dont exist until she wants something or needs advice for something. i just dont know what to do .. forget about her and worry about my real friends or what ?!?!?!? i need heLp ASAP (link)
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Hey hun,
I'm really sorry. That sounds exactly like me and my old best friend. I always think about when we were friends, and how we went everywhere together. Now we don't even talk anymore. If I were you I would just forget about her, and worry about your real friends. If she was a real friend, she would talk to you a whole lot more and actually wanna hang out with you. I'm so sorry that you guys hardly even talk anymore. I feel the same way as you do. I hope everything works out for you! Forget about her! You deserve better friends than that! I hope I helped hun! If not, I'm really sorry. If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Luv ya!
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16/m. You've probably heard this topic before, and might even be sick of it, but I am curious to know what any and all of you think a 'nice guy' is. Is he a pushover? or is he the one who will lend a should to cry on? I want to know what you personally think a nice guy is, what qualities and personality traits would follow him, if you would want to have a nice guy as a boyfriend, and should there be more of them. Sorry it's a long question, but because too many people have so many different views on what exactly a nice guy is; I think this will offer everyone a chance to see things from a different perspective - nobody is right or wrong in this one. I'm not complaining saying its a bad thing or praising them either, just curious. Thanks (link)
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Hey sweetie,
To me a nice guy is someone who will do nice things for his girlfriend out of the blue, someone who tries to cheer his girlfriend up when shes not feeling good at all, someone who doesn't lie or cheat, someone who won't pressure a girl into doing something she doesn't want to do, someone who won't ignore his girlfriend in front of his friends just to make himself look good,someone who wants a long relationship and doesn't jump around from 1 girl to the next,and I would love if it a guy would watch chick flicks with his girlfriend if she ever wanted to. Too many guys that I talk to act like they can't watch any chick flicks, or they'll go crazy. I,myself, would want a nice guy as a boyfriend, because it would make me the happiest girl in the world. It's so hard to find a nice guy these days, and so many girls get their hearts broken. It takes them a while to get over this. I would feel very lucky to have a nice boyfriend, and I hope someday I can find a guy like that. Since you asked this question, it seems as if you are a very nice guy. Don't ever change yourself, and some girl will be so lucky to have you one day. I hope I helped you out hun! I'm so sorry my answer is so long. If you need anything else, just drop one in my inbox. Luv ya!
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alright so i have this friend named ben. ben is dating this girl named jenny. me and ben havent been known each other for too long, but we both feel like we've become the best of friends. well, jenny is starting to really really hate me cause she thinks im trying to steal ben away cause im always hanging out with him and walking with him and stuff. i kinda understand how she feels but i dont wanna lose benny because of her. should i just lay off of ben for a while? or tell jenny to get lost? (link)
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Hey sweetie,
Yea, this may be a problem. I really don't think you should lay off ben at all. What I think you should do though is sit down with Ben and Jenny, and explain to her that you guys are just friends and that your not trying to steal him away from her. If she really has that big of a problem than why is she with him? She should be able to trust him. I think you are fine. Don't stop talking to him or anything. You are doing nothing wrong. x3
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My friend played a joke on me and I know she was kidding..but I took it too seriously.I yelled at her in class..and then she was trying to talk to me after school but I ignored her and got in my car..I feel so horrible but I'm still mad..What should I do? (link)
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Hi hunny,
If you know it was a joke, then I would forgive her. Now if she embaressed you or something similar to that, I think you should talk to her and tell her how that was wrong to do, and that you really didn't like it or it made you feel bad. Then you should forgive her. I hope I helped. x3
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i have a group of good friends. this is the 3rd time that me and my friend were left out of a sleepover. we havent been invited to one. we seem to all be very close but it puzzles me how its the same girls having sleepovers while me and her are left out. is this shady to you? what should we do? is this messed up..am i overreacting..should we just accept that somee people in the 'crew' will be closer to some than others? any feedback and/or personal experiences is appreciated (link)
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Hi sweetie,
No you're not overreacting at all. If everyone is close in the "crew", there is no reason you two are always left out. If some people are in closer in the crew, then how come you and your friend are always left out? I'm sorry but I really don't think that your "crew" is being all that fair to you guys. Yea it is very messed up. Start talking to more people than just them, or why don't you two start hanging out more and leave the rest of them out. Maybe then they'll get the picture. I hope I helped you in some way hunny! x3
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okay...this may seem strange but it feels like all my friends are turning on me...I had my 13th birthday party on sunday and invited 20 of my clostest firends to my house and well sunday came and only 12 showed up...these ppl i know have to be my rly clostest firends but here are the reasons for why most of them couldnt come
Me: hey maria are you coming to my party on sunday
Maria: no sorry i cant because im grounded
Me: oh so you arent going to Karissas the day befroe?
Maria: oh well i can go to that one and that one only
If you think that ones bad listen to these...
Chelsey: gotta do my homework! i have WAY to much homework
Lindsay: Sorry Sam my mom wont let me cause i didnt do all my homework yet
Karissa: my mom wont let me cause i didnt do my homework yet
Rachel F: i cant because i have too much homework
SPECIAL NOTE: all the ppl above cept maria slept over karissas house after her party and the best thing is WE DIDNT HAVE ANY HOMEWORK!!!
please help me ill rate 5's unless the advice is mean
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Hi Hunny,
I'm so sorry about your party, if I knew you I for sure would've went to your party. I think you should start to find some new friends. besides those ones. I really don't feel that that was right, what they did to you. That is very mean and you deserve better than that. I really hope you'll take my advice. Feel free to leave anything in my inbox if you need anymore help!
Bye sweetie!x3
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i moved like a year ago, and everytime i try to get together with my old friends they come up with some lame excuse. i dont know what to think. (link)
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Hey hun! I think that you should try talking to your friends, and asking them about it. Tell them that you feel their always making up excuses so they don't have to do anything with them. You shouldn't just assume that their making up excuses. They could really be busy when you ask them, so maybe they can't do anything. Or like you said, they could be making up excuses. I don't think your friends would just make up excuses though so they don't have to do anything with you. I'm sure they miss you! I know I would miss my friends if they moved, and I would definitely wanna do stuff with them. Before you get mad at them for anything, I would suggest that you talk to them about it. Find out why they can't do anything. Ask them if their making up excuses, or if they really can't go anywhere. I'm sure they have good reasons. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Good luck! I'm sure everything will turn out great for u! :) Let me know how it goes ok?
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What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate! (link)
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If I had a boyfriend and they cursed my best friend out for no apparent reason, I would bitch at my boyfriend! I would tell him that it's not right that he's bitching at my best friend and that it makes me feel bad. If your boyfriend can't get along with your best friend, then how are all of you guys going to get along if you are all together? You should stick up for your friend and tell your boyfriend that he shouldn't be cursing her out for no apparent reason, because It's not right at all. If you don't say anything to your boyfriend about this, then your friendship with your best friend could possibly end, and that wouldn't by very good. I'm sure you don't want to lose your best friend. I know I would never want to lose my best friend. I wouldn't be able to live if I lost my best friend. Your best friend should always come before your boyfriend. I would say talk to your boyfriend and tell him that it bothers you when he curses your best friend out for no apparent reason. If he doesn't listen, and still continues to curse at her for no apparent reason at all then I would say he's not a very good boyfriend at all. If he doesn't stop cursing at your best friend, then I think you should end your relationship with your boyfriend. I know it would be hard, but you gotta do what you gotta do. I'm sure It'll be very hard to tell your boyfriend about this, but I think he'll understand. I think that he should stop cursing at your best friend for no apparent reason. Don't worry, he'll listen to you. If not, then break up with him. Alright, well I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! Good luck! Everything should work out.
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I'm in 8th grade. This is my last year at m school, and I have become like really close with these two girls. Like and we are going to differnt highschools, but they are the only people that I can actually tell them stuff. I'm like really scared because i need one of them to talk to at school..to help me with my problems and stuff! how am i going to survive with out them?! i am totally scared! mauhh
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Don't worry. This isn't a problem. I'm sure you'll be able to make many new friends when you go to highschool. You can still talk to your other 2 friends. You can go to the mall or the movies or go and eat with them. They can even go over your house or you can go over their houses. You shouldn't worry about this at all. You'll probably be scared at first without them, but you'll make new friends real fast. You'll get used to not seeing your friends in school. Other than this, you should have no problem with hanging out with them and seeing them. Well, I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions, then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them for you! Bye hun! Good luck! Don't worry, everything should be fine.
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what should i do my friend is mad at me for some reason really upset might lose my best friend :( (link)
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You should talk to your friend and ask them why their mad at you. Tell them that you are really upset, and that you don't want to lost them as a friend. You should tell your friend that it's really hurting you that their mad at you. I'm sure if you talked to your friend, you guys could start getting along again. Don't be upset! Everything should be fine. If your friend can't forgive you, then their not a really good friend. You shouldn't be friends with someone that can't forgive you for a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes and they should be forgiven for those mistakes. Well, I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer any questions that you might have for me. Bye hun! Good luck! Don't worry. Everything should be fine.
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ok i just got in 7th grade and everything seemed to change between me and my best friend we are gettin in all these fights and she is ALWAYS choosing her boyfriend over me and i tend to get mad at that cause she seems to choose me over me EVERYDAY like one day she spent the night with me and she goes ill be right back and she went upstairs and snuck on the computer to talk to him!! i know in jr. high things change!! how could i keep things from changing as much between me and my best friend!! (link)
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You should tell your best friend how you feel. You should tell her that it hurts you that she chooses her boyfriend over you. Suggest to her that it would be a good idea to make time for you and her boyfriend seperately. Tell her that you want to be able to spend time alone with her and hanging out with her, instead of her always wanting to hang out and talk to her boyfriend. If she doesn't change, then I think you should find some new friends. Your friend should be able to make time for you. If she can't, then she's not a real friend.
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