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everything seemed to change
ok i just got in 7th grade and everything seemed to change between me and my best friend we are gettin in all these fights and she is ALWAYS choosing her boyfriend over me and i tend to get mad at that cause she seems to choose me over me EVERYDAY like one day she spent the night with me and she goes ill be right back and she went upstairs and snuck on the computer to talk to him!! i know in jr. high things change!! how could i keep things from changing as much between me and my best friend!!
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ok...this is wat you need to tell her, guys will come and go in and out of your life, and trust me there will be more than enough of them, but friends...true best friends will be there for you forever, through thick and thin, and no matter what you will always be there for her, but she needs to know that no guy what so ever should ever come in between friends!
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You should tell your best friend how you feel. You should tell her that it hurts you that she chooses her boyfriend over you. Suggest to her that it would be a good idea to make time for you and her boyfriend seperately. Tell her that you want to be able to spend time alone with her and hanging out with her, instead of her always wanting to hang out and talk to her boyfriend. If she doesn't change, then I think you should find some new friends. Your friend should be able to make time for you. If she can't, then she's not a real friend.
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try talkin' with her about it, tell her how you feel and ask for one day a month or every few months just for the two of you. pedicures, magazines, gossip, and ice cream. it's gonna be ok!
best of luck, from someone who's been there
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